In this script the writer provided insights honed with detailed professional solutions to all existing dating and relationship questions published as a thread in the NAIRALAND romance section since 2005 (inception year of this forum) up till 2015.

In the realistic redress of these painful romantic problems, The writer took into cognisance the fact that a lot of persons does not just get the answers they seek.

He/she might say: "there re multiple pattern to a relationship, and there is not one particular fix to it! meaning there is not one formula that cuts across due to peoples lifestyles and differences"

OP: "Could it be relatively dependent on that"?
To burst that bubble I ll say there is a constant principle and guideline, u can call it a formula that every relationship must adopt to thrive. If they re kicking it right it would seem like a bed of roses.

But these questions surfaced because something went wrong in that affair and the flow has been interrupted due to the fact that core principles were neglected.

Now u seek ideas:
— from bad advice to misleading suggestions, opinions and views.

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Romance / Re: My Ex Wants Us Back, What Do I Do?
By ddugeri :

I will just cut the long story short, I have been dating this girl for long, (5 yes) so I got to know she was double dating , I confronted her and the outcome led to breakup, I moved on, even though it wasn't easy, after like 6 months, I found love again.

She now wants us back, and am already in another relationship, and I love the both of them, am just in a dilemma, please your suggestions.

love is important. but pay attention to the other even more important things before u make a decision. what u must understand is when it comes to relationship a lady's expectations may be rooted beyond the conventional dating routine and activities, it could be marriage, it could be commitment on the long run... it is ur job as the guy to figure out what it is and put it into perspective so u can sail ur ship towards the direction u want cos when u as the guy refuse to do the right things and stretch it for too long she might be forced to keep options which is not entirely her fault.

I ve always said in my teachings that the guys are sometimes the problem.

Romance / Re: My Ex Wants Us Back, What Do I Do? By ddugeri :

I will just cut the long story short, I have been dating this girl for long, (5 yes) so I got to know she was double dating , I confronted her and the outcome led to breakup, I moved on, even though it wasn't easy, after like 6 months, I found love again.

She now wants us back, and am already in another relationship, and I love the both of them, am just in a dilemma, please your suggestions.

love is important. but pay attention to the other even more important things before u make a decision. what u must understand is when it comes to relationship a lady's expectations may be rooted beyond the conventional dating routine and activities, it could be marriage, it could be commitment on the long run... it is ur job as the guy to figure out what it is and put it into perspective so u can sail ur ship towards the direction u want cos when u as the guy refuse to do the right things and stretch it for too long she might be forced to keep options which is not entirely her fault.

I ve always said in my teachings that the guys are sometimes the problem.