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He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 12:59pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by baby124: 1:05pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Lol... see fake life. He wants to do 3 giveaways when he’s running up and down trying to avoid being responsible for his child. All those phones and money is enough to pay for the birth of his child. Mr Abass, pay up. Who is in charge of Lawma sef in this new administration? Treasure Akolawole Abass, take care of your baby and it’s mother. Stop being a deadbeat dad and own up to your responsibility. At 40yrs... o ga o. 8 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:is that why you post is picture on a public forum? You know, you just violate rule10 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by daddytime(m): 1:14pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Such a shitty and concumbulated plus precarious situation to be enmeshed in. In my usual cynicism, I would have gone chastising you and asking why you never brought your case on here for permission before going on a frolicking with the dickkhead. But knowing I've got sisters who are susceptible to falling for lying dingbats like this dude is one more reason why I won't go on a judging with you. After all, we all ain't mistake-proof. My advice to you babe is, you are definitely on the right path by calling him out publicly after all entreaties had ended up zilch. But just in case you are unable to get the help you so need at this moment from him, fret not please. Just go ahead, retain your sanity and birth in sound health for the innocent baby's sake. Do not bother yourself about how you are going to sort you and the lil one, but trust me when I say, you guys will be fine without you knowing how. You see this brother Knucklehead? He'll come looking for you and your baby on all fours when all begins to go south with him which is most definitely a certainty. I've witnessed loads of cases like yours to m know this. From the much God has entrusted me with, I'll give you a widows-mite in preparation for the lil one's arrival, all you need do is pm me and pray for me with the baby for God to enrich us more to be able to do more for/in cases like these. Peace yo..and stay safe He deserves his pictures splashed about. He's obviously a coward who could do the crime and shy away from doing the time. 20 years ago I decide to drop out from school begin trek go Europe through the desert. Na so I do kerewa with one babe come hear say she carry belle go back niger as she couldn't keep up with the trip. There were no mobile phones then neither do I know where aunty's family home is. As I dey now, Id give an arm and a leg to get reconnected with the kid after DNA. Na him dis monkey dey deny pikin. Tueeh 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 1:16pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Charelsz:That is the only way I can reach out to him. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 1:17pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Charelsz:Lol... See intimidation. 4 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Donniefred(m): 1:22pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:But he can sue you for putting up his photos up there without his concern But what do I know? From your explanation, he wasn't serious with untill he got the honey pot and disappeared |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by lilmax(m): 1:25pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
this is fun |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by donbachi(m): 1:34pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
He must have promised u dubai trip,b4 u agreed opening ur legs 4 him...d guy tell u wetin u go like hear..na e u fall..since he could not say"will u marry me?.you na went for"i don get belle"....truth is bitter. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by KingSatan: 3:16pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: Woman! Better stop this nonsense now. NO one wants to tell you the bitter truth but i will. You are an Adult, and Adulthood is simply a period in life where you are expected to take responsibility for your actions. Did you not know about contraceptives? Did you know nothing about sexual intercourse? Did you know nothing about Condoms? So why did you indulge in sexual intercourse with someone you knew too well was irresponsible? What were you thinking? When you knew you had fallen pregnant, what happened to being an ADULT? What happened to Deciding to Keep it because YOU WANT A CHILD, or taking it out because YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE A PARENT? Please, i know you are African and worse still you are a WOMAN, so its easy for you to shed some tear and tell this story for public sympathy but please give yourself some peace and spare us all the bullshits you have been writing about this MAN. He is just a clear example of the animal in US all. Do you know why we have the institution called "Marriage" and Most Especially a "Ring"? It is actually a system to keep the Animal in Check. The Most annoying is that you had knowledge of his Immoral and irresponsible Lifestyle but yet you Moaned at the sight of his Manhood and Spread out your Legs while he complimented its elasticity. You were so lost in pleasure that even when you realised that he has ejaculated in your Vagina, you forgot about CONTRACEPTIVES but yet you scream "I am EDUCATED, I can pay your bills"! Well, i wasn't expecting anything less of an African who claims to be educated but rely on the West for Technology, Food, Security, Faith etc. You are actually a disgrace to Education. You think "This is the USA where Women Sell empathetic Stories for Child Support"? And Immediately they are assured of the money rolling in, they stop working, buy a Benz, Become social Media influencers, Gain Massive Follower-ship and Enlarge their BUTTS. Only a few women have actually Cashed out from that stunt you are trying to pull. This man owes you nothing!! He has made it clear that "HE IS NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE YET AND YOU SAW THE SIGNS WHILE BOTH OF YOU WERE TOGETHER" What if he impregnated you and died in a car crash? I know you will still be this wrecked. It is so sad that in this part of the world, Whenever a man leaves a woman, she becomes useless even to her own self. I have no fragment of pity for you but a simple word of Advice, PLEASE MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND RAISE YOUR BABY TO BE A GOOD MAN/WOMAN. Rubbish! 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by NOBODYY: 6:31pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Olosho opening numerous threads won't cure your oloshoism You were fuckeeeddd by a poor man till you get belle inside a one room apartment... Na your cross, carry am. It is not by force to want a child, he doesn't want anything to do with you or your child, deal with it. 8 Likes
