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How Do I Deal With This by aybabz101: 9:26pm On May 19, 2019
hi everybody, I have a GF and we've been dating for quite some times now. she is nice, beautiful and I really likes her. everything about her has been smooth but I have a little problem with our sex life.

One thing that I have observed about her is that she is afraid to demand for sex and to express herself during sex. Whenever we want to have sex, I always initiate it and she enjoys it a lot. I know she love sex but she always pretend as if she doesn't.

I have sat her down severely to tell her I am a free person, that she should express herself to me. That she being wild in bed will not change my view about her. I initiate all the styles in bed which I believe she enjoys too.

The problem is I feel like I am controlling her and I am not comfortable with this. I initiate every aspects of our sex life and its disturbing me. I want her to challenge me, to demand it from me. sometimes I even feel like a slave master. pls I need candid advice
Re: How Do I Deal With This by Deepfeel(m): 9:32pm On May 19, 2019
Guy go and sit down you don't have a problem, 90% of Nigerian girls are like that

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Re: How Do I Deal With This by SmellySperm(m): 9:46pm On May 19, 2019
most of them are like that brah! be thankful she's got no vagina odour

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Re: How Do I Deal With This by Auladimeji(m): 10:01pm On May 19, 2019
Challenge you for sex?so that you'll open threads upon threads tell us how you think your girlfriend is a stripper.What am I saying sef .Mtchhheeewww

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Re: How Do I Deal With This by Oluromantic: 10:16pm On May 19, 2019
E go pass ur power if she challenge u
Re: How Do I Deal With This by iTearHerToto: 10:38pm On May 19, 2019
I initiate every aspects of our sex life and
its disturbing me.


Pukesangry

Re: How Do I Deal With This by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:51pm On May 19, 2019
aybabz101:
hi everybody, I have a GF and we've been dating for quite some times now. she is nice, beautiful and I really likes her. everything about her has been smooth but I have a little problem with our sex life.

One thing that I have observed about her is that she is afraid to demand for sex and to express herself during sex. Whenever we want to have sex, I always initiate it and she enjoys it a lot. I know she love sex but she always pretend as if she doesn't.

I have sat her down severely to tell her I am a free person, that she should express herself to me. That she being wild in bed will not change my view about her. I initiate all the styles in bed which I believe she enjoys too.

The problem is I feel like I am controlling her and I am not comfortable with this. I initiate every aspects of our sex life and its disturbing me. I want her to challenge me, to demand it from me. sometimes I even feel like a slave master. pls I need candid advice


i know that english is second language, may be you chose the wrong word "SEVERELY"

in my world you can not "sit down severely" someone and talk about your sex life

you have to set the mood and environment eg lets say to you have done the 1st session and you are cuddling to regain energy for next session, thats when you encourange her not be shy in initiating sex etc


its not something you sitdown like other matters
Re: How Do I Deal With This by Nobody: 11:13pm On May 19, 2019
You no even dey fear.
You don pay bride price?
You are initiating all styles with someone's daughter and another guy's future wife.


If you want a sexually expressive girl, go and date a prostitute even at that she will still pretend not to like sex.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This by dhebo(m): 1:01am On May 20, 2019
If she express herself finish wetin go remain for the husband, bros Abeg save small for d husband, no overrun her meter aveg grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Deal With This by jbblues24(m): 4:01am On May 24, 2019
How do you make this? Photoshop?
Re: How Do I Deal With This by jbblues24(m): 3:37am On May 29, 2019
My 37 year old parent rates this shot very classic!
Re: How Do I Deal With This by ImaIma1(f): 9:19am On May 29, 2019
Are you guys even supposed to have a sex life?

She is probably just doing it to please you and is not completely ok with having sex.

I just wish she was bold and wise enough to say No rather than just go with it
Re: How Do I Deal With This by NACE13: 12:23pm On May 29, 2019
Initiate a 'No clothes' policy when together. Especially when going to bed. Don't be surprised one day you'd wake up to a sensation down there and find out she woke you up with a mind blowing bj because she could no longer hold herself. Worked for me, the only difference is that she was shy when we just started dating but that rule gave her full confidence and freedom to 'express' and be herself.

Imagine discussing business and then you get a text from her telling you she has nothing on, except your favourite Aston villa shirt.

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