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Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by revolt(m): 9:13pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
For me .I think as immature kids ee always tilt towards our mother but when we grow into men and become fathers, then we realise our dads were the real heroes. They sacrificed everything for us...unfortunately most dads hVe overworked themselves and died b4 we come to thank them... beru sad cycle. My d as d said this and its si sad I cnt show him all the love he deserved ...now 6 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Grupo(m): 9:20pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
As a kid, I thought my dad was unnecessarily strict. But as an adult, I cannot help but appreciate all he did for us. While my other siblings don't really recognize his efforts, I'm happy that my younger sister knows he is a good man. I cannot say that I love him more than my mom now, but I seriously regard him more than my mom not because the latter is bad. Maybe, I'm just being biased because he is a fellow man. And if he should leave today, I would be bitterly pained. That man really tried. 3 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by coldFLARES1(m): 9:21pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
bukatyne:Can't agree less with you. I don't have the luxury of declaring preference for one against the other. Momsie has passed on. However, when she was around, no contestation about my preference for Poppa. With all his baggage, which included having 10 of us and earning as an under-rank in the Army, I haven't seen more responsible, forthright, disciplined and loyal fathers. He is my friend; impacted me with sterling virtues; sacrificed the most to make me access the most of the opportunities his lean resources could afford. My father any day! 8 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by bukatyne(f): 9:23pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
coldFLARES1: Kudos to him. May you be able to be a source of pride to him and continue his leagcy 3 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by badonkadonk: 9:24pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Man child love the mothers. Woman child love the fathers. It's the law of nature and genetics . |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Grupo(m): 9:24pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
revolt: You have said it all. I really didn't appreciate my dad until I moved out of the house and got my place at the age of 25. After I paid my bills for one year, I started respecting my dad even more. He even noticed it and mentioned it to me once that I had become more mature after I started living alone. 7 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by themaestro08(m): 9:24pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
piroux:excuse me, are you saying men who don't change diapers , bathe their kids and the likes are bad and unsuitable? 1 Like |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by oglalasioux(m): 9:31pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Teacher: (to pupils) remember to bring your parents or Guardian to attend the end of year party Pupil: (to teacher) those that don't have Guardian can they come with Daily Independent? How about those without parents? 1 Like |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Starz825(m): 9:32pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
My dad over my mum.... anyday anytime....even baba God knows 3 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Midas01: 9:37pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Your first statement is pure trash. If you don't know what that cheating and the likes does to a marriage and even to children then I don't think you're qualified to speak on such issues. If you think most men tell their wives about adding other wives after them or about having a free pass to cheat in a marriage then you're very naive. I've seen where women get beaten , humiliated, subdued, by their husbands because of sidechicks. My neighbor almost lost her life and one eye because of this senseless egoistic attitude of "men are polygamous in nature and can cheat whenever" attitude. Her little kids know their dad brings different women home and mistreated their mom due to that. So saying this is not the business of the kids is reflective of naivety. genq: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Lugianostar(m): 9:37pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
obembet: Please marry me Daddy's girl!!! 1 Like |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by SenecaTheYonger: 9:39pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
They both played an important role in my life. I would be lost without them. So I love them equally. obembet: 1 Like |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by genq(m): 9:41pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
PinkHealthGroup: Midas01: Your mothers are free to walk away if they can - but unfortunately many Nigerian women are unable to leave such marriages as they cannot fend for themselves otherwise. These women ( who contribute very little to the household) have no negotiating power in that marriage - so, they grow old and bitter and continue to leech of their husbands financially - then have the shameless guts to poison the gullible minds of the kids against the father. Unfortunately, these naive kids then grow up conveniently ignoring the fact that their wonderful mother had no dignity or financial backing to be able to walk away from the so called polygamous father. So my point remains, it is none of your business as a child. Or better yet, if the child has a brain, he/she should think objectively and ask their mother the REAL reason why she choose to remain in that marriage. Btw, Midas01 learn to express yourself in an educated manner. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Amumaigwe: 9:42pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
thorpido: Your perspective as a father perfectly matches mine. I do all these things and much much much more alike. I know that the testimonial will be pleasant. 3 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Nobody: 9:42pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
To each his own If ur mother had not created that 'home' for your father,u think say u go dey here they talk about papa help u for career and what not. 2 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Nobody: 9:43pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Omo see people oh..... Dad kor mum nii... We that fought our way through do we still choose.... All the hungry days where Dem dey... When we dey use sadness dey chop food dey baff nko... Mtchewww... Nonsense I choose none.... Only one person truly cares and that is my guardian angel.... As for the so called parents... No be their fault 1 Like |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by graciouslygrace(f): 9:51pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
