Dear Agatha,

I am a girl of 18 years of age while my boyfriend is 25 and I love him very much. Our relationship is a year old. He can’t do without sex and I am not so crazy about it but can’t end the relationship. According to him, his mother says it is always better when a woman loves a man more as against a man loving a woman more as our case.

Recently, he called me to inform me that he desires to reduce intensity of his love for me through reduction in the number of times he makes love to me but that as long as I am in his life, he can’t stop.

The only way he says he can achieve this is to have another girlfriend alongside with me. I don’t know what to say to him or how to handle the matter.

Confused Girl.

tell him you want to have another man as well.

Leave him might hurt at first but there is another guy out there that'll appreciate you for more than just sex. Like atampakoeg said if you told him you wanted another man I'm sure he wouldn't be having it.

Tell him ''to hell with u''.

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That was hilarious!!

atampakoeg:

tell him you want to have another man as well.

^^ one possible answer

D-sense:

Tell him ''to hell with u''.

^^^ another possible answer

or tell him to go fvck himself with a broken glass bottle. kick that looser to the curb no love is worth having anyone taking advantage of your naivety.

He has had you uncountable times, so why are you bothered now?

he isnt using you, but just dumped you!

DUH!

shadrach77:

Dear Agatha,

I am a girl of 18 years of age while my boyfriend is 25 and I love him very much. Our relationship is a year old. He can’t do without sex and I am not so crazy about it but can’t end the relationship. According to him, his mother says it is always better when a woman loves a man more as against a man loving a woman more as our case.

Recently, he called me to inform me that he desires to reduce intensity of his love for me through reduction in the number of times he makes love to me but that as long as I am in his life, he can’t stop.

The only way he says he can achieve this is to have another girlfriend alongside with me. I don’t know what to say to him or how to handle the matter.

Confused Girl.

Tell him you love him and keep giving him sex whenever he wants it. Nothing wrong with him having another girl, it will keep you on your toes.

atampakoeg:

tell him you want to have another man as well.

With this comment this thread should be closed because this is the absolute and only answer the op needed. Btw shes just 18 and no nothing bout love.

^seconded. Thread closed. Any poster after me will be ban