I tell you the truth: cheating is painful... It is really painful & reactions can be spontaneous or improper.

I read of some "ladies" who were against the reaction of a guy who saw something ill in the phone of his wife-to-be on her wedding day. The guy's reaction was barbaric though, but some ladies were against the guy without logic.

A case happened of were a lady was confirmed pregnant on her wedding day in a popular church in Nigeria. She was confirmed pregnant for someone else, and even the wife of a top politician begged her fiance; but he refused. So everything concerning the wedding died on the wedding day..

People are not robots, and when they get a very wrong news at first-hand, they react to it wrongly most times.... So you may have to give them some minutes or some hours or days or weeks to cool off before getting themselves..

Don't just blame people for wrong reactions at the first instance. They have not digested it yet!!. Ladies ranting & talking about how a guy or whoever reacted wrongly to cheating should think again. People are not robots, and they must rant or react to unpleasant situations many times.....Or lady, if on your wedding day, you discovered your fiance slept with four of your bridesmaids that same week, will you pamper him in your wedding vehicle? Won't you stop somewhere and rant??

You react by buying her expensive clothes, new phone, load her bank account, take her for a drink etc

So simple, react the way a woman is expected to react in Nigeria. Accept fate, swallow your pains and forgive.

Poorboy:
You react by buying her expensive clothes, new phone, load her bank account, take her for a drink etc

with pizza

willyfatima:
with pizza

LoL

In fact, just take her shopping abroad.