EmptyCoconutHead:
naija girls are gold diggers.
tufiakwa

it's not my fault that over seas guys want me. I won't be the first. Moreover you wouldn't stop your sister from marrying one if the opportunity presents itself. Common try again

drmikeadams:
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"And hé is taking care of me"


U see girls and gold digging

I hope you make money so that you won't suffer someone daughter in the name of marriage. I have seen poor families and trust me it's an ugly site

Pinkie2018:
so the ladies that got married while in school or the ones that got married immediately they left secondary school are now beggars or liability. Who told you I'm marrying because I need a man to shoulder my responsibilities. I just want to settle down now Pls. Who even told you I don't have handwork or I won't get a job after school. After this year I won't be 24 again..... Time Waits for no one. So the man that knows I'm in finals and decided to marry me is a fool abi. I'm hope you won't get to 30 before a man comes to marry you.

You asked for advice. I gave mine. You don't have to take it. Only think about it. You also don't have to be rude.

I have graduated already and my mum is already making calls to fix me a job. Hubby to be is also working towards that. So you see I wasn't planning to go to his house and be a burden. I want to build a family with him and a future. I also bake and decorate well so thanks for your advice.

I have graduated already and my mum is already making calls to fix me a job. Hubby to be is also working towards that. So you see I wasn't planning to go to his house and be a burden. I want to build a family with him and a future. I also bake and decorate well so thanks for your advice.

Officialgarri:
Your mum is a gold digger and I see the trait in you too

FYI, my mum is a graduate,owns her own house and drives cars with other properties to her name. She just doesn't want me to end up like her, "divorced" because she married a "mummy's boy". The house issue was because my father never had a house of his own when they were married so they stayed in his family house with his siblings and mother who made my mums life a living hell of which they eventually drove her off. But I'm just tired of her making decisions for me. Stop been judgemental. If you don't have what to say it's best you just let it slide. OK bye

Pinkie2018:
I hope you make money so that you won't suffer someone daughter in the name of marriage. I have seen poor families and trust me it's an ugly site

am not getting married

Pinkie2018:
I just don't know what else to do.

at 24. Chillax na

extremelygolden:
My dear, you better go ahead and marry. Hence you have God, your father and other members of the family in support, kindly start preparation for your wedding.

Your mother wants to ruin your life. Don't allow her make you end up an old maid in her house.

True talk.Bless you

drmikeadams:
am not getting married

lol ok better

ednut1:
at 24. Chillax na

ok

Happinesswithin:
True talk.Bless you

Thank you, jare.
Bless you too.

Pinkie2018:
his family actually contributed to their separation but my mum is taking everything to heart even after many years. A man mustn't own his own house before marriage. I just want to settle down. My mum troubles my life, she doesn't give me a breathing space under her roof

Be careful of this...Take your time and ask your mum what she looks for in a man.And more importantly to be honest all those your suitors have K-leg except the last one.

The last person you can cry to if things go weary is her of which it must definitely go weary because no body can understand your pains more than her.No mother will wish her seeds bad,take ur time once more.

Pinkie2018:
She just doesn't want me to end up like her, "divorced" because she married a "mummy's boy". The house issue was because my father never had a house of his own when they were married so they stayed in his family house with his siblings and mother who made my mums life a living hell of which they eventually drove her off.

To be honest her reasoning is okay, I have a relative who also lived in their family house with a bunch of sisters and it was a disaster.

She's trying to help but I understand how you would get frustrated

Pinkie2018:
so the ladies that got married while in school or the ones that got married immediately they left secondary school are now beggars or liability. Who told you I'm marrying because I need a man to shoulder my responsibilities. I just want to settle down now Pls. Who even told you I don't have handwork or I won't get a job after school. After this year I won't be 24 again..... Time Waits for no one. So the man that knows I'm in finals and decided to marry me is a fool abi. I'm hope you won't get to 30 before a man comes to marry you.

Lol, nothing is wrong with marrying early if your husband can care for you. Dont mind that lady saying nonsense and the other lazy men on this thread. It's a shame many men are hiding under the umbrella of bad economy to be lazy and run away from their duties of being provider.