Funkybabee:



you better keep shut and stop giving a better hope for her or such woman...


It's a sin scriptural and also low of her.


one woman is meant for a man same with a man meant for a woman, God created everything in good other It's you people that wish to please your lust... I will keep saying it whether she marry late or not, A man is meant for her at a right time


It's not a curse to marry late, u can't run than your creator, every thing under the sun have their own time.

@eni4real

GavelSlam:
Their choice.

If they are happy we should be happy for them.

eni4real:
She may not see anything wrong in a polygamous marriage.. . Provided that the guy is faithful!!

We are wired differently and it will be difficult to determine what an Individual deem best for herself.. Her background too matters!! She may come from a happy Polygamous background and so see nothing wrong in such marriage provided that the guy is faithful!!!

All the marital problems I have read on Nairaland comes from monogamous marriages tho!!

akan102:


Where is it written in the holy book (Bible) that man must marry only one woman or a woman must marry only a bachelor or a man whose wife has died, pls I want to be educated on it with scriptural facts, no insult pls

sacx:


Only 1 Timothy 3:2 from the passages you quoted could give credence to your point. The others didn't explicitly specify. A man can be joined in one to more than one woman, as Christ the bridegroom to the church (many). In the parable of the ten virgins, did you take note that they were TEN going to meet one bridegroom? In parables, earthly realities are usually used to try to explain eternal truth.

But why did Paul instruct the Bishop to be the husband of one wife? Does that mean there were men among the disciples who had more than one? Definitely yes. Do you know Paul was kind of anti-marriage? He saw being married as a kind of distraction in devoting wholely to the preaching of the gospel. He said so himself. Now what do you think will be his opinion of a man who had not one, but two wives or more? Super duper distraction, innit?

PS: I'm not pro-polygamy o. I'm just trying to draw out an analogy from scripture. Local man is still trying to wrap his head around the ways of just one woman. Na PhD research .

Funkybabee:





yes, it come from it because it normal for two to have a misunderstand in other for them to know each other personality very well.

you can't hear from polygamist because they knew they will always face a critising during their open up which will keep their wives to be destroying themselve either spiritual or physical...

mrZENographer:


The Church is the Bride of Christ (not Brides of Christ) Revelation 19:7,

"Come hither, I will show you the bride, the Lamb's wife." Revelation 21:9

Since there is one bread, we who are many are one body; for we all partake of the one bread. 1 Corinthians 12:20

1 Cor 12:13, Ephesians 4:4-6, Ephesians 5:27 etc.

One Christ, One Church. One Husband, one Wife.

Ephesians 5:22-23 " *Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
*For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church.

1stKing:
competition puts them on their toes to please you

eni4real:
You are entitled to your opinion tho!!
Isaac married more than one wife..

Tonnyray:
Isaac did not. Check your facts well bro.

Funkybabee:



you better keep shut and stop giving a better hope for her or such woman...


It's a since scriptural and also loe of her.


one woman is meant for a man same with a man meant for a woman, God created everything in good other It's you people that wish to please your lust... I will keep saying it whether she marry late or not, A man is meant for her at a right time


It's not a curse to marry late, u can't run than your creator, every thing under the sun have their own time.

@eni4real

Joshmodest:
You impregnated your wives best friend and married her , and you are telling us she's happy about the Union...
Come and fly fence enter heaven , leeme see you !!

Joshmodest:
You impregnated your wives best friend and married her , and you are telling us she's happy about the Union...
Come and fly fence enter heaven , leeme see you !!

hosey:

Lol. Continue to deceive yourself.

Which sane single bachelor man will want to marry a widow with kids or a single mother who did are string unknowingly or forced.

How many men can boast of marrying them. How many men want to marry old woman of more than 30 years as wife.

Even rich old men are still gunning for under 25. They are taking them off the market for us.

Will you be happy for your single young brother to marry the above women.

Keep deceiving yourself. Better accept to be a second wife if he is the love of your wife.
He must treat you equal. That is scriptural.

eni4real:
You are entitled to your opinion tho!!

My grandpa married 2 wives and they lived happily ever after
He died at 94 years!! If my Dad drew an inspiration from this, I will not blame him!!

It is not a religious thing..

Abraham, Jacob , Isaac married more than one wife..
Polygamy is an hallmark of an Islamic Marriage..

I think Civilization and Pentecostalism is the reason why monogamy is always advised!!

Polygamists say that it keep women on their toes to please you if you are rich enough to marry 2
They say pray to God for wealth that will make you marry 2 comfortably... They say, it is fun!

Sunmolar:


'The lesser the wahala on the man' what of the consequences on the children?

Myde4naija:
if the man cant stand his feet on how to train his children even if such man has one wife, children will face similar consequence.


If a man cant make his home (take control) the whole family will suffer his lapses either with one wife or more wives

Olalan:
Don't be deceived behind those smiles are bickering, envy and jealousy.........no woman likes to share her husband

cococandy:
It’s only polygamous men who say such nonsense about being happy in the marriages . Never their wives

Joshmodest:
You impregnated your wives best friend and married her , and you are telling us she's happy about the Union...
Come and fly fence enter heaven , leeme see you !!

Funkybabee:





I guess you must be a muslim since you back up your view with a muslim lifestyle says it all but let me tell you, marrying a two wives might be Happy for you as a husband but think about the wives grudge and kids future before u make a step

1stKing:
you feel at peace .. Especially if you have more than three.
Our fathers in the olden days live long with more than 4 wives... Men nowadays marry a single woman and she starts think the world revolves around her. She starts thinking she is the sun to the world. She troubles you so much you end up with a short life span...

Funkybabee:



lols, you should come and tell me what happened to single or widowed woman that cannot be marry ooo..

If I guess very well you must be a second wife in your home since u spark like a wire fused under my post tell me everything....

that's how widowed and single woman will keep entering their marriage while you with low mentality will result to a bad marriage because of your dirty view... let me tell you wether u like it or not that home is not yours, the first wife will forever have grudge for u... efi oko oloko le

missiret:
Even if you are not happy, will you tell us?