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I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 4:43pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
I have been married for about 3 years. Unfortunately, my marriage isn't bliss like I planned. I saw the signs but too weak to renege on my promise for marriage at the time. My marriage is plagued with these behavior from my partner: 1. Intensity 2. Isolation 3. Extreme Jealousy, Possessiveness and Mistrust 4. Belittling 5. Volatility What do I do? |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 4:54pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
I just looked through your posts and in the thread below you said "My entire nuclear family didn't attend mine [wedding] including parents and siblings. None did...". by Kessykelly: 11:53pm On Apr 21 https://www.nairaland.com/5146299/father-refused-attend-wedding/1#77745065 Why didn't anyone in your family attend the wedding? 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Greatzeus(m): 4:58pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Break down these grammars for us in details biko Intensity could be good thing you know,kindly explain. Isolation,we get that one, probably there's lack of proper communication Belittling? How Volatility? Chai Could it be the problem in your marriage is using unnecessary grammars when simple words could suffice? Just saying 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 4:59pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
theButterfly: Story for another day. Wedding is different from marriage! 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 5:00pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Greatzeus: Lol. If you know you know o, I no fit shout! |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Donald3d(m): 5:05pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
We need more details. |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by thorpido(m): 5:09pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Are you female or male sef? |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 5:10pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
thorpido: If you know you know. |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 5:16pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Kessykelly:You don't sound like someone that is in urgent need of advice that will salvage your marriage going by your replies on the thread to people who asked you genuine question to know the beginning of your problems. The excuses you made up there is so vague nothing to it again. Which one is IF YOU KNOW YOU KNOW 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 5:19pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Kessykelly:I wonder why you created a thread if you're not willing to give some honest background information for people to advice you accordingly. But it looks like you're not really looking for advice. 10 Likes |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 5:20pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
virgoquin: I guess you are not married because if you are, you won't probe further! Anyway, I have already gotten the answer I sought. |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by LewsTherin: 5:31pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
I am married and all I can see on this thread is someone who most definitely is not really looking for advice. More like someone who wants to troll nairaland. 16 Likes |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Biglittlelois(f): 5:35pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
LewsTherin: I feel same too, which one is if you know you know? Well he said he has gotin a solution already, lol. 9 Likes |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Ishilove: 5:47pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
This one open thread to troll. Oshisko 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 6:03pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: How did you conclude its a she? You have stereotyped men as the ones always giving problems in marriage hence it has to be a she? 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 6:13pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Kessykelly: These words however discrete, could have different meaning to different individuals based on learning and experience. I can see that you have not come here for solution. Rather you came to add to people's problems with that ambiguous list 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by sisisioge: 6:15pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Chai...your English self is plenty. Just be patient and talk to your partner. How to do this? Get her a nice gift, get on your knees and say..."baby, please help me. I need you to be my peace. Stop being 1. Intensity 2. Isolation 3. Extreme Jealousy, Possessiveness and Mistrust 4. Belittling 5. Volatility" If she were me, na laugh you go first laugh before we begin the talk . Good luck. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 6:18pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
sisisioge: |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by uboma(m): 6:50pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Greatzeus: Hahahah You are funny but true. |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Biglittlelois(f): 6:52pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
breezy147: I didn't stereotype, I actually thought wrong, my bad, I'll modify. 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by bujebudanu1(m): 9:22pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Greatzeus: check your dictionary
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Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Ganjafama(m): 9:32pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
This thread needs to be erased 1 Like
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Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by bukatyne(f): 9:36pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
Ganjafama: Honestly, closing it doesn't do it justice. Erase is the word. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 6:48am On Sep 22, 2019 |
Thank you all for your various advice and comments. I wanted to cross check on the next step with someone who will be objective because she/he is not involved and I have gotten the answer. Again, thank you. If you still want to say something, please feel free but so far, I have gotten the answer that I want. |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by GennyCheta(f): 9:32am On Sep 22, 2019 |
Kessykelly:You posted dis in romanceland From your response here it's either you are not married at all you just want to post a story, or you are the problem in your marriage Unseriousnes everywhere 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by GennyCheta(f): 9:33am On Sep 22, 2019 |
LewsTherin:Exactly 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 9:42am On Sep 22, 2019 |
GennyCheta: Kessykelly: No further comments. |
Re: I'm In Hell Of A Marriage, I Need Help ! by Nobody: 1:46pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
GennyCheta:Couldn't agree more. |
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