i met this girl about 2 years ago.we have this great chemistry and i am so much in love with her but she has refused to go out with me,first she said if she goes out with me she will hurt me as and she doest want to hurt me because that was what happened between her and her ex.this year she now told me she is in a complicated relationship with a guy that has introduced her to his parents but she has not agreed for the guy.everybody thinks me and this girl is going out except me and her.i am having a feeling she wants to eat her cake and have it.she doesnt want to go out with me and at the same time she doesnt want to lose my friendship.i am thinking of cutting my losses and move on.people i need your advice.

I forgive you for confusing me with your complicated story. From the little I can understand, SHE IS NOT JUST INTO YOU.

You're her Plan B. Get a Plan A.

u can't have her

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Why make her your priority when she made you an option.

2 yrs ago, did u meet her to date her or b a friend?

. . . if its friendship u wanted, dont ruin watever u have wit her by askin her out esp since uv noticed shez not into u . .

. . . if its to date her, u go get "outstanding patience " award sha. . .


xcpt shez d only babe in ur location, il advice u check ur "friendship" motive n make a choice.

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i met this girl about 2 years ago.we have this great chemistry and i am so much in love with her but she has refused to go out with me,first she said if she goes out with me she will hurt me as and she doest want to hurt me because that was what happened between her and her ex.this year she now told me she is in a complicated relationship with a guy that has introduced her to his parents but she has not agreed for the guy.everybody thinks me and this girl is going out except me and her.i am having a feeling she wants to eat her cake and have it.she doesnt want to go out with me and at the same time she doesnt want to lose my friendship.i am thinking of cutting my losses and move on.people i need your advice.

people you are very funny

when told the truth you want things to go your way, which one is better to be heartbroken or count the lose

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4get her,

shes wastin your tyme and resources,

u wud never see her pant!

So he should dump her cos 'he will never see her pants', as you say??

Anyway poster, life is too short to be wasting on someone who is messing about with you. If she isnt in to you then find a awesome girl who is. You deserve to be happy not chasing some chick around for nothing.

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Exactly he should dump her cos he would never see her pants!!

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Exactly he should dump her cos he would never see her pants!!

Funny guy!!! Cool, just wanted to clarify

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Funny guy!!! Cool, just wanted to clarify

How are u its been a while~

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How are u its been a while~

I am wonderful, hehe!!! You?? I dont want trouble for derailing a thread, heheh!!!

dude move on Friend Zone is for Losers

move on dude stop scaring off prospective girlfriends

1. what losses are you talking about you have not even started dating the chick
2. moving on to where
3. friendship is the bedrock of any true relationship
4. love her as a friend if that's all she wants

from my experience when a girl takes time to make up her mind she never truely will love or appreciate you
untill you are down with someone else

then they start trying too hard to get your attention and wishing they had said yes
that's if u are a correct guy **forgive my grammer**

exactly Kinsleyinfo just laid it out for u thats how it works,

r u sure we didnt date the same girl??