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In The Mind Of A Man by email1(m): 12:36pm On Oct 10, 2010
What goes on in the mind of a man when his wife is in the delivery room? My elder sis very recently delivered her first issue and almost immediately another woman delievered her first child. My sis husband was not there at the time of the delievery but the other woman's husband was.

I noticed the man couldn't control himself as he pace up and down the passage and when the child finally came, he took his time inspecting the newborn as if to be sure the child was truely his. This is what I think anyway, what do men generally think?
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by InkedNerd(f): 12:40pm On Oct 10, 2010
Oh my, good question. High five for you wink
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by 190: 12:50pm On Oct 10, 2010
Havent been there

But on that very special day

I would be 50% High ON VODKA!! grin grin grin
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Specialist900(m): 1:01pm On Oct 10, 2010
190:

Havent been there

But on that very special day

I would be 50% High ON VODKA!! grin grin grin
50% go too small.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by InkedNerd(f): 1:04pm On Oct 10, 2010
OP : Can you post this question in the family forum as well? You'll receive more responses there and I'm really curious to see the answers.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:06pm On Oct 10, 2010
e-mail:

What goes on in the mind of a man when his wife is in the delivery room? My elder sis very recently delivered her first issue and almost immediately another woman delievered her first child. My sis husband was not there at the time of the delievery but the other woman's husband was.

I noticed the man couldn't control himself as he pace up and down the passage and when the child finally came, he took his time inspecting the newborn as if to be sure the child was truely his. This is what I think anyway, what do men generally think?

your profile says your are a man tell us what you think yourself
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by xxcarolxx(f): 1:10pm On Oct 10, 2010
You mean to say 9ja guys don't go into the delivery room They wait outside,
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by InkedNerd(f): 1:12pm On Oct 10, 2010
xxcarolxx:

You mean to say 9ja guys don't go into the delivery room They wait outside,

Hmmm, perhaps some still have the pre1960's belief about men being outside of the delivery room.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:13pm On Oct 10, 2010
xxcarolxx:

You mean to say 9ja guys don't go into the delivery room They wait outside,

you want them to be in the delivery room by her side watching the baby coming out
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by InkedNerd(f): 1:14pm On Oct 10, 2010
ZIM DRILL:

you want them to be in the delivery room by her side watching the baby coming out

there are men that do that
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Specialist900(m): 1:15pm On Oct 10, 2010
ZIM DRILL:

your profile says your are a man tell us what you think yourself
seconded.

Inked_Nerd:

OP : Can you post this question in the family forum as well? You'll receive more responses there and I'm really curious to see the answers.
will it be more than wishing that both the baby and the mother sail through the delivery process.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Tinksh(f): 1:15pm On Oct 10, 2010
ZIM DRILL:

you want them to be in the delivery room by her side watching the baby coming out

well he was there to put it in so why not coming out! Its normal here. The guy is always with the woman, by her side, helping here through. I think its important, helps them to bond together from the start.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:17pm On Oct 10, 2010
Inked_Nerd:

there are men that do that

i know

i want to hear your view would you want your man to watch your p$$$y bursting giving birth
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by InkedNerd(f): 1:21pm On Oct 10, 2010
Tink_sh:

well he was there to put it in so why not coming out! Its normal here. The guy is always with the woman, by her side, helping here through. I think its important, helps them to bond together from the start.

Hey Tink_sh, wanna hear something funny? My grandmother delivered my aunt by herself. No doctor, no husband--All on her own. Wither her own two hands.

Specialist900:


will it be more than wishing that both the baby and the mother sail through the delivery process.

What do you mean?

ZIM DRILL:

i know

i want to hear your view would you want your man to watch your p$$$y bursting giving birth

I wouldn't mind.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Specialist900(m): 1:22pm On Oct 10, 2010
On a second thought, the money spending process has begun or has doubled. Summarily, more responsibility.
Tink_sh:

well he was there to put it in so why not coming out! Its normal here. The guy is always with the woman, by her side, helping here through. I think its important, helps them to bond together from the start.
i subscribe to the bonding.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:23pm On Oct 10, 2010
Specialist900:

seconded.
will it be more than wishing that both the baby and the mother sail through the delivery process.
Tink_sh:

well he was there to put it in so why not coming out! Its normal here. The guy is always with the woman, by her side, helping here through. I think its important, helps them to bond together from the start.

am not against it but i think man are being conned emotionaly to be there in the devilery room

you might think it will make people bond but it up to an individual to bond whether through a rough time or not
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by InkedNerd(f): 1:24pm On Oct 10, 2010
ZIM DRILL:

am not against it but i think man are being conned emotionaly to be there in the devilery room

you might think it will make people bond but it up to an individual to bond whether through a rough time or not

Hmmmm ::[/b]raises eyebrow[b]::
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Tinksh(f): 1:25pm On Oct 10, 2010
Inked_Nerd:

Hey Tink_sh, wanna hear something funny? My grandmother delivered my aunt by herself. No doctor, no husband--All on her own.


