tayotina:

20 years ke? Never!! Then on my wedding day, people would start asking why my daddy is in suit?? Abeg!!!!!

Gosh, could you be funnier. Anyways seriously 20 years isn't a big problem. i mean when i am 22 and a man 20 year older loves me and i love him too, why not? no biggies. (although i ain't never gon do that, how will i fall in love with a 20 year older than me guy )

I will not date any guy that is 6 year older than me, not to talk of 20 year difference.

20 years difference is too much sha
but if its ten years difference and i love the guy i will u know...........

what are the misplaced priorities of mamba's uncle. Who says a man should settle down?

20 years if it would av been 10yrs....maybe.........but 20yrs.. imagine me walking
along the road with him/holding hands

I could do with 10 years difference but 20? 

I was older than her with 13 yrs and tis was all goood until......

Yes we're listening!!!

wetin wan hear? Nah my mouth u wa hear say stella don die?

Anyhow sha tis some problem dating someone a lot younger than u. Most of the time, there is the problem of wants and needs. She will still want to do suff that young people like to do and u'll be like wat the heck is going on?? Yawa go come start to enter the whole show den kasala go come bust...

Uncle Whiteshark! Haba! 13 yrs plenty o! I can bet she was calling you "broda" or "uncle"

Very funny sweetheart, I do not use age as yard stivk in my reletionships but I tell u it really matters...

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I WOULD DATE BUT NOT MARRY SOMEONE 20 YEARS OLDER IF SHE STILL LOOKS LIKE SOMEONE IN MY AGE BRACKET BUT I DEF WILL NOT ASK A GIRL 10 YR YOUNGER OUT I WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO RELATE EFFECTIVELY WITH HER

It just doesn't sound right to me. 20 years? what the hell!! - 5 years or + 9 months (either way of my age) is the limit for me. If you guys happened to get married, I think at some stage, communication will become strained between both of you, because those those human characteristics which tend to be influenced by age will start setting in and you can't relate on the same level anymore. Where do you go from there?

Age is a matter of numbers but l won't lie to u sha, l can't date a man 20 years older than l am because we both would be thinking on a different level. very confusing senario becos he would be treating me like a baby who knows nothing and he be expecting me to look up to him like a father................ which l ain't ready to do.

Age is but a difference.I don't know if I can actually date a man 20 years older than me,I don't know.None has approached me,I pray none does,though.But as the saying goes,never say never.

proper thinking my dear, u can never know what comes up next tell u so just keep the option open just in case....

I don't get it when people say age is a matter of numbers. In what way is 20 years age-difference a matter of numbers?
Help me out here. In that case, we could have 70 years old women marrying 20years old guys, afterall it's a matter of numbers.

whiteshark:

proper thinking my dear, u can never know what comes up next tell u so just keep the option open just in case....

eemmmm(clears throat).how old are you,sharkie?

ma dad is older than ma mom wiv 22 solid yrs

my folks too have about 18 yrs in between and their marriage is a year younger than i am. it doesnt really matter as long as understanding rules.

my dad's 56 years older than my mum so........

@sweetnini, how old are you?

Sorry Sweetnini.....

but that's a lie, isn't it?

Does it really matter?
look at the pic if the couple look okay
to you then it doesnt matter
if they dont then it does matter
it is left for u to decide.

20 years older than me that is a no no, i can at least marry somebody who is 9 or 10 years older but not 20 that is just too much.

Kai!! I can do no such thing.My range is btw 5 - 10yrs.Anything less or above dt na no go area.20 yrs is a lotta yrs.I cant dare it.

20 years older ? of course i would, as long as we understand eachother and make eachother happy. its all good.

it dont matter to me

No. I think a man 20 years my senior would want me for marriage or children or as a trophy wife (an aluminum one)

But even if he's sincere about being a good friend/boyfriend/lover/husband I think the generation gap will rear it's ugly head one way or another.

Unless you want to be his mistress, walk away.

20 years diff? if i want a father - i already got one