Why are SOME Nigerian women intimidated by a foreign woman but specifically a South African woman who is married to a Nigerian man?Is it envy or ignorance? let me explain the scenario!A friend of mine has been married three years to a Nigerian man,they were happy together until a friend of the guy from nigeria came to visit them(female).the visitor started walking around the house half naked and trying to anger my friend in every way.in the end my friend ended up thinking that the husband was hiding that this lady was actually his wife,when it was not so.At the end of the day this caused harm to their relationship.so i ask was the lady visiting that man envious or was she intimidated by the wife of the man?

yes thats true!i thought so definately she has an agenda or maybe not!maybe she came from nigeria hoping to have a relationship with the man and was dissappointed to find that he was truely married and happy!

The Naija woman wants to snatch the man, using her looks and knowing that she can easily be in constant touch with the man's family in Nigeria.
My question is, does she walk around naked when the man is around? If Yes, what was his reaction.

she has every right to feel that way. how can a grown up woman walk round the house unclothed!

I don't think the "intruder" was intimidated by the wife, I think she just thought the man would dump his wife for her. . . . . . . . I don't see intimidation anywhere but disrespect for a man's house with his wife!

thank God u said some. everyone gets ealous its normal not particular to my naija girls.

The man had no feelings for the visitor.They were helping her settle herself in a foreign country
She did not know anyone in south Africa so atleast having a roof over her head was a start.But i guess she had other motives!!!!!!

No comments,

op

and how does intimidation come into play here?


when you were snatching your own husband from his nigerian wife, was it because you were intimidated?

Cuz they know the [i]exotic [/i]factor gives them more points on the play-field.

Well that's in naija anyway. Here, with a surplus of whiteys, a fine black chick is a rare/welcome/yahnable sight.
Depends on suppply and demand.

Does OP's husband have a wife in Nigeria? I do not recall reading any where she mentions snatching her husband from his wife back in Nigeria!

tpiah is one of those women who has been left back home and the boyfriend married a south african woman.a woman scorned, for your info i was talking about a friend of mind,READ CAREFULLY.i am content and happy and i guess it goes with the topic Tpiah are you intimidated by me!

SA Goddess:

Does OP's husband have a wife in Nigeria? I do not recall reading any where she mentions snatching her husband from his wife back in Nigeria!

she's very sneaky.

i know she's your countrywoman but her vibes are fishy.

tpiah:

she's very sneaky.

i know she's your countrywoman but her vibes are fishy.

Ok, if you say so!

By the way, I can't be grouped just because I am from the same country with someone, I just asked a question, it could have been directed at "my countrywoman" if she had said the the same thing you said!

Really don't undestand how you came up with your analysis. The wife seems like the intimidated to me.

you need help tpiah serious help maybe prayer!!!!!!!!!!!!

So because she's naked, she intimidated? Correct use of english words pls.

Home-wrecker may be.

I sense some tribalism behind your title.

rubbish upon nonsensical nonsense

i was hoping to read a juicy story of an "intimidated" naija girl but only got the vice versa

lol. . . .which part was naked anyways err . . . up or down

I think the boy's family knows this girl well. She may just be slotted to take over your friend's marriage soon. She has already been moved to South Africa, close to the guy. When the time is right, your friend will move out. She was just showing the guy what he is missing, and the woman who will be taking her place. . Tell the guy to confess the truth, although you will never find out until he is caught red handed.