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Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 10:24am On Mar 13, 2019 |
nwanneniiii:you are a myopic and a nonentity fellow. Common to read and comprehend you cannot. Well I don't blame you. God created weeds among lilies. Buffoon 2 Likes |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 10:27am On Mar 13, 2019 |
Gloriagee:i don't understand why some people take delight on insulting other people. What I wanted was just opinion and not insult. This has been bothering me for so long I said let me post it here and get opinions or advices |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 10:33am On Mar 13, 2019 |
victorian:I have tried to talk to my mother but she is having non of it. She is insisting he must have a house. But the first one had a house and she still refused which makes me wonder if she wants me to get married atall. This is Nigeria where both parents consent is needed before marriage and my mom is not making it easy for me. I understand her fears but it's not what I want for myself. This current one doesn't own a house and I love him so much that I don't want to let go but my mom have refused vehemently. I don't know what else to do |
Re: God will come through for me by victorian(f): 11:11am On Mar 13, 2019 |
Pinkie2018: Pardon me but What's your age? |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 12:59am On Mar 14, 2019 |
victorian:24 going on 25 |
Re: God will come through for me by Richy4(m): 10:35am On Mar 14, 2019 |
You were looking for sincere advice. ..Are u really ready for my own version?... OK here is my input... If you were my my younger sister, I would have demanded that you tell me as if I was a 5yr old why marriage should be a top priority now @ 24.. I guess U started shopping for husband @ the age of 22.. from US suitors to Malaysia ones when u should be looking for a way to make a good career.. If you get married now, what saving do u have? U just go into marriage empty handed and u expect the man to take care of u from common sanitary pad to cloth that u were wearing. Are u not indirectly handing him right over u..since u have nothing to contribute financial wise.. U are in your finals (good news) but why not wait a little and get a job or has he promised to open a lucrative business for u? If not, then I am very disappointed that u got a smart phone but u can't think smart. trying to go into a union empty handed. I was made to understand that the daughter of the land are getting smarter but U? ... And to think that adults like your father was even supporting u over this.... Look I like when people do something that makes them happy as long as it does not hurt anyone. But u are about to make a cool mistake but if u think that getting married will make u happy then go ahead... As for thinking that Your mother does not want you to get married, that is just a stupid thing to say.. Assuming you were working and were giving her money, I would have said otherwise... But your typing was based on someone who was clouded with infatuation on the fact that the "Guy was taking care of u" and u don't want to hear voice of reason.. What a matured lady would do will be is to have a mother and daughter conversation and find out the reason why your mother was giving cold shoulders to men that got no house... She might be trying to save u from the mistake she made in the past. Find out about it and go to your Father for confirmation... then u give her the assurance that it will not be like that.. My guess was something happened to her in the past that she does not want any of u to go through... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: God will come through for me by Acidosis(m): 11:31am On Mar 14, 2019 |
Your mom may influence you to marry a bad man. She may also ruin your home when you find yourself a good man. So, getting married isn't even a problem here. Staying married is! Whether you marry a good man or not, I see your mom ruining everything unless you take decisive steps. I fear 'good' people with bad parents. A lion cannot give birth to a goat. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: God will come through for me by ImaIma1(f): 12:25pm On Mar 14, 2019 |
But why are you letting her opinion ride yours concerning your life partner? If you really love a guy and you want to marry him, you shouldn't let your mum discourage you. If you are smart enough, you will see that her reasons are not anything to take seriously. You need to wise up and take your stand 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by franchasng: 7:49pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Re: God will come through for me by drmikeadams(m): 8:40pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Officialgarri:[color=#000099][/color] "And hé is taking care of me" U see girls and gold digging 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 9:00am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Pinkie2018:naija girls are gold diggers. tufiakwa 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 9:14am On Nov 23, 2019 |
EmptyCoconutHead:Nigerian guys are ass and pussy lickers. it's takes a gold digger to discover one. mofo |
Re: God will come through for me by Nobody: 9:15am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Pinkie2018:Hope you married the guy? |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 9:16am On Nov 23, 2019 |