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 7:06pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by NOBODYY: 7:08pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: But...... but, none of them were fuckedddd by a wretched man who lives in a one room apartment in igbogbo and gives 2k for transport 7 Likes
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 7:15pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
NOBODYY:Are you sure? Please confirm from them. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Abcruz(m): 8:12pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Oyindidi(f): 9:43pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
Shame no dey your dictionary. Why you no take police go the one room wey him give you the belle? 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Mamatoppy(f): 12:30am On Jun 18, 2019 |
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by crackhaus: 12:35am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Update please... *Our salted cashew nuts have almost finished* 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by TruthTella(m): 12:40am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Who are the people attacking this woman inspite of the fact that she was wronged? What's wrong with humans nowadays? That guy better pay child support for his innocent baby instead of hiding and trying to run away from responsibilities 7 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Oyindidi(f): 6:07am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:You are the coward here, go to the one room and arrest him if you are sure of him been the father. You know the man is married and you're doing this to cause problem in his marriage. Take your cheap self off my mention. You said the man is 40, how old are you? 10 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:16am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Mamatoppy:dey lie for your papa head there. Nwanyi,JEE CHUBA EGO!!!so that you go fit take care of your unborn child with or without the guy. See her mouth like it's not about the money 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:38am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Oyindidi:Just look at your reasoning and the zero sense in it. As usual, anything for cheap likes from NL males. Get the hell outta here if you've no meaningful contribution n go back to Romance with your dirty self 11 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:42am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nwanneni:So what if it's about money? She's supposed to raise a baby she didn't make by herself by herself? Here in the US courts order men to pay child support to the mother. Doesn't matter how the baby came into the picture, no court cares about all that. As long as he's the Father he pays 11 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:46am On Jun 18, 2019 |
runwaymodel:very off example This is Nigeria And men LIKE US have a way of bypassing the so called "child support system" you all use to rob men off their resources. You cannot GIVE what you don't HAVE! If you doubt me,kindly PM me your address so I can come do the needful when I visit again in december Left there some weeks ago |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:55am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nwanneni:The law and repurcussions of your actions will catch up with you. Keep dreaming- by your posts we can tell you've never stepped foot outside the shores of Nigeria. Always hopping threads shouting how rich you are. Yimu, empty barrels make the loudest noise! May you never leave Nigeria, you sonofagoat. LMFAO!!! 9 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by queenfav(f): 6:58am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Hello madam, I have worked as a mediator for matrimonial disputes in a ministry of justice. I need you to know that so u can take my advice to heart because it's coming from a lawyer who has handled a lot of child maintenence/custody cases like yours. Firstly, please take down this thread. Bashing him on nairaland won't give you the child support you need, rather you are even making him aware of all you intend to do. As a wise woman, you need to strategize in secret so that when you act, he won't know what what hit him. You know his address, you know his place of work, why not go to a family court or mediation center to make your claims? Men like him are not moved by social media call outs, come on.. You can't shame the shameless. I don't have energy to type much, but take this from me.. You won't get any results by coming to bash him on nairaland. Head to the courts, that's where your help lies! Channel the energy you used in opening this nairaland thread and replying people to filing your claims against him in court, other than that you are just entertaining nairalanders. 8 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Oyindidi(f): 7:34am On Jun 18, 2019 |
runwaymodel:Cry me a river, I don't post for likes. Op knew the guy is married 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 8:14am On Jun 18, 2019 |
runwaymodel:LMAO!! No be you first say HERE IN AMERICA? Na only you don be there? something weh men just troop in and out in 10 days Typical woman!switch when she's about to be hit with reality No make noise,just send your address make I come give you belle then make me pay you child support I don't work in America nor have property there.so how you want make me pay If you are ready to go all the way,you should know I am ready too Make we know who the empty barrel is! Nwanyi,JEE CHUBA EGO!!!So you won't be looking forward to making a living off child support Broke ass!!! 2 Likes
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by AngelicBeing: 8:26am On Jun 18, 2019 |
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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by ifyalways(f): 9:07am On Jun 18, 2019 |
The other thread went bananas. @OP since you want child support and luckily , you can get him to pay. Lagos state law mandates baby fathers to pay child support or face jail term. Go to social welfare at Alausa. Good luck. 8 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 9:28am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ifyalways:and if the father doesn't have or at least can fake not having any money? |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by ebonyggurl(f): 10:55am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Mamatoppy: Op your situation is quite unfortunate. If you can't afford to raise the child or you aren't ready for a child maybe you should consider putting the baby up for adoption. Many childless couples out there. My opinion though 3 Likes |
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