Some female students of the Anambra State University have said the continued closure of the university can deny them the opportunity to marry.


The students, who spoke to our correspondent in Awka, said age and time of graduation from the university were serious factors that determine marriage for women in Igboland.


They, therefore, urged the Anambra State Government and the striking workers of the university to urgently resolve their differences and call off the strike to save their future.


One of the female students, Uchenna, who is a social sciences student of the institution, said that these days men wait for girls to graduate from the university or any other higher institution before they approach them for marriage.


“Now if the university is closed down for too long, it may affect my age of graduation, which is another problem because men would not want to marry ladies who have gone past certain age,” she said.


The Secretary of the Students’ Union Government of the university, Mr. Callistus Ifeanyi, confirmed to our correspondent that the SUG leadership had come under pressure from female students, who wanted them to do something urgent to end the strike.


“It has been four months now and nothing is happening. Students are worried. Our ladies are not at peace with what is happening. Their time is counting. Somebody waiting for you to graduate before he will marry you will just move on to another person,” Ifeanyi said.


Our correspondent further gathered from respondents that these days, men do not want to train girls in school before marrying them or even after marrying them.


They want the girls’ parents to take full responsibility of training their daughters before they can approach them for marriage.


Nnamdi Okoye, a civil servant in Awka, said men had learnt their lessons. “Time was in the past when some men trained girls in school only for such men to be jilted by the same girls who would feel they had risen above the social class of their benevolent fiancé,” he said.


The Head of Department of Sociology and Anthropology of the Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Awka, Dr. Peter Ezeah, confirmed that age and education have become serious preconditions for marriage in the Igbo society.


He said the Igbo society still valued marriage and children. And so because younger women were more likely to have more and healthy children, parents still give out their children in marriage at an early age.


He said though the advent of western education had led to delay in the marriage age of girls, there were fears that older women might not be able to give birth.


He said, “By the time a lady enters the university at 17, she should leave at 22, which is the peak of fertility. If she does not finish before 30, she will be considered too old.”


On the economic level, Ezeah said bachelors would like to marry women that would assist them with the family income, “so they go for graduates and women who would not constitute economic liabilities to them.”

Yorisb:

Reality my guy, is this not a ''long thing''?

lol, do u think?

ehn ehn claps hand
oririsi

they have a point though.

Instead of them to concentrate on their studies, they are thinking of marriage! 

Ujujoan:

Instead of them to concentrate on their studied, they are thinking of marriage!

lmao @ topic

190:

Reality u have heard

appeal to the government to call off these strikes

so these women can graduate and u can come back to anambra and marry one of em,

I heard you pink lady

Ujujoan:

Instead of them to concentrate on their studies, they are thinking of marriage! 

lol