ibkayee:

I didn't even give my own definition of loyalty though, I gave the 'Nigerian man' definition which means 'stick with me through everything I do including mistreatment even though loyalty is a two way street and I'm not sticking to my part of the deal'

'Never engage in any form of amorous infidelity outside her matrimonial home but make sure you stay with me when I cheat.'

You lots keep getting everything wrong?, Nigerian men,African men syndrome.Do you know how many of our Nigerian actresses and so called enlightened and educated women,I will not call names that got married to your favourite "foreign men" but still couldn't cope?.You guys always claim to approach things with open mind but always skip somethings.Insecure men are everywhere,Randy women are everywhere.On the definition of loyalty.It is what it is universally,if a man says he appreciates his woman for her loyalty,it means she is loyal to him.Stop make a twist of everything.

ibkayee:
What does being 'loyal' even entail in this case though? Because we know to most Nigerian men being loyal means putting up with their shvt like a ragdoll

A 'rebellious' one could be one who did not put up with his cheating for example and 'broke the home' by retaliating negatively like a normal human being and/or leaving. To Nigerians the home was broken because she did not forgive him, not because he cheated

Not saying this is what happened between them, I wouldn't know, but this is just how a lot of Nigerians think

The thing really pain you say the man get a loyal wife..hahahaha

Goodoldays:
You lots keep getting everything wrong?, Nigerian men,African men syndrome.Do you know how many of our Nigerian actresses and so called enlightened and educated women,I will not call names that got married to your favourite "foreign men" but still couldn't cope?.You guys always claim to approach things with open mind but always skip somethings.Insecure men are everywhere,Randy women are everywhere.On the definition of loyalty.It is what it is universally,if a man says he appreciates his woman for her loyalty,it means she is loyal to him.Stop make a twist of everything.

Epic answer

thread for fustrated feminist
Pocohantas ibkayee cococandy

NAIRALAND FEMINIST af already assumed he cheated multiple times nd she forgave nd stayed with him.....



thats their version of LOYALTY

*****SPITS*****

Why is this important

dia4iam:
There is something called peace of mind, and when a woman can be her husband's peace, this kind of story is what happens...

I know this fo' sure because something similar is going on in my family. Dad called me some weeks ago for my opinion on the car brand that would be befitting for mom on her 45th birthday come November, so he can know how to budget for it. When I mentioned Toyota, he was like 'yo mom is too big for that, you know how many cars Ive used without that woman ever complaining?' He then goes; 'Boy, keep it a top secret cos I know she might talk me out of it', which is exactly what she would do. She studied Economics and everything is on a scale of preference. My dad had his degrees in accounting, so, don't sweat it,it's always a matter of "at loggerheads" when it comes to decision making.

It's all about love, baby, Nothing is perfect, therefore, it is

what is this one saying? How does this your post relate to this topic?? Guy get sense small na..

his lines sound so wacky, crapy and trappy. emphasizing so much on loyalty so that she can put up with the B.S. he is about to release

tactius:


How do you know that?

Don't tell tall tales o!

man buys Benz for wife for being loyal...well a wife bring loyal is the default standard. But when a man rewards a wife for doing what she's supposed to do, then maybe she had a reason not to be loyal

LOL. It's like I need a microphone for the deaf people at the back.

passionberry:
what is this one saying? How does this your post relate to this topic?? Guy get sense small na..

Lol. One side trying to prove the other wrong

tactius:


Economics plus accountant?

How is the talk at the dinner table..?

cococandy:
For me, finances don’t come into it like that because it simply says that if the man isn’t able to provide, then he shouldn’t be given his due respect. Is that what we are saying?

Everyone deserves it whether you’re the one providing or not. There’s more that makes a family than money.
The person making the money isn’t doing the most work.

Also don’t know what an African wife means in this contest. It could mean anything based on who’s saying it. (Respectful? Doormat? Industrious? Meek? What?)

Isnt that what we are saying? Far as I understand, humility and respect are NOT mutually exclusive, and all these feminists dont do humility. It is always a matter of if im cooking, he should be doing the dishes. Isnt it?

cococandy:
For me, finances don’t come into it like that because it simply says that if the man isn’t able to provide, then he shouldn’t be given his due respect. Is that what we are saying?

Everyone deserves it whether you’re the one providing or not. There’s more that makes a family than money.
The person making the money isn’t doing the most work.

Also don’t know what an African wife means in this contest. It could mean anything based on who’s saying it. (Respectful? Doormat? Industrious? Meek? What?)

hello coco I just got back from a ban pls I want to ask u 5 question

cococandy:
We wey dey para still dey get Benz nko?
Oga speak for yourself.
Not every man likes your specific type of wife.

Some like them rebellious. That’s when their own mumu button gets turned on.

Spell Buhary...

xendra:
his lines sound so wacky, crapy and trappy. emphasizing so much on loyalty so that she can put up with the B.S. he is about to release

Do you even believe there are good men in the world?

Katier00:
Pressing of mumu button activated
God bless all the virtuous women

which one is mumu button poverty don virus ur brain

Congratulations


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This old car for all the loyalty?
Btw, loyalty be say odenigbo wasn't disfigured oo��

seelawd:
which one is mumu button poverty don virus ur brain

so you don't know what it means to press one's mumu button with reckless abandon? Ignorance don virus your brain

....... so funny. Yeah, loyalty in their mentality means a woman must be a slave who takes all the shiii...... I better sell mine too.

QueenSekxy:
Biko, where are they buying this loyalty, I want to sell my own.

Did you just say ''girlfriends'' and ''baby Mama's'', so even as they are ''submissive'' like you mentioned, you can't stick to one and be faithful. Hmm :-

koning:





Make that "Loyal and Submissive". If only women knew. The kind mumu wey i dey fall for my submissive girl friends and babymama's no be hereoooo. They can get almost anything they ask for.

A nagging and troublesome women under the mum of "i don open eye" or feminism is a complete turn-off.

Congratulations....remain loyal

Wow

ibkayee:

No none of my husbands are cheating on me

aye mi, temi ba mi

Osyxcel:


Do you even believe there are good men in the world?

I do, I got one

xendra:
I do, I got one

Then don't think every other persons aside your man is bad. Always give people the benefits of doubt.

Osyxcel:


Then don't think every other persons aside your man is bad. Always give people the benefits of doubt.

pfftt isn't that my business

xendra:
pfftt isn't that my business

Okay, bye. Have a nice day.

cococandy:
For me, finances don’t come into it like that because it simply says that if the man isn’t able to provide, then he shouldn’t be given his due respect. Is that what we are saying?

Everyone deserves it whether you’re the one providing or not. There’s more that makes a family than money.
The person making the money isn’t doing the most work.

Also don’t know what an African wife means in this contest. It could mean anything based on who’s saying it. (Respectful? Doormat? Industrious? Meek? What?)

Lol. This beautiful preaching is long since dead. And you know that. Peace.

peetay:
Lol. This beautiful preaching is long since dead. And you know that. Peace.