A friend of mine complained to me about his relationship issue. He is in his early thirties and yet to get married because girls thought at his age and how handsome he is, he should be married unless he's lying to their face and playing them. Or maybe because he has no job yet but into various business.

Anyway, he started getting worried about his interaction with ladies these days and asked me for an advice.
According to him, he's interested in ladies around the age of 25 upward and after brief dating these ladies will loose interest.

The first sign he said he's been noticing was that they started referring to him as "Sir" instead of the normal interaction he does get from them. After which a cold and withdrawing attitude follows, leading to the breakup. I asked him if he's being bossy, his reply was no.

The question is;

Is it the new method of ladies to show they are not interested in a particular guy by using that word "Sir" to push him off or its just a multiple coincidence for him??

how friendly romantic and playful is this your friend with those ladies ,? he might not notice but maybe his too tight I mean too serious , ladies love guys that are a little bit loose you know guys they can be free with play with them joke around open minded

Maybe he is acting like a father to the girls

Deepfeel:
how friendly romantic and playful is this your friend with those ladies ,? he might not notice but maybe his too tight I mean too serious , ladies love guys that are a little bit loose you know guys they can be free with play with them joke around open minded

This guy is fun to be with, as we are very close. I've seen him treat his ladies like queens. He wasn't the rude or dominating type.

aprilwise:
Maybe he is acting like a father to the girls

I asked him myself if he did. He said no, that he'll never do such.

SenorFax:

This guy is fun to be with, as we are very close. I've seen him treat his ladies like queens. He wasn't the rude or dominating type.

maybe he has a sexual problem, you might not know only the ladies his being with can tell, if you know any of the ladies his being with in the past try and get closer investigate ,

maybe he doesn't spend money on them.. forget the "sir" issue..as long as a guy spends lavishly on .most ladies... they won't leave him

Deepfeel:

maybe he has a sexual problem, you might not know only the ladies his being with can tell, if you know any of the ladies his being with in the past try and get closer investigate ,

I will try and get to ask his last ex if he had any issue concerning that aspect. Thanks for this. You are really helpful.

babyfaceafrica:
maybe he doesn't spend money on them.. forget the "sir" issue..as long as a guy spends lavishly on .most ladies... they won't leave him

He's not a lavish spender like that, but he makes sure his babe lacks nothing. As long as its in his capacity.

She no dey interested.

Keep searching...there are still billions of ladies around the world

SenorFax:

He's not a lavish spender like that, but he makes sure his babe lacks nothing. As long as its in his capacity.

he should move on to someone better