i am a lady in my mid twenties, am engaged to this particular guy whom i used to really love until now, wat happened wz dt we both as humans had our quarrels we settled but since then he has been seeing other ladies nd as adults nd engaged we make out without protection nd cos of his radiness i ave had infections, not just that he seem not to bother about my health, so wen he came around i refused him sex and he turned around to say dt am dating someone else, but the problem now is dt i ave falling in love with someone else and i dont knw ow to break this news to my fiancee , this present guy is ready to wait till marriage b4 sex, pls advice mi guys.

@ Poster,
as in, I dont understand why as his fiance you were now allowing d guy to be seeing other girls. How long between when you found out he was seein other ladies and when you caught your infections (more than one eh? kei) did you refuse d guy sex?

I dont even understand which kind r'ship you people are in, cos he's your fiance, that you caught infection wfrom, and are now refusin sex, his infected self is still sleepin with others and since then you've fallen in love with another guy , na wa for you both, that one na tv drama, the stuff nollwood movies are made from.

just breakup with fiance, try not to transfer infection to new guy. Move on with you life

@ OP

"Bleep you Nigg'er, its over" would solve your problem!

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i am a lady in my mid twenties, am engaged to this particular guy whom i used to really love until now, wat happened wz dt we both as humans had our quarrels we settled but since then he has been seeing other ladies nd as adults nd engaged we make out without protection nd cos of his radiness i ave had infections, not just that he seem not to bother about my health, so wen he came around i refused him sex and he turned around to say dt am dating someone else, but the problem now is dt i ave falling in love with someone else and i dont knw ow to break this news to my fiancee , this present guy is ready to wait till marriage b4 sex, pls advice mi guys.

you are crazy "i dont know how to break this news to my fiancee" you dont need to tell him that you have fallen in love with someone

all you need is to tell him that we are done your got one good reason he infected you with an STI ---- simple

remember your reason whatever it is it doesnt have to make sense to him --- nope it should make sense to you

Dump dat guy jor, he is not worth it, even if u ve not fallen in love, u shuld knw dat a guy who infects u is a nuisance

I think both of u should wait until u have HIV then u can seperate, Nonsense infact both of u are cheaters

looool

poster is your confusion for real?

@ poster.

is this a trick question

^^^No. It's only Ashton punking us! True talk Lola. He's a mega infectious nuisance.

kokoye:

@ poster.

is this a trick question

exactly.

Fairly tale me thinks!

the post is real and i wonder why some pple misunderstand other pples plight nd tend to make it a laughing issue, sorry to say bt xpected mature response nt some shallow talks , most pple around d world go tru different tins everyday nd they get so confused that they resolve to sites like this 4 help,all they need is some encouragement nt all the stuff u guys posted,

YOU MUST TAKE THE FOLLOWING STEPS RIGHT NOW, COS IT IS IMPORTANT
1. PLEASE SEE A GYNA. TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR INFECTION
2. FORGET THIS GUY COS, HE HAS NO FUTURE
3. BE BORN AGAIN.
4. PRAY ABOUT THE NEW MAN
SHINE YOUR EYES.
5. AN INFECTION LEFT UNT. COULD LEADS TO FUTURE BARRENNESS
THE TRUTH!!!!!!!