CsRockefeller:
I've known her since my undergraduate level in 2015. We didn't date but were very close, I loved her so much and broke the friendship for her refusing to date me.

In 2017, during my convocation we got back together after much pleading from me, we got too close again. Said something wrong in early 2018 and our friendship took a nose dive.

We reconciled back in November of 2018,and I met a new girl, a girl ready to be free, to let go of the old shy and reserved girl. I liked what I was seeing, offered to take her out in December, she refused. Out of anger, I ended the friendship, on the eve of the New year.

Just one week into the new year, I began to miss her, tried reconciling with her but she wouldn't hear any of it.
ahead to block me on all platforms including Twitter that I was never a follower, more like blocking me in advance.

I really love this girl, she is everything a man would want in a future wife, I'm done with service, looking for a job, she is in her final year. With about 5 year age gap.

Seems my last action was the straw that broke the camel's back. It looks like she's never going to bend this time around, my 1 minute of a rush of blood has cost me.

What can I do to get her back if there is any hope?
She's still single but also very lonely.

I have many other female friends, but she beats them all, especially in knowledge and character.

Guys in the house, help me Pls.
Cc: Oyindidi, Lefulefu.

weyreypey:
Your self-esteem is very low. Go get a life.

DanDeeBoss:
@the bolded, haba bros

The way this relationship is nosediving... Does she even love you?? Because it seems you're forcing yourself on her

You sef, what's with the "frequent break ups”?

fayded:
you're wasting ur time, she doesn't love you. and that's the honest truth.
even if you guys end up dating later on, it won't be because she loves you,it woukd most likely be because..
a) you've grown financially, even more than her
b) her bf or love interest jilted her..
c) maybe she wants to settle down.
it won't be because of love..

CsRockefeller:


While at service, I told her that she is an enigma. That word caused the second conflict. I wasn't bothered and let her be only for her to show up around November with a totally new vibes and energy. Everytime we had an issue, she's always the one to reach out first, except this time.

DanDeeBoss:
You might be lucky, but I don't see you both enjoying this relationship...

CsRockefeller:


Thanks. That's the reason for me opening this thread. To statistically compare my chances and have a felling of what my odds are. Right now the odds are not in favor of we getting back.