When it comes to intimacy and sex, some people just don’t get it. Many tend to believe that the two are interchangeable, but they are distinctly different.
Sex is simply the act of intercourse; the physical gratification you obtain from enjoying a good sexual experience and orgasm with your partner. While good sex is essential for many in a relationship, it is, of course, temporary, meaning that, the feeling you get from it can be fleeting.

Intimacy, on the other hand, is more heartfelt. Intimacy is something else – something much deeper. It is an emotional connection you share with someone close to you. Intimacy is a space that is created between two people who don’t mind being naked either, but in a different type of way. It’s when you can share personal things with someone and those admissions create a beautiful and soul fulfilling bond.

You see, most couples fight or argue about sex/intimacy and there are two reasons for this; (a) A partner says, in order to have sex they have to create intimacy first…(b) Another feels that they have to have sex first in order to create intimacy. So the couple fights back and forth about what should come first. One usually says, “I need sex to feel close to you” And the other retaliates by saying “I need to feel close first in order to have sex” And round and round they go arguing about which one needs to come first...https://tarajmediahub.com/sex-vs-intimacy-which-is-more-important-to-you

This one is a mo nrainer...
Some women you just fukc them with no feeling whatsoever while others you don't and make passionate love to them ... simply because not all sex acts with someone should be the same. Although you may love your woman, sometimes you make sweet love to her and other times you just bang the hell.out of her, like she stole something from you.

Also, we all know that MEN NEED TO HAVE SEX TO CARE FOR SOMEONE WHILE WOMEN NEED TO CARE BEFORE THEY HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE