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. by SaucyBenks(m): 8:58am On Jul 21, 2019
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Re: . by Davash222(m): 9:07am On Jul 21, 2019
Your matter much o.

Just try and engage yourself in social activities.. Go out and watch football matches, sometimes go to public bars and take some bottles of beer with fish pepper soup, compliment beautiful girls around you, let them know they're beautiful. Some weekends, keep late night for just no reason, don't just lock yourself inside room every time.

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Re: . by BareFacedLies(m): 9:08am On Jul 21, 2019
You have too many bad vibes!
Re: . by Ryan03(f): 9:12am On Jul 21, 2019
Lol, i use to feel most of these things especially the alone part. I hate being around people, Dont visit me, i wont visit you, Dont call me, i wont call you either. I pretend to like people so that i wont look out of place. I laugh when they do, talk about things i'm not interested in just to seem normal. I keep to myself due to several betrayals from so called friends but i Dont hate compliments tho, i just hate you touching me or coming too close. But now, almost all that changed. First, i accepted that its my person and there is nothing wrong with me, then i began making some adjustment, i stayed true to myself, if i Dont like you i wont pretend to. I stay around family members i'm Comfortable with, i Dont feel Sorry for Telling you how i feel especially when you say something bad to me, i applied for a job i love, got employed, started working and focused on making money. In the process, i met a girl who is so real and love me for me. Its been over a year now and i'm just so happy

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Re: . by pagimo: 9:12am On Jul 21, 2019
With all you have written here, i don't even know how to talk to you so you don't end up doing something to yourself. But you need to visit a pastor
Re: . by Nobody: 9:18am On Jul 21, 2019
You are not alone.

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Re: . by Davash222(m): 9:19am On Jul 21, 2019
pagimo:
With all you have written here, i don't even know how to talk to you so you don't end up doing something to yourself. But you need to visit a pastor
Pastor What for?

His problems would double the moment he seeks a Pastor. An average Nigerian pastor would tell him that his uncle from the village is behind all these and you know what that means.

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Re: . by SaucyBenks(m): 9:24am On Jul 21, 2019
Ryan03:
Lol, i use to feel most of these things especially the alone part. I hate being around people, Dont visit me, i wont visit you, Dont call me, i wont call you either. I pretend to like people so that i wont look out of place. I laugh when they do, talk about things i'm not interested in just to seem normal. I keep to myself due to several betrayals from so called friends but i Dont hate compliments tho, i just hate you touching me or coming too close. But now, almost all that changed. First, i accepted that its my person and there is nothing wrong with me, then i began making some adjustment, i stayed true to myself, if i Dont like you i wont pretend to. I stay around family members i'm Comfortable with, i Dont feel Sorry for Telling you how i feel especially when you say something bad to me, i applied for a job i love, got employed, started working and focused on making money. In the process, i met a girl who is so real and love me for me. Its been over a year now and i'm just so happy
happy for you. Even if I settle with a girl that loves me, I'd mess things up with my weird attitude n lifestyle... Its complicated.

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Re: . by SaucyBenks(m): 9:26am On Jul 21, 2019
Davash222:
Your matter much o.

Just try and engage yourself in social activities.. Go out and watch football matches, sometimes go to public bars and take some bottles of beer with fish pepper soup, compliment beautiful girls around you, let them know they're beautiful. Some weekends, keep late night for just no reason, don't just lock yourself inside room every time.
I know that will help in a way.. But I need a push
Re: . by Dobson43: 9:28am On Jul 21, 2019
I think you should channel your creative mind to writing, preferably novels
Re: . by Ryan03(f): 9:32am On Jul 21, 2019
SaucyBenks:
happy for you. Even if I settle with a girl that loves me, I'd mess things up with my weird attitude n lifestyle... Its complicated.
Thats why you need to start adjusting some things, it will take time but if you really want to, you will do it
Re: . by jayextra(m): 11:57am On Jul 21, 2019
The negative vibes attached to ya Introverted nature is too much oh.
Re: . by pagimo: 12:11pm On Jul 21, 2019
The guy Mata too plenty so tey, i nor know wetin to tell am
Re: . by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jul 21, 2019
pagimo:
With all you have written here, i don't even know how to talk to you so you don't end up doing something to yourself. But you need to visit a pastor
visit a pas- what? He needs a doctor for serious counselling
Re: . by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 21, 2019
Just determine to change.....talk to 40girls,at least 5 will have ur time
Re: . by SaucyBenks(m): 9:17am On Aug 01, 2019
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