It is when Jesus Christ Crucified has become *born* inside your mortal-body then He will teach you personally His Gospel and Life making your mortal-body to grow from baby-Christian to youth-Christian to adult-Christian then He will reveal to you the endeavour (business, job, career, earthly engagements) and vocation (marriage, priesthood, sisterhood, celibacy) that He wants you to enter into on this earth. If it is marriage, He can bring a person of the same denomination or different denomination or a pagan or an unbeliever or any person at-all He decides who will receive *His Gospel LIFE now working inside you and become also a genuine Christian/born-again/Believer/Disciple of Jesus Christ*. He can choose to use you to bring the person into *converting first* then to baby-Christian then to youth-Christian then to adult-Christian before both of you will marry on a Christian altar*; all these will happen within years of courtship without sin in the hearts of both of you not to mention sin in your bodies (kissing, romancing, caressing, sucking, fingering, or any form of sexual activity/penetration) by the *grace of Jesus Christ Crucified now living inside both of you, controlling his emotions inside you and keeping you holy till the end (John 14:16, John 15:22, John 8:12, 1 Corinthians 1:8-9), if *any type of sin occurs in your hearts or bodies* then it is a clear sign that both of you are not *Christians yet* not to mention being *matured-christians* however intending partners *must discuss about sex and their sexual preferences/ideologies/beliefs during courtship so that you will know whether it aligns with sexual purity teachings of Jesus Christ* before you make the decision of accepting him/her as a marriage-spouse who you will spend the rest of your life with. The Holy Spirit can decide to use any of you who is a *matured-christian* to *convert the other person first* then grow him/her from *baby-Christian to youth-Christian* then *permit both of you to marry on a Christian-altar* such that after the marriage, He continues *the growth stage of that person unto 'matured-christian'*. All these is to help both of you not to *torment your mortal-body who is carrying Christ Jesus(God and Man) inside the person who is a genuine Christian* under the *name of marriage* because *every human being is designed to receive salvation by grace through faith in Christ Jesus* (John 3:16-18) but every human being is not designed for marriage (Matthew 19:12).
So I advise you to *ask the Holy Spirit to help you become sincere in receiving salvation by grace through faith in Christ Jesus first* then when Jesus Christ Crucified enters into your mortal-body He will lead you into the endeavour and vocation he designed for you before the foundation of the world because Jesus Christ is God(Perfect Being/Spirit) He will not make *any mistake about your life* and *where you will spend eternity after you die will be surely heaven where Jesus Christ Crucified is currently now*. With or without *preaching* the new life of Jesus Christ Crucified now living inside your mortal-body while on earth will be *bringing other human being* who encounter you both in the private and public engagements/vocation of life to *believe the gospel of Jesus Christ Crucified*. It is only the *Holy Spirit* that can *help you or any human being in this world* to be *sincere in believing the gospel of Jesus Christ Crucified*.
Great Grace Brethren!!!