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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by stzy(m): 1:49pm On Mar 29, 2019
I was abused at 5, 7 and at 8years old... I was f8cking awesome...

Now I'm a freak

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Benosky011(m): 2:13pm On Mar 29, 2019
I had such experienced same while growing up, in my 7s too.
But just as the writer would say,who will beleive it when the boy child is harassed and treated against his wish?
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by jantavanta(m): 2:29pm On Mar 29, 2019
MicroBox:
Almost 80% of boy child have experience one form of molestation or the other. Especially 80s and 90s

Maybe because that was when maids and "aunties" started to take over the home as mothers became full time workers.

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by jossyco(m): 3:02pm On Mar 29, 2019
spiceadole:
Sex is always a trophy for men. Men always hunt, want, enjoy sex. They even compare it to food. That's why.

Men, you said. He was a child!

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Fathertony: 3:02pm On Mar 29, 2019
Or11:
I’m too ashamed to tell my story
give it a shot grin
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by princehinnex: 3:07pm On Mar 29, 2019
noisy45:



U must be mad you melanzana
I didn't insult u am just saying u are ignorant of the psychological effect it has
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Marlhyk: 3:17pm On Mar 29, 2019
Nah wa ooooo
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by olatunyemi(m): 3:25pm On Mar 29, 2019
Many of us are sexually abused. I even told her it's wrong but she told me even my Islamic teacher has wife. I locked up because I was small to argue

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by TRAVEL101(m): 3:34pm On Mar 29, 2019
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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by ManirBK: 3:40pm On Mar 29, 2019
Or11:
I’m too ashamed to tell my story
Means you are victim too
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by ManirBK: 3:42pm On Mar 29, 2019
publicenemy:
Same thing happened to me at that same age and I enjoyed it.... When I think about it today I still enjoy it...


At 7 nobody can force you to lick her vag1na...
Do you mean there is enjoyment in it @7?
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Charles4075(m): 4:10pm On Mar 29, 2019
chiommy123:
Why didn't you report to your dad or mum? There's a way you say something's they know you're not kidding at all
Tell the parents what exactly Do you think its possible. The one at my area, the maid's mother caught her but kept it quiet until a neighbour caught her again red-handed before she started confessing all the escapades they've had.

Now guess what some foolish old stupid demonic women said - - - - - Na man he be na. After all, nothing spoil under there.

Forgetting the fact that the kid might be affected psychologically.

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by 6ixT8: 4:14pm On Mar 29, 2019
Most of an relate. Awon agbaya everywhere. undecided
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Nobody: 4:23pm On Mar 29, 2019
This is sad. No need to downplay this advise cos he's a male. It should be a lesson to parents. Beware of the people you bring into your house to take care of your children. Do trust them blindly. Keep an eye on them or you might regret later
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by nuelzz04(m): 4:34pm On Mar 29, 2019
Budex40:


Baba no b only u ooo. D kind toto(s) wey i finger + fvck btwn d ages of 5-12 no b for here. Worse part, na my 2 cousins dey do me. If d elder finish with me, d younger go take over. So tey, i remember waking up one afternoon with her pu*sy stradled on my pen*s(she wanked my 6-year old dick to erection before straffing it). Make i no talk d number of times i suck breast for bathroom. Worse part, each of them were doing it without d knowledge of the other. I could remember d day d elder just told me to finger her clit for over 1hr. D stupid girl was squeezing her laps on my "arm, moaning in all sorts of sounds and releasing some sticky slimy liquid" all over my hand(she was 21 @ d time). D younger would beat d shit out of me if i didnt suck her breasts or "do"(our name for fvcking). When i realized there was no help in d situation, i simply began to play along and enjoy it fah. Na for small pickin i don know say toto get one small pinkish thing(Clitoris) wey dey sweet woman if u rob am gently. I actually mastered d art of fingering @ age 9 by d time I was 11, I don dey god-mode. She would make me sneak into her room @ night to finger her to orgasm and bribe me with Cowbell or sweets. They really messed me up.