well, good for you
my father was my worst nightmare 1 Like |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by thorpido(m): 10:01pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Amumaigwe:It sure will. 2 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by folake4u(f): 10:03pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Ah! My father first oh before Mum. Lol, although it sounds unfair but it's what it is. Pops has stood by me through thick and thin, given advice no one's ever gonna give me, been my biggest cheerleader when I do not even believe in myself. Although he's annoying too but then again... 2 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by INTEGRITYA1(m): 10:05pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Logobenz: You don't need to bash her, from what she put up there; not that she was disrespecting or wanted to disrespect her Mum: no. The point she's making is that; why is it that mostly Mothers are been praise for their roles compared to the Fathers. But life is vice versa, some fathers are wonderful while some are bad indeed (No doubt about that). There is what we call "Philosophy of the writer". So, every write up are base on experiences of the writers which in turn form their philosophy and ideas. I appreciate her write up for it notify the general statements from our Ladies nowardays that all guys/Men are the same. No, we are not the same and we can't never be. There are responsible Men out there and the same things apply to women as well. If you check very well just as you put up here, it's on rare occasion you see children praising their fathers over their mothers, but I can tell you convincingly that; there are lot of wonderful fathers out there and I'm also a living testimony of those who are priviledged to have fantastic Father along with great Monther. I love and appreciate them all. It is a faulty principle to generalize that all men/guys or all women/ladies are the same. 3 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Oblongata: 10:10pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
A wise man once told me; father is a father for all... While mother is a mother for her children... 1 Like |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by AtoningBlood(m): 10:11pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
My Dad over n over again. For believing in me, hmmm words can't tell it all. 2 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Sivou1(m): 10:12pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
obembet: This gives me hope as a father, my 2 girls bonds with me better than they do with their mum, though my little boy still show preference for his mum for now @ 3, I love my children and do play with them a lot. Thanks for sharing your experience to encourage people like us. 6 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Talk2nanro(m): 10:12pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Most of you here keep saying you prefer your mother, that's the reason why most of you are stupid and mannerless in this country. Any well mannered and wise person will always prefer the father because they are the ones that inculcate good virtues in children. Though there are still a few disciplined women. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Nobody: 10:17pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
INTEGRITYA1:she generalized at a point.that was my only problem. 2 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by badcompany: 10:18pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Ncsamuel:my dear, dats not true. Statistics has shown dat if you are related to your step- brother through mother, theres more bonding than if u guys r related via father. In nvtshell, children r bond more with mother, even her language. Mother tongue! |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by COOL10(m): 10:20pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
obembet:. People don't know the importance of a dad until they lose one. 6 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by Dammyofficial(m): 10:24pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
my dad any day anytime the man is trying 1 Like |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by aspiring44: 10:28pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
obembet: We won't know the essence of parents until we become parents ourselves. Its a normal cycle of life . 3 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by queenblossom(f): 10:28pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
obembet: |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by queenblossom(f): 10:28pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
[quote author=obembet post=82542159]I have read series of argument on nairaland and other forums but it still baffled me why many children considered mother first before thier father. I'm a young lady too, I have feelings for my mom but my dad always been thier without any excuse. mom is more important from birth till you go to school. After that it is the father who takes care of your education, guides you in your career. At least in my case this is true because my mom was uneducated. My dad teaches us and guides all his children to succeed in life. Without my dad I will lose my path and fail in life. Therefore, In my case my father was a good man. My mom gave me life but my father taught me how to live. What's your views? Cc Lalasticlala MissyB3 Fynestboi Dominique c Good for u I love my mom and will still choose my mom over and over again even in my next life. My mom is a teacher like wise my dad. My didn't even give me 2k to register for my WAEC not that he doesn't have d money at that time he has it but refused to pay. My mom did after secondary school I stayed back for 6years blf getting admission and I can't forget what my dad told me during that period that my mates are on d express selling cooked groundnut and bread. My mom stood by me, shared my pains and saw me through the university and my dad refused to pay a dim. My dad doesn't even know what I studied in the university. U see why I will die for my mom. I am what I am today cos of my mom. My dad has never bought anything for me in life not even a toothbrush of 10naira 2 Likes |
Re: The reason Why I Will Consider My Dad First Before My Mom by COOL10(m): 10:30pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
olabrinks: You sound so ignorant. 1 Like |
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