I am 19 years I come from a very  poor family of 5children I am the fourth  position my dad doesn't do anything only my mum she sell bread by the roadside but it is been 4 months now she is not working because she march on poison and her leg is very big and suallen, I also have a 3 years old child she is my everything I feel sad for not providing for her the way I am supposed to , a friend of mine propose me to follow her to Togo for work but my parents has refused they said its very risky I might end up being killed  there but I don't care because they don't help me with anything , I depend on myself they don't provide anything for me not even a pant , I want to do it for myself and daughter to live a better life I don't want to be poor like my parents they were born in poverty also had children in poverty andI want to break the curse. We are leaving on the 18th of October I am getting worried I hope I have taken the right opportunity for me and my daughter. Your advise is needed please

Chaiii.. You must be Igbo..
SMH.

Safe journey..

Chizzy7890:
I am 19 years I come from a very  poor family of 5children I am the fourth  position my dad doesn't do anything only my mum she sell bread by the roadside but it is been 4 months now she is not working because she march on poison and her leg is very big and suallen, I also have a 3 years old child she is my everything I feel sad for not providing for her the way I am supposed to , a friend of mine propose me to follow her to Togo for work but my parents has refused they said its very risky I might end up being killed  there but I don't care because they don't help me with anything , I depend on myself they don't provide anything for me not even a pant , I want to do it for myself and daughter to live a better life I don't want to be poor like my parents they were born in poverty also had children in poverty andI want to break the curse. We are leaving on the 18th of October I am getting worried I hope I have taken the right opportunity for me and my daughter. Your advise is needed please

You know all these and still allow a guy to impregnate you. By the way,where is the father of your child?

Chizzy7890:
I am 19 years I come from a very  poor family of 5children I am the fourth  position my dad doesn't do anything only my mum she sell bread by the roadside but it is been 4 months now she is not working because she march on poison and her leg is very big and suallen, I also have a 3 years old child she is my everything I feel sad for not providing for her the way I am supposed to , a friend of mine propose me to follow her to Togo for work but my parents has refused they said its very risky I might end up being killed  there but I don't care because they don't help me with anything , I depend on myself they don't provide anything for me not even a pant , I want to do it for myself and daughter to live a better life I don't want to be poor like my parents they were born in poverty also had children in poverty andI want to break the curse. We are leaving on the 18th of October I am getting worried I hope I have taken the right opportunity for me and my daughter. Your advise is needed please

what is the job opportunity for you their? Make they no go use you as a sex trade.

This friend of yours, has she lived in Togo before?
Be careful so you don't end up a prostitute or worse a sex slave in Togo.

youngsahito:
what is the job opportunity for you their? Make they no go use you as a sex trade.

Waitress

thorpido:
This friend of yours, has she lived in Togo before?
Be careful so you don't end up a prostitute or worse a sex slave in Togo.

Yes she lives deir she came home to visit her family and kids , it is not prostitution I will work in a restaurant as a waitress

Justbehave:
You know all these and still allow a guy to impregnate you. By the way,where is the father of your child?

I was young her father is jobless he doesn't provide

Please! Please!! Please!!!
LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS AND DO NOT TRAVEL ANYWHERE WITH A "FRIEND"
YOU MIGHT REGRET IT!

Hustle don finish for Lagos?

mariahAngel:
Please! Please!! Please!!!
LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS AND DO NOT TRAVEL ANYWHERE WITH A "FRIEND"
YOU MIGHT REGRET IT!

OK thanks

bammy00:
Hustle don finish for Lagos?

I don't know anyone in Lagos

Chizzy7890:


Waitress

Why not take up your mother's business instead?

mariahAngel:


Why not take up your mother's business instead?

The business has collapsed because we had spent the money for her treatment

Chizzy7890:


The business has collapsed because we had spent the money for her treatment

What money were you going to use to travel?
And where are you based?

mariahAngel:


What money were you going to use to travel?

She will cover the cost she said I shouldn't worry about it

mariahAngel:


What money were you going to use to travel?
And where are you based?

Enugu

Chizzy7890:


She will cover the cost she said I shouldn't worry about it

HEY!!! RED FLAG!!!

DO NOT! I REPEAT, DO NOT GO ANYWHERE WITH HER!

