Why is Mama Ndidi (selling Plantain) still holding her Marriage of 20 yrs, but Joy (Bank Manager) is divorced after 4 yrs?
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Mama ndidi selling plaintain is enduring alot of nonsense and still there because of what people will say, while joy working in the bank can't endure rubbish, because there is money to take care of her needs,she is not dependant on a man,besides she is in a new world where shame is gone with the wind.

Pascopele:
Why is Mama Ndidi (selling Plantain) still holding her Marriage of 20 yrs, but Joy (Bank Manager) is divorced after 4 yrs?
Discuss

Joy is married to her bank job. At the end of the day, she's fagged out from dealing with annoying customers, corporate targets and possibly an annoying boss.
Joy leaves home 6am to get to the office before 7.30am(if she's in Lagos) but doesn't get back home till 9pm. Her body is weak from the stress so sex and intimacy for her has become "an obligation to her husband" so it's basically boring. Mama Ndidi is always ready to roll and available.
Joy spends her best hours in the bank and gives the left over to her family, Mama Ndidi does the opposite.

Joy will not want to "accommodate" flaws in her husband because when women have money they start to feel they don't need men. This is so because most women chose their spouse based on money, prospect or security and not necessarily love. So when you can give yourself the one thing you marry another for the marriage starts to become tiring.

Joy's husband could be a lieing, cheating unfaithful mofo (Joy could have seen this if she wasn't looking at how much more he has or will have), while mama Ndidi got a great man with not so much money.

Joy's husband could be a boring woman beater with no vision than to have his wife take care of him, Mama Ndidi might have gotten a man that's hardworking and committed to her but short of opportunities.

Joy's village people could be alive and active.

Different people different outcomes, divorce is not based on one's job

Apination:
Different people different outcomes, divorce is not based on one's job

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