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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Platony(m): 2:17am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Oh marriage Marriage na one kind thing oo. My brother, don't worry urself. She'll soon outgrow dis stage. Divorce is not an option. There's more to marriage than this stage u're experiencing. Be strong & face dis challenge, it shall pass. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Ishilove: 2:18am On Jul 15, 2019 |
kayone6237:Errr, you are. Or at least you once were... https://www.nairaland.com/4927309/which-addict-wish-end-2018/3#74224997 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Amanda4life: 2:32am On Jul 15, 2019 |
You are living your life separately. You are not truthful even though you do to church. You are living a secretive life , she does not trust you. You are married but living a single life. You don't love her. If you want to divorce her, thats better. So that she can run her race alone and make heaven. Because this kind of marriage is really disturbing her heavenly race. Her marriage with you may lead her to hell fire. Its better for someone to run the race alone and make heaven than being married and end in hell fire. Many will go to hell fire because of marriage. I beg free her Just tell your self the truth 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Amanda4life: 2:47am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Infact God is about to deliver her from your bondage called marriage.. Just try and divorce her you will see how God will bless her. If i were her i will leave you to continue living that life. Since my effort to help you is tagged as nagging. I will even be reminding you to go meet your friends and enjoy yourself small. I will continue to play along with you. Its a game for me . I will secretly plan my life well well. But the day something will happen to you through your night strolling or that smoke. You go know say i don first divorce you tete. Say na my shadow dey with you long time ago 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Amanda4life: 2:56am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Im a very romantic person but if you continue to toy with my emotions. Allah i go change am for you. I go just write movie script for you and act it out gently. Thank God you married her kind of person. Well, if you want to divorce her its okay. I might come your way unknowngly. Then i will help you achieve your purpose in life. If you still want to divorce no probs , people like us awaits you. Luv luv You know i love you� 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by arrestdarrester: 2:59am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Your wife is simply immature and insecure. She may not know it but her 'reporting' will only bring you disfavour. The people that would readily think of helping you when something good comes along will give that opportunity away to another person simply because of your wife. They would believe no one can know you like your own wife. This is a case of your own hand fighting your own head. Become genuinely born again. If already born again, rededicate your life to Christ. Stay away from friends that smoke or booze. Take charge of your family finances. Take charge of your family altar. Ask your wife to stop destroying your image before people you hold in high esteem. Take time to pray for your wife like you have never done before. If your wife refuses to change, shock her with a demand for separation (it is temporary, it is not divorce) from her. This would make her rethink and adjust. Make sure you're the one who ends the separation and not she. If any of the people you hold in high esteem calls you about any report from her, ask the person: "if your wife accuses you falsely in public, what would you do?" They will tell you "forgive". Tell them you have forgiven her but you just want her to change and this is the only way you know your wife would change. If they express any doubt, ask them why they didn't express the same doubt when she lied against you. Take charge of your home thenceforth. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by BYallthentic: 3:01am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Let me ask a few questions How long have been married How many Children do you guys have What were the things that made you settle down with her Many times What we see as the problem is nothing but symptoms of other underlying factors Try to answer the questions. I believe it’s just a phase! It will pass |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by nagalee(m): 3:06am On Jul 15, 2019 |
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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by palman(m): 3:12am On Jul 15, 2019 |
A lot of people hear said so meaning full stuff u can pick from Divorce is not an option here Talk to a pastor she respects for council If u can ask her to go out with u, I'm married I have friends but I don't hangout with them except when my wife feels OK and that's when she is not at home. If she is I rather stay with her and the kids. Maybe she doesn't like the way u leave her at home Find her a job if she is not working cos an idle Mind is a prey for trash Pray together when u wake up and sleep, maybe she thinks u are too worldly Ignore whoever she reports u to, they don't own ur life. Leave a conscience free life Above all show her more love, buy her gifts, take her out occasionally and pray 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by 2mch(m): 3:35am On Jul 15, 2019 |
If you see any trace that your intending is a compulsive gossip, please run from him/her. Gossiping is a very very very terrible and life threatening Vice. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by expert555: 3:44am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Guy she is setting you up for divorce, trust me I have seen examples of many including myself, my uncle and a close friend for good measure, she wants people to look you in bad light so when she eventually pull the plug at her chosen time and place people will see her in good light. Pull the plug on her before she does |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by freecocoa(f): 3:52am On Jul 15, 2019 |
EVILFOREST:In your mind now, you made sense o. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by babeosisi: 3:58am On Jul 15, 2019 |
