memes:

please someone help me cause I don't know what to do. I have notice that my husband lie even with little things that is not suppose to lie to. He believe that marriage cannot work without lies and he always tell me about this his friend that lie so much. please tell me what to do about it because am hurting.If I tell him that he just lie to me he gets very angry that can even lead to a fight.please I need your help.

Inked_Nerd:


lol, he probably lied before and she just didn't know it

geoger:

Thanks for your advises, really I don't if he has been lying to me how could I know, but recently I found that he is indeed lying to to me, last night we were watching a television show, SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE on( MBC 4) a man was dancing so I went inside the kitchen, so when I came out he has finished dancing so I ask my husband  if they gave the man ticket to  Vegas? he said no but at the end of the show they mentioned the man's name as one of the people that is going to Vegas, before that I ask him if he drank tea before going to bed he said no but he did,after we finished our dinner i went bed I sleep very early because am pregnant, we have been married for 5 years now and we have two children, when I was sleeping our baby girl came in with a cup on her hand so I taught it was water but when I woke up in the mid night i found out it was tea, so i ask him if he drank tea he said no.I don't know why he said know I have never fought him when he eat.He make all the money in the house he buys everything in the house but why is he acting this way? lying  for a little thing. we write what the family should be doing every day he remove the ones I wrote, but the one he write about praying everyday he find it so difficult to do, I will ask him up to 6 times to come and pray sometimes he pray or he will not.I am trying to work on my marriage and I want us to do it together but my husband don't listen to me.rather he will fight with me.We have been fighting for years trying to know each other the more but for some months now we I have been much happier then ever, except last night when I found out he lied to me twice at the same time who know how long he has been lying to me or is he just forming a new bad habit?

geoger:

Thanks for your advises, really I don't if he has been lying to me how could I know, but recently I found that he is indeed lying to to me, last night we were watching a television show, SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE on( MBC 4) a man was dancing so I went inside the kitchen, so when I came out he has finished dancing so I ask my husband if they gave the man ticket to Vegas? he said no but at the end of the show they mentioned the man's name as one of the people that is going to Vegas, before that I ask him if he drank tea before going to bed he said no but he did,after we finished our dinner i went bed I sleep very early because am pregnant, we have been married for 5 years now and we have two children, when I was sleeping our baby girl came in with a cup on her hand so I taught it was water but when I woke up in the mid night i found out it was tea, so i ask him if he drank tea he said no.I don't know why he said know I have never fought him when he eat.He make all the money in the house he buys everything in the house but why is he acting this way? lying for a little thing. we write what the family should be doing every day he remove the ones I wrote, but the one he write about praying everyday he find it so difficult to do, I will ask him up to 6 times to come and pray sometimes he pray or he will not.I am trying to work on my marriage and I want us to do it together but my husband don't listen to me.rather he will fight with me.We have been fighting for years trying to know each other the more but for some months now we I have been much happier then ever, except last night when I found out he lied to me twice at the same time who know how long he has been lying to me or is he just forming a new bad habit?

@OP, Try "why does my husband lie too much?" next time.

ZIM DRILL:

if you have been fighting for years how did you manage to stop fighting have intimacy resulting in you getting pregnant

from the way you have narrated your issues it seems like you are the nagging one you ask silly question and you look for a fight in those silly question you end making a big story

MRbrownJAY:

i can imagine the situation. . . . . . . the husband is so fed up of this nagging babe asking all types of "akward" questions under the moon that he has decided to stop answering them truthfully hoping that she will finally understand and stop.
these are not lies, they are sarcastic answers!

BoboYekini:

i dont see where she wrote that her husband ever beat her, if anything sounds like she scares the man shitless,
who lies about drinking tea for chrissakes and the show on TV, gaddem

memes:

I and my husband has been married for 4 and half years , but our last three year has been so rough we fight so much, he talks to as if am not a human being when I reply any of his disrespectful words he hit me.  He always like to stay with his male friend all the time, I even believe he was having an affair, when ever I ask a question he gets  so angry, sometimes I ask him why he even got married to me. We have two kids, one day we were quarreling he  told that he hate me because am not too tall, that he told me hate short women, he didn’t say any like that when we were dating. He even say that he will marry another woman so that I will not be asking where he is,[yes when he go out I do call he but not for any bad reason is because I care ]but he believe I suspect he always.  He get very angry quickly I don’t know he is like this when we are dating. Now for the past 5 months he has been so nice to me, even when I get very angry at him because of the things he said that I couldn’t  forget, he never reply anymore, now all he say is that he want to be a good father to all children, how he want them to be in the future he now says good things to me, now I want to know why he suddenly change. Is he now ready to be a husband and a father? Or is it because I threatened to leave him because I can’t stand him anymore or do men like him really change? Now he want me to have other child for him but I can’t because I don’t think he can stand me now. After having my first child I felt so depressed I don’t know if he when through that too.  Do men get depressed after they have their first child?  Please some help me and tell me what to do . I  still love him, he is the father of my children.[H e says the things he said to me he didn’t mean it,  say them because he is angry.]

Busy_body:


See below, she only has 9 posts, so whats your excuse And what is with the gloating

Busy_body:

Guys, please exercise caution before posting, i have gone through the OP's previous post, she married and had her first baby real young, around age 19, she has 2 children under the age of 5 and is pregnant with the third on the way. She has battled and won postnatal depression, she is just 25 years old, her Hubby has a history of domestic violence with her often beating her, he has ludicrously blamed her for being a short person . . .

BoboYekini:

ok, ok , sheesh  ,
forgive if i cant go through your posts too.

MRbrownJAY:

i am sorry to say that we CANT go inside everyones profile and check their every single posts in order to reply (she had only a few, what about those who have thousands?!). if the poster didnt see fit to dwell more on the abusive relationship she is in, then so be it.

as i rightly said, her partner's answer are sarcastic ones and i didnt have to go through her posts to figure that out!

BTW: is the poster MEMES or GEOGER?! whats next, shouldnt we figure out who is who and check all the hundreds of potential profiles that the poster MAY have?! lol!

BoboYekini:

yeah, i'm gloating, cos gloating is more fun
sue me

MRbrownJAY:

^^^^^^ the poster asked why her husband lies to her and she got her answer from different people on here. no need to try to talk about something that she CLEARLY doesnt wish to talk about.

MRbrownJAY:
STAY ON THE BLOODY SUBJECT!!!!

MRbrownJAY:

if you spent more time replying the poster rather than snooping around trying to look for "whatever" then this thread would be a few post shorter.