Love they say,comes swift and unannounced, and flows naturally between two adults. Finding the true meaning of love seems to elude the NL youth who jumps at every available "searching topic" once noticed from the opposite sex.
Now I wonder personally what the fun is in having a jump simply for the possibility of a sex romp in the near future.
Fortunately or not "sex" as an activity has become quite cheap in Lagos Nigeria where I reside at the moment, so I wouldn't know why people should jump into a love affair all for the sex part.
Personally I have been attracted to a few members of the opposite sex here on NL following my desire for intelligence,but only to realize that needs of the NL youth revolves around sex and finance but never a deep seated need to find genuine love.
"I LOVE YOU",unfelt but spoken. Reeled out several times all in a bid to create an emotional confused reaction of urge which will unavoidably lead to physical sex which turns to regret for many and severe pain for some others ,and to a minute few...real fulfillment of love and pleasure.
Love exists in the strangest places and forms but never in a familiar terrain where logic leads actions, suspicion hovers while premeditated thoughts preceed freedom of spirit.
First love thyself then maybe love will love you back.....waking thoughts.

Where are the sex addicts?