hey ladies i want to know your opinion which one would you prefer either you are married or just planning to get married,or still a chick , would you go for SURULERE OR OLORUNSOGO as they use to say.meaning getting married to a rich cool and good looking guy or a guy who is also cool and good looking but still trying to get his life together and want to you to marry him for the sake of love

i think i ll prefer the second, reason its better we build together than a ready made guy who might choose to insult u with his personality.

paid my dues,no suru nada!
doesnt mean i wld marry for money, love 1st but no suru, no more.

ristic:

i think i ll prefer the second, reason its better we build together than a ready made guy who might choose to insult u with his personality.

what if you suffer and built together ,and later discovered that is an ingrate,because most men prefer ladies who do not know any thing about their beginning cos of their manly nature

If any lady is looking for quality in a spouse,I don't think money should be the main focus.
I don't advise any girl to marry a jobless man living with his mama,but
If he is a good hearted,well mannered,God fearing ,hard working man,he should be a keeper.
I would have still said a big yes to my hubby if he was just starting off.

If he's the kind of man i want in life, as long as he's focused and knows what he's doing it doesn't matter if he's just starting. . . There's always a starting point in life.

*off the record, baby O! Are you married?*

chelsea4su:

what if you suffer and built together ,and later discovered that is an ingrate,because most men prefer ladies who do not know any thing about their beginning because of their manly nature

I ve experience a similar situation, he had no job and we happen to get to a level in our lives that each of us can stand on our own. Unfortunately we are not together again,not that we had any problems or such, we realised that we have to give each other a break. Reasons being that he is a muslim and am a christian and the diff in tribe. We choose to be very good friends and the major thing is "we moved on".

I cant hold my past and still expect to live with it, if he shows that he is an ingrate that is his own personal problems it will be painful no doubt, but i cant hold it against him for the rest of my life.

Remember we are in a small world, we could meet again when we dont even expect it.

cheers

yes o,domino

A starter if God says so,so that we could build together.

@poster,
i'm not sure i get you. is it that both guys are exactly the same only one is richer than the other? well if that is the question, then i would definitely go for the rich one.

why? becos i have come to learn that a man shows his true character when there is money in his pocket. the nice one just starting life may be humble because he doesnt have anything. when he gets money you'll be shocked at his true self. the rich one on the other hand doesnt need favours or anything from you so he gets to show his true colors.

i always prefer the devil i dont know to the angel who may be a more develish devil (if there's anything like that)