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Yomieluv:
You are ok,nothing is wrong.

U try. Perfect example of being ur bro's keeper.

See advice.

olumide81:
Yes...its a wrong thing to do no doubt, but most of us love good sex and could go any lenght to have it, i will only pray that God in his infinite mercy help his wife to discover her ssexual form and win back this man totally.

Bros, gbagbe ssexual form, this guy's coordinates are already locked. Nothing the wife wants to do.

Only God can help this guy. U know stolen water is sweet.

PunkyVeer:
How is having sex making me a bad person? My heart & character is probably more stellar than someone choosing not to have sex for more calculative/manipulative reasons. You can't convince me that every virgin out there is a good person at heart

I'm not convincing you of anything. Not having sex doesn't make one the best of homo sapiens, of course. I was simply amazed at ur seeming dislike of the op, just take am easy sha.

Ain't got naught against u.

PunkyVeer:
So who cares? You made your decision. You quacks need to quit shoving your medieval beliefs down people throats. It's a free world.

See how someone's righteous living is making u hurt , spewing crap.
The truth is the truth, good will always remain good no matter whose stomach churns.
Big up to all the virgins in Nigeria.

octopusfreaky:
I said very" deep ,core and fanatic'" Christian brother..

I'm a Christian who as much as lies in my power tries to uphold Christian morals and values, I love to have a wife with above average boobs, cos I like em. But if its a core, deep and fanatic christian bro u looking for, it is well with u o.

pearlyme:
maybe it's d way I put it, all my trying to pass across is that there are still nice people out there, I don't love him, it's just suprising.

With my response to you, I actually tot u would lash out at me. If I may ask, who dont u love? Well that's a rhetorical question.

Remember, nothing goes for nothing esp when it concerns male-female liaison. Except u think u can spread all for this 'good man' and move on, which I won't advice. If u serious about ur bf, leave dis 'good man'.

Good man has turned good bf to gawkster, choi, bf pele o.

DReaper:
am new and I opened this account because am practically confused and i have read nairalander's honest answer to other people's questions. I met this dude and he has become a better person since then and he is amazing. we have our own issues and we forgive each other a lot. we all have our own shortcomings but I have a problem that is gradually becoming huge. its secrecy. I check his accounts and he has plenty of them and I see things that do not look nice, we talk about them and we let it go. what marvels me is that he changes his password immediately I find out that something is wrong. I really want to marry him if this works out but there are a lot of things I would rather stay single than worry about in marriage. when he changes these codes, it looks as if he's hiding things because sometimes I end up still seeing some dirty stuffs again after a long while. I trust him but we are best of friends and the only secret are codes. he says he doesnt check mine so I shouldn't check his and the last time I gave him my password, I haven't changed it since then and I even saw once that he had logged into my account and I didnt feel like he was intruding and it was nothing special to me but I cant just throw away my suspicions and marry someone I don't know in depth. I practically don't believe in keeping privacy between two people who want to start life together, we are both in our mid twenties and i think the next thing on our minds is marriage. we have talked about the changeand he said it wont continue but it is still continuing. I dont know what to do.

U have fallen in love, its very obvious and its a shame.

If u were walking in love, u woulda known that this relationship is not what you should be in for more than u have been. Look at urself thinking about marriage, contunu ehn.

My 2cents, gerrrout of this thing u call a relationship cos its not looking good.

I myself am an SSS - Single Seriously Searching.

fernandoc:
Number four and one is not a guarantee, you might be in for an unpleasant surprise.

Haha, u haf hit the head on d nail.

McCarlito:
Women and there small brain sef.....

Say 'many women', dont generalize. Not all a dem are small brained, some can really think right.

pearlyme:
I am a young lady in my late 20s. I am in my second relationship ever and in love but just about a. Year ago, I met an older man who has been taking care of my financial needs no strings attached to the extent that im having a soft spot for him right now. He worries about me sends me stuffs even before I ask. Am so worried that he is even more emphatic than my boyfriend! It hurts that d wrong one loves me right becos I will never tamper with a man's family. I wish my bf will be much more than what he is, I hate it that someone can still affect me besides him. God help me

Self deceit of the highest grade. What is it that ur bf isn't doin that u'd want him to do more of? Tell him abeg.
But the truth is all wat u getting from this man, ur bf tho u 'love' him cannot afford it now.
This is one of the many materialistic girls around, yes. Leave ur bf and go with this man abeg; quit behaving as if u dont know what u doing.

