Good morning, guys! Wat's ur take on this?


I met my bf January this year, at d time he said he was having issues with his gf of 2yrs n wanted calling it off. I told him to make amends with her. He kept saying I won't understand.
He's not a stranger, he's someone I've known for some years but we become really close this year. We kept in touch regularly n the love starting growing from both sides.
Two months into the relationship, I noticed he was back with the other girl, cos she was always calling. Asked him abt it, n he was truthful with me and told me to give him time. I opted out of the relationship n told him to continue with the girl. He kept begging saying he can't afford to loose me.
I accepted him back. But I told him it won't be the same. Knowing dat he loves someone else. We r in different states. Same with the other girl.

Although I love him, but I want a relationship where I can give it 100%.
Pls I need matured advice on this.

It's Monday morning ffs

PrettyMelly:
Good morning, guys! Wat's ur take on this?


I met my bf January this year, at d time he said he was having issues with his gf of 2yrs n wanted calling it off. I told him to make amends with her. He kept saying I won't understand.
He's not a stranger, he's someone I've known for some years but we become really close this year. We kept in touch regularly n the love starting growing from both sides.
Two months into the relationship, I noticed he was back with the other girl, cos she was always calling. Asked him abt it, n he was truthful with me and told me to give him time. I opted out of the relationship n told him to continue with the girl. He kept begging saying he can't afford to loose me.
I accepted him back. But I told him it won't be the same. Knowing dat he loves someone else. We r in different states. Same with the other girl.

Although I love him, but I want a relationship where I can give it 100%.
Pls I need matured advice on this.

You're only his side Chick.

Does it mean you can't find a guy of your own?

Habba, why must you Chuk your head there?

for what na?

love doesn't exist, just feelings nd with money, money, money.....

Your guy is just confused..

now this is the true definition of Lust.

A man cannot love 2 women equally. trust me. He wants to eat his cake and have it.


But let me ask u? Are u not beautiful enough to attract other Men?

A man can fall in love with 100 woman a day if given the chance

Lol

How can you be comfortable being a side chick?
Give up on your fantasies. You'll never be his main girl.

Op forget that dude
He does not love either of you.
The guy is confused

King Solomon married 300 women and kept 700 as side chicks so loving just two women is easy

[quote author=AmazonTopaz post=79406680]
Op forget that dude
He does not love either of you.
The guy is confused [/quote
It's possible for a man to love two women at the same time

Confusion is a state of not been able to choose between two or more things . you are just confused, go somewhere quiet and relax your heart to think well....there lies the answer you seek.

Op....
Its possible the dude loves the two of you but definitely he ll love one of you more and that will affect the other

You Mean Can A Guy Fvck Two Ladies At Once? Yes Its Possible, He Just Needs To Put Dick In One And Stick Two Fingers In The Pussy Of The Other.

fish brain. he wont marry any of u

[quote author=Deepfeel post=79411157][/quote]
You cannot love two persons at the same time.
It is either lust or obsession or for whatever reasons other than love.

women are the weakest creature in the universe.

AmazonTopaz:

You cannot love two persons at the same time.
It is either lust or obsession or for whatever reasons other than love.

What is love?

Deepfeel:

What is love?

It is subjective .
The definition varies

I think you can love more than one person at the same time, it’s just not practical or fair to channel your love and attention to both

In your case though we don’t know that he actually loves you and it sounds like you’ve knowingly taken the role of the side chick

Deepfeel:
What is love?

Baby don't hurt me....

AmazonTopaz:
It is subjective .
The definition varies

No doubt about that, let me hear yours

BLUEJAYY:
Baby don't hurt me....

Who are you

Sure OP, why not?

i am loving 3......so 2 should be pizza to u bro

i am loving 3...so 2 should be pizza to u

Deepfeel:

Who are you

Damn! you ruined the lyrics to Haddaway's What is love.

BLUEJAYY:
Damn! you ruined the lyrics to Haddaway's What is love.

Oh it didn't cross my mind, was thinking i got a gay crush or something

Deepfeel:

Oh it didn't cross my mind, was thinking i got a gay crush or something

Didn't even realize you were male when I posted. Thought I'd played a trick on some female.

When both klits is too sweet, why would he give up on both..
For me, love does not exist..

BLUEJAYY:
Didn't even realize you were male when I posted. Thought I'd played a trick on some female.