They ignore the message and pick out a line to insult the op all the time. Pls grow up mofos 3 Likes |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 9:17am On Nov 23, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:yes as a matter of fact we are engaged and preparing for a wedding soon. I only wanted advice, but seems you are only interested in insults. Continue 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by Resurgent2016: 9:20am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Pinkie2018: Your mum's criteria for eligible suitor is building a house..... She must be Ibo.... 2 Likes |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 9:23am On Nov 23, 2019 |
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Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 9:26am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Resurgent2016:My mum experienced hell when they were living in my dad's family house with his sisters and mother. They are the major reason they aren't together today. I understand my mums point. But I'm tired of her making decisions for me. I don't want to marry based on material things. I just want a peaceful and loving marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 9:28am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Pinkie2018:I hope you go through this, before you stone me |
Re: God will come through for me by Resurgent2016: 9:29am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Pinkie2018: Ooh, I feel sorry for her. You need to take it easy with her, she has probably kept the pain inside till became an open sore that is irritated each time the subject is broached. Although renting a place should also suffice, why must he build? What if the relatives decide to move in to the husband's house and he is not inclined to ejecting them? Building is not the solution to the mischief your mum is trying to avoid 4 Likes |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 9:31am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Resurgent2016:you are right. I understand she's pained that my dad didn't fight for her and remarried. I pray what happened to her doesn't happen to me. I'm a child of divorce, I don't want my children to experience that 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 9:34am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Resurgent2016:thats what I'm trying to make her understand. Whether rented or own what matters is love and understanding. 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by Omoluabi16(m): 10:02am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Pinkie2018:So within 2 years, one has come from owerri, U.S, Malaysia and Lagos to ask for your hand in marriage.. then you're pissed because your mum refused for her good/selfish reasons. Your relationships seem quite unstable. Find someone you'll hold it out with.You're still in school, and your dad is not harsh. Stick to this Lagos guy and stand your ground with your mum. Eventually, she'll break. 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by Nobody: 10:16am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Pinkie2018:"you"? Just saw ur thread today and decided to ask if everything worked out good. I'm not interested in insults OK, I understand ur position. All d best 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 11:01am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Omoluabi16:yes we are engaged now 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by bluefilm: 11:45am On Nov 23, 2019 |
Your mom is an enemy of progress. |
Re: God will come through for me by bukatyne(f): 4:57pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Pinkie2018: Has your mom softened? If she hasn't, you need to keep her far away from your home. |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 5:10pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
bukatyne:yes but albeit grudgingly 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by Lonelypacifist6: 5:46pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Your mom is a bitter individual "sorry that" she doesn't want you to have what she didn't, a love life you had better Leave her to her bitterness. 1 Like |
Re: God will come through for me by armadeo(m): 5:48pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
This is laughable. Your mother wants a made man for you? While the act itself is understandable a man not building a house doesn't make him a failure. What if he isnt ready to build? Anyway the only thing you should know is when you marry it's you and your husband. No mother no father. Your mum doesn't want you to leave so better do what you want. You will never marry if you keep listening to her and end up miserable. The joy is yours alone and not shared when you marry. Be joyful 3 Likes |
Re: God will come through for me by ireneidiva(f): 2:33am On Nov 24, 2019 |
Pinkie2018:You are 24 in final year? Marriage shouldn't be your priority now. If you get married when you have no job, how will you get money? From your husband? Every single thing you need he will provide? Are you sure you want to do that? 3 Likes |
Re: God will come through for me by Pinkie2018(f): 2:41am On Nov 24, 2019 |
ireneidiva:so the ladies that got married while in school or the ones that got married immediately they left secondary school are now beggars or liability. Who told you I'm marrying because I need a man to shoulder my responsibilities. I just want to settle down now Pls. Who even told you I don't have handwork or I won't get a job after school. After this year I won't be 24 again..... Time Waits for no one. So the man that knows I'm in finals and decided to marry me is a fool abi. I'm hope you won't get to 30 before a man comes to marry you. |
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