This is why the Empire area around Jibowu was notorious. Fela spoilt a lot of girls' lives sha.

If art means nuffin to you, gerrarahia with alacrity.

This is a splufik concept.

Cutehector:
I duno why people get worked up in life.. Dat someone cheats on u without u two being legally bound doesn't mean u will begin to do all manner of things against dat person..


I will sound this to evryone readin my comment, evryboyfrnd or girlfrnd is absolutely free to do whatever he or she pleases as long as they havnt made any vows whatsoever to u. U don't own them, and they don't own u.

Wat u saying?

Zizaboni:
Lemme share my story... I need ur advices... During my ND programme, 2nd year at a reputable well known Polytechnic..... I met with a lady, we attended the same fellowship.. We even live in the same place, later there was strike throughout the whole Polytechnic, she went home 'n I was in school.. We started chatting and I started falling for this lady. I knew she had a boyfriend, she never gave me a chance sef to date to her. But I never gave up, later on the strike ended.. She came back, I started bin nice to her, cared for her, call her even though we stay in the same place. She started to fall for me, finally she said yes to me a day after her birthday. She even told me her story, I even thought she was a virgin but wen this lady told me her story, was so much disappointed. But yet I still loved her. Our love grew so much but I told her dt she can stil b dating the boifrnd at home or beta say at anoda skul... We had so much misunderstanding most time all bcox of her ex ex boifrnd... She stil chat with him, the guy sef nA cultist... I warned her several times, but she wunt change. So that cause a lot of misunderstanding BTW us... But we use to reconcile. We have kissed, romance each other but no sex.... Dnt forget that I tod u that she has a boifrnd at home. She promised to cut off her ties with the home boifrnd weneva she gets home Cox we were almost rounding up our programme.... She went home 'n on Jan 1st 2015.. She didn't even tell me happy new year, the first thing she told me was that she slept with her home boifrnd in the new year midnight. I was at home that time, I got angry with her and rod off to her area Cox I no there. But was surprised she told me that she was just joking..... We moved on, but later one day, she told me that she wants to be alone. But I knew it's a lie, maybe she wants to go back to the former boifrnd.... We exchange words 'n she came to my house to give me the last kiss 'n romance... Tried to change her mind but all to no avail. We rili exchange angry words with each other ooo. That was all in January... Later on, saw her msg in August, she said she stil loves me 'n she was told dt I am her husband.. I am confused now cox I dnt tink I love her like before. Even if I say yes, I will just b having sex with her and later break up but I dnt wana take an eye for an eye Cox I am a good Christian and I am looking forward to having a clean 'n honest lady.... What shud I do abt my ex GF bcox for now, I tod her no way 'n barred her from chatting with me..

Dude, I understand u wella. The issue is you are lusting after this girl, to be truthful. My advice is leave her alone, so you would not waste the attention u shoulda given to a better girl on this one, and also these types of girls dont know what they want and would surely land u in trouble.
God would help you.

jascon1:
I strongly agree with them. Many Churches are financial establishments and scam stations. Catholic schools were free back in the days. Working in the church is a volunteer job and a humanitarian one. The church makes too much from tithe, offering and donation etc... Is time to put the money back into the church for the poor n needy n stop enriching self-acclaimed men of god

Like seriously? You prolly dont know what u saying.
On this topic tho, I would say the fees could be high buh they could help the indigent peeps by making a lot more opportunities available via scholarships.

Wait Bros, was this her mode of dressing before marriage or she changed to this after marriage ( which I very much doubt). If the former was the case, oga take am like that o. Me thinks nagging her about her dressing NOW is actually counter productive and may be what is driving her to stay away from you as much as possible - another guy(s) is/are appreciating the package more than you do.

Most times we think we can change people, we need to know before marriage what we can accept (live with) and what we cannot accept. And make a decision on overlooking what might not be too ok with us.

God help u bro, with ur sexy wife.

Dont worry, ur husband too will one day hug another probably more beautiful looking lady in your presence. When that happens, ask this kweshon again, I will answer u.

Mscheew

For me, that was an irresponsible statement coming from a would be minister and someone who claims to be a non-terroristic Muslim.

Let any God-forsaken group rise up and say they are a Christian militia bombing and destroying lives and property, you would see pastors, men of God denounce the idiots vocally and without mincing words. But its clear now what goes on the mind of the Muslim religious leaders.

Never have I heard the early morning call to prayers vehemently and clearly denouncing terrrorism even with the extent of evil being perpetrated by these people.

Demmzy15:
You like showing yourself, flexing unnecessary muscles. Even the most severe Hamas fighter still protect Palestinian Christians, you know nothing about the Palestinian and Israel issue. The last time we had a discussion on this, you ran away.

You support Israel against Palestinians, but you don't know that Palestinian Christians suffer too. In fact Israel disturbs the Christians in Hebron and West Bank. This why they say ignorance kills, keep supporting Israel in their war against your brethren. Hypocrite!! !!

Oh! I see. No wonder Christians refuse to go to Jerusalem cos they might get killed. Muslims go to Mecca and they all come back, as the news tells us every year.

Mscheeew. We all know who is more bloodthirsty. Its audible to the deaf n visible to the blind.

Yunus2012:
I wonder if you will agree to this your own statement if you were in there shoes.

If someone should cut your fathers one plot of land into 10 parts and hand you just one part and then controls you movement into that 1/10 portion and then slaps you every morning just because he has the might and he is supported by everyone on the street, will you still feel the same way.

Intact you should be considered a hero even if all you could do is try to hold his hand every morning when he tries to slap you.

That is what is happening betwening Palestinians and isreal.

Its really great when someone tells you that the only thing they stand for is for you and your generation to be wiped out from the face of the earth. You would, as a man, take that lying low.

Mscheew.

chuna1985:
Well Israelites are not Christians.

But Christians are Israelites, ehn. Chew on that.

gab264:
Op I understand,
It not a small task, as some will fink.
Wish u all dah best if ur sincere though, the joy of being a virgin lasts and the blessings that follows is uncountable.
Wish u best of thaa best.

You will live long, jare.

because the crowd is busy bleeping themselves doesn't make it right before or outside marriage.

Whoever wants to be lyk the op, God would give u d strength. Its not been easy for I myself but God has helped me...I just dey sorry for my wife, cos all the pent up...hmmm.

The truth will always be the truth, no matter how anybody feels about it.

Me thinks threads like this should be closed forthwith. The magnitude of senseless hate talk here is alarming. If blacks are warring against themselves like this, what justification do we have to stand up against black-white racism.

To all those busy insulting themselves on this thread, shame on you.

amiskurie:
Gay couple alert

Az in, ehn. Very suspicious foto.

[quotthor=Mrsbieber post=39117219]den d sam tin wil happen wit d next gf he gets he wont want to av much sex wit her so he wil av sidechick break up wit mainchick den two months into d relationship sidechick gets pregnant marries her den break up her and it just continues lyk dat best tin is to sit her down and talk tins out.[/quote]Don't mind him. D best tin sef is to sit himself down and talk to himself.

seunfunmi33:
I have a girlfriend have dated for 5 years. Am the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till l when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.
I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street. The new gf did not disturb my relationship with my long time gf. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main gf and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.
She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.
She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.
Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take

Shoro niyen?

You cheated on ur main gf because of sex and u're concerned ur wife will cheat on u because of sex?

O ga o. We humans are really sth else. I think you know what to do - find another girl to heat with.

Essential dog. Veeeery funny

Cant be patient to go thru the whole thing. Abeg u these poopoo find sth else to do, huh? Looking for 'sheap' popularity...mbok let Iweala be.

When you accept a Fulani person and give him land to use, its either you or your generation coming that would suffer for it. Its not that I hate them, I will not be like that, its what I have noticed after studying their activities overtime.
The Fulanis are just like the cowboys of Texas etc and you need to understand what they are. They are aggressive and very fit. When they rob, they are not robbers but raiders - ruthless to the bone. You gotta be careful of them, especially those roaming uneducated ones - confirm cowboys na im dem be.

Do I need advice? I'm a guy who has female friends but finds it difficult to have any meaningful relationship and its giving me concerns. I get tired of ladies antics easily. Recently a friend of mine said 'guy, ta l'on ya ode fun' meaning who are u being a fool for, it was then it dawned on me that seems to be my issue - not to be fooled by any girl. I also seem not to be able to trust easily. Physically, God's been good to me - 189cm, I also dont think I am wowoh. I grew up a shy guy, having problems with ladies my age but flow well with older ladies. Any advice for a broda?