Yikes!! But yeah, it has happened here too. Some women choose it that way, some babies just come in a hurry too. Your grandmother is one strong lady!!!


ZIM DRILL link=topic=528891.msg6912780#msg6912780 date=1286713411:

am not against it but i think man are being conned emotionaly to be there in the devilery room

you might think it will make people bond but it up to an individual to bond whether through a rough time or not

Fair enough but i do think men are a little weak to let the woman go through it without her husband support, just my opinion but.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Omolola1(f): 1:26pm On Oct 10, 2010
More answers plssss!
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:27pm On Oct 10, 2010
Inked_Nerd:

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Hey Tink_sh, wanna hear something funny? My grandmother delivered my aunt by herself. No doctor, no husband--All on her own. Wither her own two hands.



[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]I wouldn't mind.


becoz you are a woman you wouldnt know what goes in the man's head

this is reverse of a man telling you to go through abortion

but he doesnt know what is going  through your head
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Specialist900(m): 1:31pm On Oct 10, 2010
Inked_Nerd:



What do you mean?


sometimes complications do during child deliviery, all he will be wishing would be safe delivery.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:32pm On Oct 10, 2010
Tink_sh:

Fair enough but i do think men are a little weak to let the woman go through it without her husband support, just my opinion but.

we are not weak dear thats how nature is supposed to be whether am there or not you would still feel the pain

like i said you con man emotionaly thats why you use such statement

with reasoning it is more like saying a since a woman is married to a soldier she should go to war with him
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by InkedNerd(f): 1:33pm On Oct 10, 2010
ZIM DRILL:


becoz you are a woman you wouldnt know what goes in the man's head

this is reverse of a man telling you to go through abortion

but he doesnt know what is going  through your head

Hmmm. . . Interesting.

Tink_sh:

Yikes!! But yeah, it has happened here too. Some women choose it that way, some babies just come in a hurry too. Your grandmother is one strong lady!!!


Yupp, she's a tough cookie grin

Specialist900:

sometimes complications do during child deliviery, all he will be wishing would be safe delivery.

Hmmm ::raises eyebrow:::
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by xxcarolxx(f): 1:37pm On Oct 10, 2010
To see your son or daughter been brought into the world is the best thing you will ever witness, It's something you guy's should witness,
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:39pm On Oct 10, 2010
xxcarolxx:

To see your son or daughter been brought into the world is the best thing you will ever witness, It's something you guy's should witness,

you are a woman we expect that from you becoz you are the who has been caring the baby
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Vic2k3(m): 1:41pm On Oct 10, 2010
***passing by***
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:42pm On Oct 10, 2010
personally i wouldnt want to see the actaully birth

i might be up her upper body talking to her than watching my p$$y being torn apart by the baby's head that will put me off se,x  

worse if i would start to feel much difference of tightness durinf se.x
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by xxcarolxx(f): 1:43pm On Oct 10, 2010
It's about the life you created and watching the baby been born, You don't have to stand at the end of the bed watching, you can stay at the top, believe me your bond starts there,
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:51pm On Oct 10, 2010
xxcarolxx:

It's about the life you created and watching the baby been born, You don't have to stand at the end of the bed watching, you can stay at the top, believe me your bond starts there,

spare us the bond thing

you can bond with anything

why talk of the bond as if a childbirth is the only thing which makes people bond

its all nature dear you feel the bond becoz you carried it for 9months dear that how GOD created woman, when you give birth you already have the bond becoz of the 9 months,  then for a man he then starts to create the bond with child and you especially if he loves very much
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by Specialist900(m): 1:58pm On Oct 10, 2010
xxcarolxx:

It's about the life you created and watching the baby been born, You don't have to stand at the end of the bed watching, you can stay at the top, believe me your bond starts there,
there was already a bond which led to this process. It could just be if it was a weak vanderwaal's bond it might upgrade to hydrogen bond.
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by xxcarolxx(f): 1:58pm On Oct 10, 2010
You guy's will never get it unless you enter the delivery room. Both you and your wife get to celebrate that special moment together in watching your son or daughter entering the world, Yes i know we bond with our babies but to watch them been born is something else,
Re: In The Mind Of A Man by email1(m): 2:04pm On Oct 10, 2010
xxcarolxx:

To see your son or daughter been brought into the world is the best thing you will ever witness, It's something you guy's should witness,

witness as per waytin? So that you would be scared to put a child there the second and third time and the fourth and fifth time so as not to imagine the trama. I beg, guys remain outside.

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