guys just last nigth i came back from my family house after a meeting and i was told that the propose of the meeting was to tell me that i must get married between the next 8 months,am the only boy of a framily of seven and the last born my dad is abt 85 yrs and mom close 2 70yrs they say as the only boy i must provide them with child,not just a child a boy cos my dad was also the only boy of is family,guys this is not just coming from my dad and mum but from elders in my dads family,am not up to 25yrs yet am i dont want a wife now,what do i do.

Honestly speaking if I were you I would get married. You said your dad is about 85yrs and your mum close to 70yrs right. They are mortal beings and would like to know their grandchildren before bowing out. Why are you not ready? Is it because of higher education or has finance got anything to do with it?

Since thats the case and you already have a lover, then get her pregnant and give ur parents a boy. then whenevcer you are ready, u marry the girl. shekina

i dont know my lover disc me 2 weeks ago for anyother guy so am single but marriage now do u think is rigth,reply put urself in my shoes.

im sorry 2 say but how old r u? cuz like dis is teh problems most ppl get married wen dey a lot old dats d problem wit ur mum n dad at 30 u should ve given birth

am just close to 25yrs,i dont think its late in anyway to get married but to early,what do u say

U guys are not gettin d brother, the problem is not with procreation (which he can have with any lady), its with an untimely weddlock. Yes, he's 25, did anyone ask if he has a job , if he able to take on the responsibility and challenge of raising a home for the anticipated "grand child". His rush and effort would also be in vain if after all said and done the child is a female! (when d grand parentals want a son). what about love? cos marriage aint all about kids u know. i suggest u call ur parents and the so-called family elders not to live their desires off u cos its ur life not theirs and u face the gains and consequences alone @ the end of the day

@2dye
tanks man i am just doing my NYSE in Ph now a no job they say they will provide


i don't think am ready for this now moreover i don't have a girl 4 now,i feel like running away from them like d song goes only this time alone

@bibi:

ur still a corper and want to put u thru this? so that u can become methusela who begat and begat, thats all. @ the time i was a corper, i wasn't thinkin of no wife or kid, but how to earn my cheddas (ego, owo, kudi).
Man, plan ur life and build urself up, when its time for wife n kids to come into the scene, they will.
also pray to God to grant ur folks the years to watch n see u achieve what u want to achieve.

I just had to send a shout out to your father Sir,
from my maths he was 60 when he give birth to a boy.
So just encourage him that he will still get to 189 years old. CHAO

so you have time to give him one

You must not let your life be controlled by someone else. You must know that you have your life to live.
Do what you know is right and at the right time, if they like, let them walk with their heads on the ground.

@levi2me
the man is a very strong man cos he did not lose hope i wonder y he is now,but tanks cos i have used that on him and it seems 2 be working

i have call 4 a personly meeting with my mum 2 talk 2 her and all the family members i will be there this weekend,not that i don't know with 2 say but 2 good heads are better than one,so plz just put urself in my shoe n what will u say 2 them

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