1. I 2. Love 3. You,  These 3 words ,which have a mammoth significance on d actions of individuals, as it arouses such emotions as joy, sadness, sympathy, loyalty, rage, r used by everyone irrespective of age, sex, gender, race or social status,  Contrary to what many fink, love is not a subjective issue, 'tis objective,  It doesn't mean different things to different people, it means one thing, love,  The varying degree of its interpretation is a function of one's perceptive,  This alters what an individual considers love, but doesn't in reality change what love  means.
To get a full understanding of what love entails, we must 1st and foremost understand its dynamics,  Let us consider the statement "I love you",  Note that this requires two individuals but, to love another, you must ask, do you love yourself? Now, balance is very hard to achieve with respect to most human endeavors and love, even for one's self is no exception,  Most people either do not love themselves enough. If you do not love yourself enough, how can you love another? You might wonder how someone wouldn't love him or herself, but what would you say of someone who's been diagnosed with a terminal kidney or liver ailment and has been advised to stay off alcohol, but still drinks to stupor?? Or the six month pregnant lady who goes ahead to have an abortion against her doctors advice? People like these do not love themselves, only when faced with death do they value their lives. How can someone like this ever love someone else properly? Or like the
majority of people love themselves, as a matter of fact, way too much. Being selfish is human & most people lead themselves to believe that they love another. Coincidentally, this love grows in time of plenty but fails in time of hardship. Mothers who love their children wouldn't abandon their children at the hospital just because they are born with disabilities,  They would starve so their kids would eat,  If they loved themselves too much, this wouldn't happen.
"I love you"s are usually used during male/female relationships. Now, for all the people who profess love to each other, how many would starve so the other eats,  "for better, for worse, in sickness & in health", these are nuptial vows, said before God and man,  But how many people, being honest with themselves will go ahead with their marriages if they knew that immediately after the marriage, your spouse will be in a wheelchair, or that pretty face will be disfigured, that the money or all other material things will disappear? In reality, many people are only tolerating each other. Their relationships would not withstand serious problems in life. Forget infidelity and cheating. How many people can confidently say their relationship would withstand the test of time if one half of the couple became a liability. Even if the relationship perseveres, is it truely out of love, or out of sympathy or what people would say? So if U can pinpoint one thing in
particular that's the sole reason you love your spouse then if that one factor disappears, will U still be by their side? Guess most people will never know. Love at 1st sight? Yeah, right,  So before you you go running your mouth as a result of what your hormones make you feel,  Ask yourself, do you really mean "Those Three Words"

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I don't believe you want me to read all these lecture notes. Carry go o.

who will have d time to read that love letter. Reduce it pal.

hahahahahhahahaha ''continues drinking voddy''

@poster. Pls summarize this rigmarole

i am not in the mood

****sleepz of while reading thread***

Ok, so I wrote dis "short" piece & I didn't preview it, 'twas only when I tried lookin' it up did I realise how my head 4 don auction 4 NL special IsiEwu, My sincerest (newcomers) apologies 2 whoever d fing vex, But knowin' NL 2 b NL som ppl no go jst 'gree hear sorry, To any1 lyk dat, nxt tym U near 3rd Mainland or any other bridge 4 dat matter, abeg, don't hesit8 2 do us dat favour, P. S: Iice, thnx btw,

@ Poster, pay no mind to people asking you to reduce your words of truth. We should take all U have said into consideration b4 using the ''Three Words''. Lovely piece!

I like ur stance keep it up.