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Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Chuxx84: 12:00am On Mar 11
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by MejiLoyon(m): 12:09am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by BigDick70inch(m): 12:12am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.

Just imagine!!!

What useless advice r u seeking??
Yo mum was not fetish............while spending her hard earned money on u...........jux to see u prosper..........but now dat u lil bit comfortable..........

One daughter of jazabel,daughter of a thousand dad............is somewhere trying to pit u against her abi??I hate dull brain!!!!

Think dummy!............

May.........thunder fire that yo leprous fingers u used for typing this sef...........Amen!!

Infact........u really need to be dragged on fp..........
Lalaclala!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by olamide0147: 12:16am On Mar 11
Bro u about to experience rival battle between your wife and your mother, soon she will force u to choose between them but be wise and so prepared because it might leads to divorce.
No matter what your mother will always be your mother even though she's a witch she will never let u down.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Omihanifa: 12:18am On Mar 11
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by NairalandEnemy(f): 12:26am On Mar 11
Dammnn!
No be wife you marry bro, na witch!

If you goan do mistake and heed to her suggestion lasan, you are doom!
She will do a meghan on you.

Lalasticlala sef!

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by nonen(m): 12:26am On Mar 11
You married a bad wife, she’s the one who’s fetish and serving you fetishizes.

If you’ve always been sending your mum money yourself, it’s condescending to have your wife start doing that on your behalf.

Talking about fetishizes, your mum may be fetish - yes even if she is - she’s used those fetishizes for your good, that’s why you could earn to support her.

Don’t you think: for your wife to discover her fetishizes, your wife is also a fetish woman?

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by nonen(m): 12:32am On Mar 11
Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho

Holding to her opinion is already pitching him against his mum. Some women are bad, but not for a total stranger(your wife) who barely knew her for a few years to come and convince me that a woman whom I’ve known and supported me for decades is suddenly fetish in a few years.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by DaddyRochie1642(f): 12:33am On Mar 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.




grin grin grin

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by pozehnani(f): 12:34am On Mar 11
Correct?? Is she a mathematics answer?

On a more serious note, it's your wife whos fetish for having such thoughts.

Have you ever experienced any financial setbacks since you've been helping your mother? If no, then continue helping her and don't send it through your wife.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by DaddyRochie1642(f): 12:37am On Mar 11
Some Men are really WEAK.

I pray I never have a son like this because I'll Curse him and Disown him.... Nonsense.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Omihanifa: 12:37am On Mar 11
nonen:


Holding to her opinion is already pitching him against his mum. Some women are bad, but not for a total stranger(your wife) who barely knew her for a few years to come and convince me that a woman whom I’ve known and supported me for decades is suddenly fetish in a few years.

I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by adadike(f): 12:46am On Mar 11
Chuxx 84, can you even listen to yourself? Your wife is manipulating you! If she can not call her own mother a witch, then she dare not call yours a witch. Even if her mother is a witch, yours is not and will never be a witch. She is manipulating you big time . Your wife is wicked and your wife is also a witch because any woman suspecting her mother in law to be a witch just to make the son hate his own mother , is a big time witch. Biko, the next, time she dare even imagine such and you didn't handle her fucck up, I go vex for you o. Don't give her money meant for your mom, give your mom money by yourself and pls don't stop giving your mom love and attention. How many years do our parents even have to spend with us here on earth?

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nobody: 12:51am On Mar 11
Don't allow her to get into your head that your mum is fetish with your money or whatever lies she tells you in her bid to get you to stop giving your mum money. It's obvious from her telling you to ignore your mum's requests that she will not give her any money if you start giving the money through her. Do continue to take care of your mother and give her money directly as you've been doing. Don't allow your mother to suffer.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by budaatum: 12:57am On Mar 11
BigDick70inch:


Just imagine!!!

What useless advice r u seeking??
Yo mum was not fetish............while spending her hard earned money on u...........to see u prosper..........but now dat u lil bit okay now..........

One daughter of jazabel,daughter of a thousand dad............is somewhere trying to pit u against her abi??I hate dull brain!!!!

Think dummy!.....

I am a feminist. I want to disagree with you. I want to disagree with you so very very much, but, but, but, I hate dull brain so the dummy must think!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by NoToPile: 1:13am On Mar 11
Has there been a trend ? Try and observe

Just ensure money gets to mama, anyone of you can do the sending or giving.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Coldplay007(f): 1:20am On Mar 11
Lol.. so your wife is rhe fetish defender.... grin grin grin
Na simple feminine manipulation, she will stop when you keep disregarding all her manipulative tendencies..

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by addictiv(m): 3:08am On Mar 11
you haff enter one chance

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Kondomatic(m): 3:43am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.
Tell me that my mother is "Fe" and I will be done throwing your bags out by the time you say "tish"


What nonsense.


I don't understand how this generation managed to raise so many weak people.

Person fail WAEC, boom suicide.

Person fail jamb, suicide

Person gets dumped, suicide

Now see the kind of a question a man is asking. It's jus annoying.


Women are very manipulative, first they act like they mean well and boom, they're riding you. This wife obviously did some very nice and caring thing before to get the OP's trust and now she's hitting on her main motive.