Some Men did not become Sexual predators by choice, they were molested till they became beasts.
this is statutory rape!
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by ochibuogwu5: 4:36pm On Mar 29, 2019
Imarnuel10:
This is sad. No need to downplay this advise cos he's a male. It should be a lesson to parents. Beware of the people you bring into your house to take care of your children. Do trust them blindly. Keep an eye on them or you might regret later
Sure, you are very correct. the issue is *blind trust* from the parents *view-point*.
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Nobody: 4:52pm On Mar 29, 2019
That shit happened to me around 5, but till now only told my bro and few people, it has never disturbed or affected me in any shape or way, I just don't bring it up cuz it's not worth sharing. It happens alot but guys don't consider it as trauma if anything na early experience. unless you were molested by a guy lipsrsealed

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Nobody: 5:10pm On Mar 29, 2019
its hard to say but the boy child really needs more attention, growing up i felt i was the only one suffering this, but just take a look at the number of victims here. is it because we dont complain?

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Nobody: 5:31pm On Mar 29, 2019
Lies, lies and more lies. The guy is probably a pornographic writer. And all of you that are sharing your stories about being raped by your maids, you are all lying!
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by noisy45(m): 5:54pm On Mar 29, 2019
princehinnex:

I didn't insult u am just saying u are ignorant of the psychological effect it has

Your opinion noted
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by LeJeun3: 7:14pm On Mar 29, 2019
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by Witnesstony28: 7:20pm On Mar 29, 2019
I had the same experience when I was younger may be around 5 yrs or same as him. Same people, our maid violated me! This rely has shattered me up till now!
Parents should not just be concerned about their female children, their male sometimes face sexually violation in their homes especially by house maids or older neighbors!

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by ebukamen(m): 7:29pm On Mar 29, 2019
NaijaOlosho:
grin grin grin grin

Hope you will laugh like this on a female rape tred?
I will remind you

Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by chris31(m): 8:27pm On Mar 29, 2019
Women rape guys most but some people won't believe it
I have experience it

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by publicenemy(m): 11:14pm On Mar 29, 2019
ManirBK:
Do you mean there is enjoyment in it @7?


Yes oo... The fun of doing it secretly.
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by nicepoker101(m): 11:54pm On Mar 29, 2019
Still recalled when the two sisters took turns on me. But God decided to punish them for me. One ended up married to a cultists. Who deals with her day and night. The other is now a local runs girl. grin

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by swill44: 12:45am On Mar 30, 2019
I was only 4 when began, happened severally was threatened not to say a word about it, it affected me alot but God brought me out of it.
dachiwater:
A Nigerian man took to Facebook to narrate how he was sexually abused by their housemaid who was in her twenties, when he was just 7-years-old. The now married Nigerian man who took to Facebook to narrate how he was sexually abused by their housemaid when he was 7, disclosed that all his cryings kind of added to her pleasure as she would dip his head in-between her thighs to make me suck on her.

According to him unlike the girl child, the boy child does not bleed when molested. You might not notice it in his walk and you probably won’t find any evidence even if you subject him to physical examination. But the act often leaves the very essence of his being shredded. Worst still, the society expects him to keep quiet, he fears being called a weakling. So he sucks it all in, the experience builds up, stratas upon startas until a character and an identity is formed.


Abolaji Dairo wrote; 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/03/29/man-narrates-how-he-was-sexually-abused-by-their-housemaid-when-he-was-7/


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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by karbarsar(m): 2:25am On Mar 30, 2019
chiommy123:
Why didn't you report to your dad or mum? There's a way you say something's they know you're not kidding at all

I'm not surprised because you're a lady.
Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by GloryN2017(m): 6:57am On Mar 30, 2019
Experienced it but can't recall my age then. Being an introvert, my siblings luv playing outside after school while am always inside alone with her(our nanny). She had a perfect room for it (center rum in the house & only in afternoon)... any time she calls me from that room, she is already naked...she do keep googies for me... Reporting to my parents wasn't an option then, becoz they were strict and can beat for any slightest mistake. She is now a married woman with kids.

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Re: Man Sexually Abused By Their Housemaid At 7 Years, Speaks by ManirBK: 8:43am On Mar 30, 2019
publicenemy:



Yes oo... The fun of doing it secretly.
what about the culprit reaction now when face to face?

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