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Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by nnemoh: 10:27am On Oct 22, 2010
this tread is for both male and female, but mostly female.

ladies how do u see a man who will always tell u that a woman must be under a man knowing fully well that u've never challenged nor insult him before. u've been very submissive to him but yet any little thing is an opportunity for him to tell u that u must be under him.
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:36am On Oct 22, 2010
i personally see them as: Neanderthal thinking ignoramus who are quick to take either the bible or qur'an at face value.
i wont say that it is a WRONG way of thinking because anyone has the right to believe what they want to believe BUT, if a woman knows that a man has these beliefs and she STILL marries him, then she has only herself to blame!
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 22, 2010
Any marriage where both partners have an equal say is a recipe for disaster.

I'd rather be in a relationship in which the lines of authority are established than one in which anything goes
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by KemiAdeyeye: 4:44pm On Oct 22, 2010
please a woman with wisdom can have a say, i said a woman with wisdom. if you want to get a monkey simply act like one!!!
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by Dsense(m): 4:49pm On Oct 22, 2010
OP,
Dis does not worth to be shared on Nl
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by ShyOne(f): 2:55am On Oct 23, 2010
One Word

"G.o.o.d.b.y.e."
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by StRichy(m): 4:12am On Oct 23, 2010
dis is called[b] Authority Vs. Influence![/b]
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by InkedNerd(f): 4:24am On Oct 23, 2010
Personally, I would/could never be with such a man. If we are in a committed relationship then it is a partnership. I wasn't raised to be submissive to anyone whether male or female. If I am dating someone we are in the relationship as equals and should respect one another as equals. Like I've always said, I'd never treat anyone in a manner that I know I wouldn't want to be treated.
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by iice(f): 7:39am On Oct 23, 2010
Power is a heady drug. Many Naijans get off on it.
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by InkedNerd(f): 8:40am On Oct 23, 2010
^^^ Yupp
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by pdone: 10:09am On Oct 23, 2010
I can't stand a girl that doesn't contribute an opinion let alone in a relationship. O'Yes girls(girls that agree everything you said without voicing out what they think) piss me off.  Sometimes my opionion or plans may be wrong, and that is when I needed her advice most. What is the happiness in a relationship if we don't rub mind together.

Having said that, I don't mean that she will shove her ideas down my throat the way Hitler did in WW2
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by InkedNerd(f): 10:10am On Oct 23, 2010
pdone:

I can't stand a girl that doesn't contribute an opinion let alone in a relationship. O'Yes girls(girls that agree everything you said without voicing out what they think) piss me off.  Sometimes my opionion or plans may be wrong, and that is when I needed her advice most. What is the happiness in a relationship if we don't rub mind together.

Having said that, I don't mean that she will shove her ideas down my throat the way Hitler did in WW2


Well said my dear kiss
Re: Can't A Woman Have A Say In A Relationship by MrCork21: 1:27pm On Oct 23, 2010
yes they have a say in the kitshen and bedroom, actualty tongue

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