MrBrownJay1:


bro, A) how do you know that this man aint paying?! would you really believe anything this woman says about this man, after he dumped her?! many give what they CAN, while many deluded babymamas wants unreasonable amounts so that they can live in Banana island and drive Bentleys....while any smart man knows that providing her with a shack in Yaba, a bus pass and some food is JUST AS GOOD.

B) and even if he aint paying, there are many reasons under the moon why a man would STOP paying for a childs upkeep.... aka
- if babymamy get a new man in her life (aka remarried)
- babymama suddenly get a job and makes more money than babydaddy
- babydaddy becomes unemployed
- babymama refuses to allow babydaddy to spend time with his kids
- babymama uses the money on herself instead of the child's upkeep.

C) no man can get a woman pregnant ONCE (let alone three times) if that same woman didnt want it too. they BOTH got 3 kids, not just daddy...so let BOTH be responsible for the kids, not just daddy. too many deluded women think they can just have kids, then sit on their aaassses doing NOTHING, and simply wait for the paycheck to drop.

D) but most importantly, remember that providing for the child's upkeep is daddy AND mommy's job

you are still saying what I am saying

The man HAS to step up

And should be supporting based on his capability

THEY BOTH WANTED BABY AND THEY SHOULD both face the music

like I said, he is lucky he is not in Canada

he for hear am