I hope you don't bring AIDS and dash her from your night crawlings. You think.all your readers are daft This is what happens when a womam.marries an immature,insecure, under achieving man 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by segun18(m): 3:59am On Jul 15, 2019 |
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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Okijajuju: 4:27am On Jul 15, 2019 |
kayone6237: Between the two of you, who is financially stronger.. Don't lie to me otherwise I wont be able to advice you properly. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by sylve11: 4:36am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Edeteyongapla: I nor understand this. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by goslowgoslow(m): 4:41am On Jul 15, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:This are the type of question that I hate! Is it possible for you to notice everything about somebody before getting married? If so then you should be looking for a perfect person to marry. Is that possible? |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by sylve11: 4:42am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Checkerd: All these kind irritating post sef. |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Asiwajuyin(m): 4:46am On Jul 15, 2019 |
definitely she perceived the odour of smoke in your body whenever you get home, probably people you hangout with are smokers, OP why not look for responsible friend's and move with, if you are hanging out with good friends i don't think she will be. doing that, she's not telling you not to go out but she accused you of smoking, do you mean if I'm staying with you I won't accuse you too, when every time you come home you smell like white London.... it's better you change your circle oooo 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Nobody: 4:47am On Jul 15, 2019 |
TimFisher2:SENSE NO GO kill u |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by valentinos22(m): 5:00am On Jul 15, 2019 |
kayone6237:1. you are still a baby! nobody pushes a real MAN around like this! 2. i smell you both are afonja's which makes her attitude not unexpected! 3. chief even if you smoke as her hubby, she has no right to report you around instead she has a duty of trying to convince you otherwise. 4.when she will realize she was busy bringing shame upon her own self, it would be too late!{you are not the only married smoker, trust me!} 5.if her attitude is scaring in-laws and pastors away,then i urge you to see and enjoy the blessing in this act! because in-laws and pastors are choking lives out of some other marriages! 6. to divorce a woman who is not cheating is a childish move! 7. Stop moving around with small small boys,change your company so you can grow into a real MAN! 8.REAL MEN dont run to social media, they silently and personally deal with their situations! 9. I was just passing! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by ourhumanity: 5:07am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Let advise you rightly. Divorce her. Don't anyone here blackmail you into managing her or sermon idling about trust issue. A bad man or woman is bad. they will not change. your peace and health and progress are crucial than her. I repeat, leave her and don't make such mistake of ignoring your sixth sense again. Nairaland is full of bias minds that can tolerate or take to what they advise. Divorce her. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Mutemenot(m): 5:14am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Op. This your story is not complete, anyone who concludes from what u have written here may have not married or witnessed a family with problems.. Go back and arrange your family, the moment a man marries his life becomes a different thing from what it used to be.. You must consider that term "marriage" and obey it's principles... Mind the kind of team you move With, your side must have seen something deeper which you do not want to correct... |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by ZUBY77(m): 5:23am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Nwodosis: Divorce is not the worst option in marriage. If marriage is not working, divorce is the best option 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Tunagee(m): 5:23am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Wettoid123: Great advice. If I decide to express my experience here about my wife, OP would thank God for her wife |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Keebee4bowale: 5:26am On Jul 15, 2019 |
See dis guy is not financially responsible at home and I can see in him dat he flets around, I think a lady has bn decieving him outside D guy na Shinanny. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Tunagee(m): 5:34am On Jul 15, 2019 |
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Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by lolybaby(f): 5:36am On Jul 15, 2019 |
EVILFOREST: EVILFOREST:[quote author=EVILFOREST post=80273799]I will advise you to bring 2 more LADIES home, you will see her SIT UP. They detest competition in all forms. MEN should start making plans of bringing more Ladies home.real men don't chase other girl around but makes things work for good in his marriage,you don't just give advise anyhow... |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by dalass(f): 5:51am On Jul 15, 2019 |
You're a weed smoker...she won't say you were smoking if u were not. Seek help asap 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by omamokta: 5:52am On Jul 15, 2019 |
My wife had such issues before, always reporting me to my in-laws, she has six sisters and she is the second to the last born. What did i Do? I just man Up, banned their first daughter from visiting my house, verbally abused their second daughter on the phone when she started poke nosing, started acting crazy to them. Everybody quiet, since that time, the worst she can do is to report me to my mum or my uncles because reporting is in her DNA and am working on stopping that one too, though i dont know if she still reports to her sisters because i no send them. So my man divorce is out of it. You need drastic measures to succeed, good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Do Away With My Wife? ( Correct Or Divorce Her) by Nobody: 5:56am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Your headline is 'How can I do away with my wife', the second part of the heading is an afterthought. Bros any accusation leveled against a chicken is an excuse to murder it. Enjoy yaself 2 Likes |
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