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I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Michelle55: 11:37pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
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Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by nlPoster: 11:41pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
About 90% of Nigerians believe in sex before marriage, why are we deceiving ourselves. |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by pocohantas(f): 11:45pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Her mom (my Aunt) gave birth to her at home before getting married Why are you bent on making history repeat itself? Apart from the guy being from your place (and fitting into some stereotype), do you know him before? You have the scanner for dead-beat-dads in your eyes? 1 Like |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Michelle55: 11:48pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
pocohantas:My sister if you see Wetin I use my eyes see when I travelled eh, you won't allow any of your blood relations to get married to some of the men from my place Some of my cousins that got married to the men from my place will be like " Michelle run 4-40 oh, no stop. |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by sisisioge: 5:06am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Aunty...I think you should step aside and let your niece lay on her made bed. She's the one that saw him, got knocked up by him and now ready to marry him. Let her be. Helping her manage her life is part of the reasons she kept on disappearing at night till she got preggers because she knew people will help her manage the outcome. Let her start managing herself now that she's a full blown woman, a mother to be. If I were you, I won't even give an opinion. It's herself and whatever choices she has made so far! 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by yeyeosoronga: 6:30am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Hold the ceremony in your eldest son's house. He is the leader of the squad ain't he? The others should just show/give support such as contributing for food and other expenses for your guests |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Jayslicky: 7:47am On Sep 23, 2019 |
What the hell is wrong with nairalanders these days, any small issue they will bring it to social media. Which advise do you need when I don't know how your family works, keep your family problems to your family to solve and stop seeking useless answers online. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by piroux(f): 12:02pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: Leader of the squad over her own mother who's even older than him? Who does that? Whats my own sef? Long and short, the girl is already pregnant at 20. Let her have her introduction, fortunately, introduction is not marriage. If after a few years, she becomes wiser, she can still go. But let her child be kn own with a father. |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by mankettle(m): 12:34pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
First of all she is your cousin if her mum is your aunt. Now to the main issue. History as repeated itself, your family should make plans to take care of mum and daughter. |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by yeyeosoronga: 5:27pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
piroux: Marriage union in Nigeria has always been between families. The pregnant girl in question grew up with her mother's family without any father except her uncles and grandfather as father figures (from what I understood from OPs post), and she probably bears their name. The introduction should be held at the head of the family's home who I'm assuming to be the eldest uncle. For now, women don't hold the position of head of family in most Nigerian cultures, but perhaps in your culture they do. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Modernist: 6:10pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
20 y/o preggers? that aside She made her mistake let her bear the consequence it's non of your business,Wise word from my parents Never burden yourself with Another man's responsibility. |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by thorpido(m): 10:59pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
I feel trying to work her into a marriage because she got pregnant will backfire. Whichever decision you make,make her realise she's likely got a tough road to walk. |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Nobody: 1:22am On Sep 24, 2019 |
Why are you trying to help her leave her life? Not trying to be mean, but it's her cross let her carry it herself. The earlier, the better 1 Like |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by baby124: 2:42am On Sep 24, 2019 |
Let them do traditional marriage before that idiot runs away. Make sure there is an agreed decision on how he plans to take care of his family BY HIMSELF! Introduction is not good enough. It’s a way of tying her down for a long time and wasting her time. If he wants the child and your cousin he must MARRY her! Otherwise you all seek alternatives, either she becomes a single mum or she gets the pregnancy terminated. Those are the options you have right now. |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Powermind: 3:41am On Sep 24, 2019 |
Jayslicky: Did she force you to comment? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by chigoizie7(m): 11:03pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Michelle55: Please where are you from? |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Michelle55: 7:10am On Jan 31, 2020 |
chigoizie7:Somewhere in kuviki land of oguta lake |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by chigoizie7(m): 8:23am On Jan 31, 2020 |
Michelle55: Chai. Are the men that bad? |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Michelle55: 8:26am On Jan 31, 2020 |
chigoizie7:Lol.. The ones I've seen are not good either |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by chigoizie7(m): 8:29am On Jan 31, 2020 |
Michelle55:M Nawa ooh. Since all of una de run from them, who go come marry them? Abeg make una pity them ooh. Before they all turn to homo, konji is a real bastard. And that una side go de cold well well. |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Michelle55: 8:35am On Jan 31, 2020 |
chigoizie7:Lol.. You fit arrange babes give dem.. E go make sense wella |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by chigoizie7(m): 8:50am On Jan 31, 2020 |
Michelle55: Why I go arrange babes when una wey be babes dey already |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by Michelle55: 8:56am On Jan 31, 2020 |
chigoizie7:I no dey available .. Dem no dey fear ni |
Re: I Need Your Advice And It's Urgent by chigoizie7(m): 9:01am On Jan 31, 2020 |
Michelle55: Go and be your brothers keeper. Besides, since una men no good, only God knows as the women go be. Ofu aka ruta mmanu, ozuo ora. 1 Like |
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