franchasng:
They won't agree!

If u want me to do anything for u, appeal to my conscience and not through forming equality or human right.

The easiest way to get a man to do whatever u desire is to be submissive and loyal to him, and watch him take the bullet for you, but they think its by forming feminists and claiming rights and opening eyes

cococandy:
We wey dey para still dey get Benz nko?
Oga speak for yourself.
Not every man likes your specific type of wife.

Some like them rebellious. That’s when their own mumu button gets turned on.

cococandy:
We wey dey para still dey get Benz nko?
Oga speak for yourself.
Not every man likes your specific type of wife.

Some like them rebellious. That’s when their own mumu button gets turned on.

ibkayee:

Lol that's why before I take them seriously I need them to define their meaning of 'loyal'

bukatyne:
First, I don't understand the 'it is an old model'. Where is our sense of gratitude and appreciation guys? Even if he bought her a pin to appreciate her loyalty, it is the thought that counts.

Now to loyalty: When a typical Nigerian husband says his wife is loyal, I cringe.

Question now is..

'Is our Doc a typical Nigerian husband?'

cococandy:
[s]We wey dey para still dey get Benz nko?
Oga speak for yourself.
Not every man likes your specific type of wife.

Some like them rebellious. That’s when their own mumu button gets turned on[/s].

cococandy:
We wey dey para still dey get Benz nko?
Oga speak for yourself.
Not every man likes your specific type of wife.

Some like them rebellious. That’s when their own mumu button gets turned on.

dia4iam:
Is your husband cheating? Lets cheat on him together.

dia4iam:
There is something called peace of mind, and when a woman can be her husband's peace, this kind of story is what happens...

I know this fo' sure because something similar is going on in my family. Dad called me some weeks ago for my opinion on the car brand that would be befitting for mom on her 45th birthday come November, so he can know how to budget for it. When I mentioned Toyota, he was like 'yo mom is too big for that, you know how many cars Ive used without that woman ever complaining?' He then goes; 'Boy, keep it a top secret cos I know she might talk me out of it', which is exactly what she would do. She studied Economics and everything is on a scale of preference. My dad had his degrees in accounting, so, don't sweat it,it's always a matter of "at loggerheads" when it comes to decision making.

It's all about love, baby, Nothing is perfect, therefore, it is

dia4iam:
There is something called peace of mind, and when a woman can be her husband's peace, this kind of story is what happens...

I know this fo' sure because something similar is going on in my family. Dad called me some weeks ago for my opinion on the car brand that would be befitting for mom on her 45th birthday come November, so he can know how to budget for it. When I mentioned Toyota, he was like 'yo mom is too big for that, you know how many cars Ive used without that woman ever complaining?' He then goes; 'Boy, keep it a top secret cos I know she might talk me out of it', which is exactly what she would do. She studied Economics and everything is on a scale of preference. My dad had his degrees in accounting, so, don't sweat it,it's always a matter of "at loggerheads" when it comes to decision making.

It's all about love, baby, Nothing is perfect, therefore, it is

ibkayee:

Lol let them tell us what she did exactly to be considered 'loyal'

jaxxy:


If a relationship has to be perfect to keep or show ur loyalty then what is the value of ur loyalty? Is loyalty only for perfect situations?

ibkayee:
What does being 'loyal' even entail in this case though? Because we know to most Nigerian men being loyal means putting up with their shvt like a ragdoll

A 'rebellious' one could be one who did not put up with his cheating for example and 'broke the home' by retaliating negatively like a normal human being and/or leaving. To Nigerians the home was broken because she did not forgive him, not because he cheated

Not saying this is what happened between them, I wouldn't know, but this is just how a lot of Nigerians think

Mcslize:


I don't agree with your definition of a loyal woman. Being loyal means the woman put the interest of her husband her priority and always want the best for the family. Being loyal means the wife is a virtuous woman that run the home the way it should be run.

Being loyal means that the woman can manage and run the home out of the little resources available. Being loyal entails a woman being able to keep a happy home and let go of any related selfish interest of hers. Being loyal entails a woman being contented with whatever her husband gives her and never in any way have the intention of looking outside.

Being loyal means, a woman who is able to keep her home together, care for the children and never engage in any form of amorouse infidelity outside her matrimonial home.

Those are the well thought out definitions of a loyal woman.

QueenSekxy:
Biko, where are they buying this loyalty, I want to sell my own.

lilmax:
men should learn how to frustrate a disloyal woman before kicking her out

loyal women deserve everything

Weathered:
Hmmm nice one!

Looks like the Benz is for bribe and appeasement after some waywardness on his part.

On a side note, even a doctor is still ignorant not knowing 4matic is just a Mercedes term for All Wheel Drive, but they still state is as a model.