THEY WILL MOST LIKELY MAKE WORK AS A SEX SLAVE TO MAKE YOU PAY FOR THE COST OF TAKING YOU THERE!

Nne, please do not break your mother's heart.

lilvicky68:
Safe journey..

Asin. Nothing else to say other than that. Emotional scammers dem.

mariahAngel:


HEY!!! RED FLAG!!!

DO NOT! I REPEAT, DO NOT GO ANYWHERE WITH HER!

THEY WILL MOST LIKELY MAKE WORK AS A SEX SLAVE TO MAKE YOU PAY FOR THE COST OF TAKING YOU THERE!

Nne, please do not break your mother's heart.

OK noted thanks for the advice

Chizzy7890:


Enugu

Think of something you can do there.
Even if it's a housemaid job,or to do people's laundry, it will be safer for you.

Never leave this country, unless on your own terms, and with your own money.

What other plans do you have in mind?

mariahAngel:


Think of something you can do there.
Even if it's a housemaid job,or to do people's laundry, it will be safer for you.

Never leave this country, unless on your own terms, and with your own money.

What other plans do you have in mind?

My plans are to get a better job to give my daughter a better life , I taught going to Togo will change my life because my friend she is doing so much better than when she was back here , her family and children are now doing so well and I want the same lifestyle like her

Magnoliaa:


Asin. Nothing else to say other than that. Emotional scammers dem.

Since her mind is already made up..
I can only wish her safe journey and rich clients too as a bonus.

Chizzy7890:


Waitress

are u sure?

youngsahito:
are u sure?

Yes that is what she said

Chizzy7890:
I am 19 years I come from a very  poor family of 5children I am the fourth  position my dad doesn't do anything only my mum she sell bread by the roadside but it is been 4 months now she is not working because she march on poison and her leg is very big and suallen, I also have a 3 years old child she is my everything I feel sad for not providing for her the way I am supposed to , a friend of mine propose me to follow her to Togo for work but my parents has refused they said its very risky I might end up being killed  there but I don't care because they don't help me with anything , I depend on myself they don't provide anything for me not even a pant , I want to do it for myself and daughter to live a better life I don't want to be poor like my parents they were born in poverty also had children in poverty andI want to break the curse. We are leaving on the 18th of October I am getting worried I hope I have taken the right opportunity for me and my daughter. Your advise is needed please

ok stay

Chizzy7890:


Yes she lives deir she came home to visit her family and kids , it is not prostitution I will work in a restaurant as a waitress

madam na Bleep you wan Bleep, nothing like job in Togo, togolese come to Nigeria for job not the other way around, na Bleep you wan go Bleep, just prepare your punna well

Chizzy7890:
I am 19 years I come from a very  poor family of 5children I am the fourth  position my dad doesn't do anything only my mum she sell bread by the roadside but it is been 4 months now she is not working because she march on poison and her leg is very big and suallen, I also have a 3 years old child she is my everything I feel sad for not providing for her the way I am supposed to , a friend of mine propose me to follow her to Togo for work but my parents has refused they said its very risky I might end up being killed  there but I don't care because they don't help me with anything , I depend on myself they don't provide anything for me not even a pant , I want to do it for myself and daughter to live a better life I don't want to be poor like my parents they were born in poverty also had children in poverty andI want to break the curse. We are leaving on the 18th of October I am getting worried I hope I have taken the right opportunity for me and my daughter. Your advise is needed please

Life is Risk
There is plenty of your igbo there especially arochukwu people. When you get there join village meeting. Also update Nairalander of your doings.
Some Nairalander at Togo may also be of help you never can tell.
According to someone.
If where you are staying is not working my friend move because you are not a
TREE

Chizzy7890:


She will cover the cost she said I shouldn't worry about it

don't go there. She'll end up giving you out for prostitution for money. She knows you have no money to return home, so you are fully dependent on her. Forget the waitress job she told you, it's all lies.

joinnow:

Life is Risk
There is plenty of your igbo there especially arochukwu people. When you get there join village meeting. Also update Nairalander of your doings.
Some Nairalander at Togo may also be of help you never can tell.
According to someone.
If where you are staying is not working my friend move because you are not a
TREE

Noted thanks

harmargedon:
don't go there. She'll end up giving you out for prostitution for money. She knows you have no money to return home, so you are fully dependent on her. Forget the waitress job she told you, it's all lies.

Ok thanks