Please I need advice from matured people.

There's this guy that am dating, he's so caring, lovely and humble. He is planning to marry me but he is short, though I have not gathered the courage to tell him my fears. Am average 5ft, but am taller than him. So am afraid that our kids will be short.

Please my fellow NL, I need your advice, I don't want to make mistakes in marriage. Though I have been praying to God for the right man.

So its all abt height now?
U didn't see him short when u guys started?
Nothing person no go see/read for this NL life

Can u imagine ur utterance/writing?
I am disappointed

Dyt:
So its all abt height now?
U didn't see him short when u guys started?
Nothing person no go see/read for this NL life

Can u imagine ur utterance/writing?
I am disappointed

You are free to be disappointed, suits you!! did you marry everyone that you have dated? some dated tall guy and ended up marrying short or average guy and verse visa.. I have my reasons..

Dyt:
So its all abt height now?
U didn't see him short when u guys started?
Nothing person no go see/read for this NL life

Can u imagine ur utterance/writing?
I am disappointed

what is there to be disappointed about, advise her and clear road for another person to advise. Mtshewwwww


Op, I understand you are considering your future children, 5 feet for a girl is not really average in my opinion, for him to be shorter, I feel your pain, but girl, character matters most, if he loves you big time and you love him too, pls marry him.

Can you imagine?

So if your rightful husband is shorter by a mere inches, you wouldn't marry him?

Does height play any role in who turns out to be a good or bad person?

firstEVA:
what is there to be disappointed about, advise her and clear road for another person to advise. Mtshewwwww


Op, I understand you are considering your future children, 5 feet for a girl is not really average in my opinion, for him to be shorter, I feel your pain, but girl, character matters most, if he loves you big time and you love him too, pls marry him.

Thanks so much sweetie.. I appreciate!! He loves me and I do love him too. Is just my kids that am been afraid of and nothing else. God bless you and please don't mind @Dyt been disappointed, she's free to be.. A

johnny1980:
Can you imagine?

So if your rightful husband is shorter by a mere inches, you wouldn't marry him?

Does height play any role in who turns out to be a good or bad person?

I never said I won't marry him if he's my righful husband, just that my fears is about our future kids and nothing more.

What a thread.....

Goodluck in your quest

MoonCares:


I never said I won't marry him if he's my righful husband, just that my fears is about our future kids and nothing more.

What did you score in O'Level Biology?

What do you want?

I am tall, in fact, long but I never ready to marry and may not marry you can you give me a try?

Seriously, height is nothing. If you can answer the following questions in as YES, YES YES & NO, you are good to go.

Do you understand him?

Are you proud of him?

Can you imagine a fulfilling future with him?

Do you have a better, humbler and TALLER person?

MoonCares:


Thanks so much sweetie.. I appreciate!! He loves me and I do love him too. Is just my kids that am been afraid of and nothing else. God bless you and please don't mind @Dyt been disappointed, she's free to be.. A

Don't let it bother you too much dear, happiness in marriage has nothing to do with height, size, colour and other superficial things, love, compatibility, mutual respect, trust are what matters.

bellong:


What did you score in O'Level Biology?

Lols!!! Didn't write biology, not a science student. So lecture me a bit, that's why am here

When You Were falling in love You didnt think of future kids.

They are going to be SHORT! Unless you play away match.

You can decide not to marry him or you both should adopt .( You fit still adopt short pikin ).


Kpele. No one is perfect

firstEVA:



Don't let it bother you too much dear, happiness in marriage has nothing to do with height, size, colour and other superficial things, love, compatibility, mutual respect, trust is what matters.

Ok Dear, thanks, I really appreciate. Am a bit relief

Would you rather live happily with a short man or live miserably with a tall man?

You love him, don't you?

But if you don't, please let him go ASAP! Let him find the love he deserves so you can also find Mr. Tall.

My rule is: I won't date the man I can't marry.

MoonCares:


I never said I won't marry him if he's my righful husband, just that my fears is about our future kids and nothing more.

Ok. Go marry that awesomely tall man that treats you bad.

In the scheme of things. Physique should be one of the last things you give priorities to when looking for the right man. Your kids shouldn't be short forget it. Kids nowadays dey cbop indomie wey dey make them long like Nepa pole.

However it is your life. And if it's a top priority to you, then stick to it till you find that tall perfect man. Afterall you would be the one to live your life with him.

MoonCares:


Lols!!! Didn't write biology, not a science student. So lecture me a bit, that's why am here

You didn't write biology?

You should get a refund from your secondary school...

running faster than ur shadow,the guy may not even wan marry u,maybe na chop that ur big ukwu

This one is simple biology joor....infact no comment.

johnny1980:


Ok. Go marry that awesomely tall man that treats you bad.

In the scheme of things. Physique should be one of the last things you give priorities to when looking for the right man. Your kids shouldn't be short forget it. Kids nowadays dey cbop indomie wey dey make them long like Nepa pole.

However it is your life. And if it's a top priority to you, then stick to it till you find that tall perfect man. Afterall you would be the one to live your life with him.

Ok Dear, thanks

firstEVA:
what is there to be disappointed about, advise her and clear road for another person to advise. Mtshewwwww

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Belch
Don't pour ur frustration out on me
Was it so hard to just look pass my own piece and give urs?

Ngokafor:






....are you the midget in question? ..

...cos you sound more frustrated than her

Hahahahahahahahah! @Ng, am not frustrated oooooo!! Maybe @ Toktee 's girl friend left him because of his deadly disease, so he wants to leach the anger on his generation not me.

Ngokafor:






....are you the midget in question? ..

...cos you sound more frustrated than her

Hehehehehehe.

@op, you are 21? why are you in a hurry to marry? marriage ain't no beans

About ur future kids! leave that for the future. If he is worth it there is nothing bad in marrying him. So u want a tall man despite the love u said u have for him? If u reject him u might be surprise about who he later marry. Someone tall, pretty, loving, caring etc. Whatever ur decision might be always remember that u are responsible for everything that happens to you and blame no one. When u are either fortunate or unfortunate u are responsible for everything that happens to you. That's why life is complicated.

Dyt:


Belch
Don't pour ur frustration out on me
Was it so hard to just look pass my own piece and give urs?

shut up, sabi sabi.

Kedam:
About ur future kids! leave that for the future. If he is worth it there is nothing bad in marrying him. So u want a tall man despite the love u said u have for him? If u reject him u might be surprise about who he later marry. Someone tall, pretty, loving, caring etc. Whatever ur decision might be always remember that u are responsible for everything that happens to you and blame no one. When u are either fortunate or unfortunate u are responsible for everything that happens to you. That's why life is complicated.

Thanks for the advice, I never said I want a tall guy, am just afraid because of my future kids.

firstEVA:
shut up, sabi sabi.

Why u mad