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Building Strength As Single Before Going Into Relationship And Marriage by nextpoint4u: 10:41pm On Jun 13, 2019
BUILDING STRENGTH AS SINGLE BEFORE GOING INTO RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE
There are two ways to life,either you are a male or female,strength or weakness.
If you are not deliberately building strength then weakness will be setting in.

we all have strength and weakness and if strength is not develop then weakness will set in your relationship and in marriage.
As single ,you must deliberate build your strength for your future relationship and marriage.
Challenge is part of life and no matter who you are on earth,challenge will come your way and it is vital you prepare for that challenge that may come your way in relationship and marriage in future.
Weakness affect most relationship and marriage while strength build relationship and marriage.
If you don’t build your strength when you are single ,you will find it more challenging when you are in relationship and marriage with your weakness.

THINGS YOU MUST DO THAT WILL BUILD YOUR STRENGTH IN RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE
1)COMMUNICATION STRENGTH:this is the ability to pass a message and both you and your partner understand .
Many relationship and marriage have broken owing to lack of good communication and understanding.
2)SKILL DEVELOPMENT:this is an important strength every single must develop that will help single in relationship and marriage.
If you do not develop skills when you are single during marriage,you might not have that chance to develop it ,depending on your relationship,marriage and location.

3)DEVELOP A PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE:This is a strength that single must have and it will give you direction in life,in relationship and marriage.
If you don’t have a plan then any road will take you to your destination which will affect your life negatively.
4)YOU MUST HAVE VISION:This is also a strength for single that will help you develop plan that is realistic and it will help you determine the kind of relationship and marriage you want.
Lack of vision make many people to enter any how relationship and marriage and after 20 years they will discover they are in wrong relationship and marriage.

5)MULTIPLE STREAM OF INCOME:life is full of challenges and income is required to solve so many problems and going into relationship and marriage with zero means of income , it become weakness and it will affect your relationship and marriage.
6)BUILDING OF STRONG FRIENDS:as single you must have friends that will have your interest at heart,encourage you,give you advice and support you in all aspect of life.They say iron sharpen iron. Challenge will occur and some times your best friends will be there for you.
Iron sharpen iron.

Apart from your family members,you must have friends that will stand as strength to you.
7) DEVELOP THE SPIRIT OF READING,LISTEN TO MOTIVATION TAPE AND ATTENDING SEMINARS:it will help you to develop your mindset and build your strength.
You will have more information and information does three things
It gives direction
It help you to discover danger
It dis pares darkness.
coolBUILDING INVESTMENT WHEN YOU ARE SINGLE:investment will stand as collateral in your relationship and marriage no matter the challenge that may rise.

Many singles make that mistake to be relationship and marriage before having the mindset to invest.
9)HAVING MARRIED COUPLE AS FRIENDS:you are single about entering into relationship and marriage ,there are many challenges ahead in relationship and marriage and people who have been there ,have a lot of story and advice to give you in order for you not to make same mistakes they make.

As single ,you must not have experience before you want to learn but learn from other people mistakes.
10)EXPOSE YOURSELF TO DIFFERENT LOCATION AND DIFFERENT KIND OF PEOPLE:Exposure is part of education in life,it will make you to learn principles and value of people and location.

It will help you in your relationship and marriage to make decision that will help you in life.
When you build strength that you have make certain preparation for the future,it will help your marriage and relationship.
written by MR A. I RICHARD

A business consultant,a coach and motivational speaker (08024995989)
Email:livingcoastrelationship@gmail.com
For speaking event on (business,relationship,marriage and motivational speaking) get in-touch

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