Being able to see through their plans is what keeps a man in charge. Beat them on their own games or you will die serving them.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Kirkman: 4:52am On Mar 11
Chuxx84; whatever rubbish your wife vomited from her mouth is none of my business that's between you and her, but the fact that you stood by and allowed your wife call your own mother a witch without your wife feeling what the celestial heavens looks like, na there you Bleep up. If this witch brought you into this world, fed you, clothed you and saw you through health and sickness over the years? Pls let her keep being a witch for you. If reverse was the case here and you called your wife''s mother a witch i am sure all her brothers, uncles and extended family members would have summoned you to the village to explain yourself by now and even your whole street would have heard that you called your wife's mother a witch.
Pls take care of this witch for me, her time on this earth is limited, you never know the value of that witch till she is gone from this earth, appreciate her whlist she's still alive.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Juliearth(f): 4:55am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.


Since your wife was able to decipher that you mum is fetish with your money, let her go ahead and undo the fetishism. Why would you allow another woman to talk so badly about your mum and why do the funds meant for your mother pass through her? You need to nip your wife's excesses on this issue.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nobody: 5:03am On Mar 11
Abeg senior man c'mon dem born you for 84 so you gotta figure this out yourself cos it's about you. All you'll get here is opinions of people from their family's point of view. You are wiser than you think. Stop being a sissy and man up. This is about you, make your decision, don't require public opinion on your family matter. It makes you look worthless. Chuxx84

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Richy4(m): 5:04am On Mar 11
I'm just imagining how a wife will stand before me and proclaim my mother fetish... It's also amusing that you were asking us if your mother was fetish smiley... we will have to google that for u.....

OP, I'm Just curious..... So if the money passed through her to your mother, the charm holding you people's progress will not work on you anymore or what?

Was there incantations or prayers said before handing the money to your mum?... Is she a prophetess, "dibia-ress or Babaaláwo-ress"
It's just amazing the bitter pill some people swallow just for peace to reign in the name of marriage sad

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by mejai(m): 5:07am On Mar 11
wives eh! their matter tire me

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by cococandy(f): 5:45am On Mar 11
She’s not making any sense. Fetish how? Superstitious people and their wahala sha. So if she’s the one to send it, then your mom won’t be fetish with it?

The only thing you need to do is to ensure that you provide for your family very well. You don’t have to make the money you provide for your mom go through her first.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by cococandy(f): 5:49am On Mar 11
Balderdash

And please let’s stop using “this is Africa” to say things that make no sense.

No disrespect intended

Omihanifa:


I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by pocohantas(f): 6:11am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? .

Your mum is fetish and she is not scared for her own life? Na im your mama never tie her womb throw inside fast flowing river?

Your wife is the fetish one. Fear those ladies that jump from one prophet to the other, because I am sure that is where she got this nonsense from and more would come.

Anyway, na as goat take stand for market them dey price am. Na you give her effrontery to say such. Toor!

The fact that you created a topic to ask if she is right is more worrying. You sure say I go born boy so? Nawa! cheesy cheesy

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by goryorhal(m): 6:24am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.

God no go allow me born/get pikin like you ... e kukuma better make person buy German Shepard than to get pikin wey dey reason like bedbug like u ....see wetin ur wife dey talk about ur mama and u con dey ask us what to do ... should I tell you that your wife is silly and crazy ? Nah bro

The ball is in your court ... in the first place why would she think of such My mama na witch and u con even marry witch pikin ... lmao .....

See bros I just pray and hope you won’t regret taking any silly steps or advice from her towards your mom .... Each one of you should stick to their parent ...
make she sef face her mama/family problem .....

I wish u all the best mr simps

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by goryorhal(m): 6:27am On Mar 11
pocohantas:


Your mum is fetish and she is not scared for her own life? Na im your mama never tie her womb throw inside fast flowing river?

Your wife is the fetish one. Fear those ladies that jump about from one prophet to the other, because I am sure that is where she got this nonsense from and more would come.

Anyway, na as goat take stand for market them dey price am. Na you give her effrontery to say such. Toor!


No b the wiffey fault nah ... sheyb she don see say na simps she marry .... see the effrontery wey d wife get to dey tell d husband “ let the money pass through me “ lmao

Las las brother go wise up soon ..... U don’t know what u have until u lose it ...

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Angelacruz: 6:50am On Mar 11
Very true bro...i hate this kind of women.Deir own mother is a saint while someone else mum is a witch . She wat to send d money by herself so dat she can give d woman peanut.D wife is not a good person.
Richy4:
I'm just imagining how a wife will stand before me and proclaim my mother fetish... It's also amusing that you were asking us if your mother was fetish smiley... we will have to google that for u.....

OP, I'm Just curious..... So if the money passed through her to your mother, the charm holding you people's progress will not work on you anymore or what?

Was there incantations or prayers said before handing the money to your mum?... Is she a prophetess, "dibia-ress or Babaaláwo-ress"
It's just amazing the bitter pill some people swallow just for peace to reign in the name of marriage sad

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Angelacruz: 7:00am On Mar 11
Your wife is d fetish person here not ur mum.If ur mum was fetish,she would have killed u since.Mothers are priceless ,pls dont listen to ur wife.For peace to reign,stop telling her how you spend your money.She was not dere wen ur mother was suffering to feed,cloth,pay ur school fees,pray for u etc.Pls wake up dnt allow ur fetish wife to use u.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by OKOATA(m): 7:03am On Mar 11
Tales of a simp, imagine an ordinary woman controlling the affairs of a grown up man. You should have been born with a puszy you this sissy man. I am sure if your wife tells you to forget your mom for life you would do it, funny enough I am sure that your so called evil wife is one useless and full time lazy ass woman always depending on her husband. A lady that wasn't there with you when you were born till you became a foolish man that you are, a total stranger from no where is now telling you your mom's a witch, any lady who tells that of my mom will regret this for life after I don slap her ear comot. Mr mumu man, go fuvk yourself because the "MAN" doesn't suite fools like you.

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