So lets say you're with a guy who you're generally happy with. He treats you well, he's caring, he makes you laugh. He's good looking, has money, well dressed, drives a sports car. Basically all the usual stuff girls look for in a guy. But he does the following things. How much of these would you be willing to overlook?

1.) He smokes, drinks, blazes and gambles.
2.) He loves clubbing. Goes almost every weekend.
3.) He loves karaoke. Goes every weekend.
4.) He knows a lot of girls from all the partying. Many of them are pretty hot. But they're all just friends
5.) He gets phone numbers, msn, facebook profiles from some of the girls he meets at parties, but again, theyre just friends.
6.) Some of these friends hold hands with him at the club, (but only cuz the dance floor is crowded and you don't want to lose the girl in the crowd)
7.) Some of these friends get drunk and a) lean on him, b ) hold him closely, c) grind with him, d) sit on his lap, or e) feel up his pecks, try to tickle him or some other silly sh*t like that
8.) He goes out for dinner with different girls, sometimes a different girl each night. But again, they're all just friends
9.) Some of these girls may like him, or have liked him in the past, but he just considers them friends

Ok so realistically, I don't expect to meet a girl who is going to allow her boyfriend to do all of the above. But I don't think its fair to force your boyfriend to completely stop enjoying his life either.

So what would you consider a reasonable compromise? For example I would argue that going clubbing once in a while should be perfectly fine, especially if its a friend's bday. And while some girls would flip if their boyfriend went for dinner with another girl, others are okay with it. Also lets say that your boyfriend has not lied or cheated on you before. Nor have you heard any rumours about him lying or cheating on other girls in the past.

So how much of the above would you let him get away with?

There is nothing wrong with all this,Understanding matters.

^ ^ I cant believe 190 actually sent this reply. Guess Abuja weather really favours your thoughts.

I c'nt take any of this! n thank God he doesnt do any of it either.

i can live with 2,3,4 and 9

If we are married - I will enjoy number 3 with him - we will go together

The other numbers are OUT OF THE QUESTION

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If we are dating - he can do ALL OF IT - however, any activity that jeopardizes my permanently bowing out of the relationship - beware!!

even the coolest girl won't be ok with ALL of those traits. If she ever was, won't be long b4 she gets moody