Dada2010:

She meant wedding anniversary.
I wonder how you guys can be so judgemental.
You didn't see where she said also on her birthday?
Does it mean the baby and her were born on the same day?
Hypocritical hypocrite

popsy2:


You are wrong. Being married according to tradition of your place makes her your wife. White wedding is the White man's "traditional" marriage. Don't let your pastor fool you.

Thanks.

philclem:

the groom in question is my cousin ,and has paid her bride price in full before the white wedding

mechanics:
hmmmmm, am not wrong, what am saying is right, you are wrong.

popsy2:


You are wrong. Being married according to tradition of your place makes her your wife. White wedding is the White man's "traditional" marriage. Don't let your pastor fool you.

Thanks.

popsy2:


Okay.

Kirinwa:


You have to first decide whether you are a Christian or a traditional man. If you are a Christian you must abide by the word of God.

If you are a traditional man, then who cares even if you decide to bear 10 children before traditional marriage. That's your cup of tea. As a man makes his bed, so shall he lie on it.

mechanics:
Yes, I know what am saying, it happened to a friend of mine, he impregnate his wife before church wedding, and the wife didn't wed in her church because she knew her pastor won't bless the union, another friend of mine had to do only traditional wedding because his wife was also pregnant and he knew his pastor won't bless the union, so am talking with fact.

popsy2:


It is church doctrine and has nothing to do with Christ's teachings. Guess what, in some other churches, the couple would be blessed.

Different strokes for different folks.

popsy2:


So if you are a traditional man, that makes you a child of satan. You guys have been brainwashed.

Anyways, to have it easy, try to separate custom from religion. We had been conducting marriages long before the white men brought white wedding. Are you now insinuating that our forebearers are bastards ?

mechanics:
hmmmmm, then the pastor don't know what he's doing, that one is also Christ's teaching, read your Bible well.

popsy2:


Let me school you a bit.

The purest and recognised form of marriage is the one conducted according to the custom of one. It has been so in the bible. Father's give their daughters to men in marriage in the bible.

Read through the bible, from the beginning to end, there was never a mention of couples getting married in the church, Temple, synagogue or what have you.

The church was purely for the gathering of believers, for worshiping or God, for teaching of the word and for prayers. Anything extra is and was an aberration. That was why Jesus rebuked those trading ( bazaar) in the temple.

Marriages where conducted at homes and parties follow suit. Check how Jacob married his two wives, they were given to him by the father in-inlaw.

Check all the great men in the bible, check if there was a mention of them going to church nor seeking the priest's consent.

Parental consent and the consent of the couple is the main aspect. In fact, church wedding without the traditional is incomplete.

Thank you.

mechanics:
But did Jacob pregnant his would be wife before wedding?

popsy2:


No, he didn't. H impregnated her after the traditional wedding and not after the "white wedding" as you are canversing.

Kaji?

mechanics:
hmmmmm, that's what we are saying, for her to give birth in that way, they have been sleeping together before the traditional wedding, but the truth of the matter is that most churches won't wed would be couples if they have had sexual encounters without informing the church, because Jacob didn't do white wedding does not mean we should not do white wedding, white wedding is a must in most churches.

popsy2:


We should strive not to infuse into Christianity alien cultures.

You can't say for certain when the couple in question had their traditional marriage. Might have been months back. That they came to church pregnant doesn't mean they had intercourse prior to the traditional wedding.

Any church that can't bless a couple on the grounds of pre church wedding pregnancy is not abiding by the dictates of the God.

God's of men, I call them.

MistadeRegal:
Congratulations to you, your sister in law and her husband, the whole family and friends. The man has filled it up and the blessings he have claimed. Happy family.

If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
Deuteronomy:22:28-29.

philclem:

the groom in question is my cousin,his name is SUNDAY EZIKA the traditional marriage was done a year ago and due to financial constraints,he decided to do the wedding this past Saturday. the wife gave birth to a bounding Baby boy in the early hours of Saturday and we managed her to the church,then to the venue in her compound at Aguma village in idemili North in Anambra State, where she managed to stay and danced few minutes before we called it a day.....her name in question in BINYEKA.....God is indeed a miracle worker �

CandidNotes:
White wedding gown on top 9 months pregnancy...

Jayess:


Quoting Bible to justify excesses.... Issorite!
D Angel that will slap you is doing press up

Dada2010:
Liar spotted

Dada2010:
Liar spotted