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12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Kamani8: 10:00am On Oct 04, 2019 |
1. They like to settle down with decent women if possible virgins but still cheat on her with slay queens.(haba oga mi) 2. They want their wives to have kids(2 3 4 5 6 kids or even more) but want her belly to be flat and with no stretch marks. (Iffa hear) 3. They don't want their wife to work but get upset when she depends on them for everything. (Ok o) 4. They want their wives to breastfeed their babies atimes even when the woman is exhausted. Some reject the idea of formular in totality but they don't want to see saggy boobs. (U do well sir) 5. They want their wives to be contributing towards the bills and buy them nice surprise gifts but want her to be at home n take care of the home like a housewife. (I'm only one person o) 6. They want their wives to dress decently but chase after their neighbor who wears skimpy dresses. (Iffa catch u eh) 7. They like to have a praying wife but hardly take the lead in family prayers.(encourage us na please ) 8. They praise their wives for forgiving them when they are caught cheating but heaven is let loose if reverse was the case. (You see your life?) 9. Men want transparency over how the wife spends her money who she calls etc, but transparency jumps out of the window when its time for them to do same. (This is hypocrisy na oga) 10. They don't want their wives to keep single friends but their own best friend might be a single guy. ( why na?) 11. They abuse their wives emotionally, financially, some even physically but you dare not try same with their sisters. Some go as far as beating up their inlaw for daring such on their sister. (U better lead by example next time) 12. They praise their wives for being able to manage the little allowances they give them but sponsor lavish lifestyles of their side chicks. (This one weak me finish) 179 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Nobody: 10:17am On Oct 04, 2019 |
Some sha... 49 Likes 1 Share
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Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Kamani8: 12:04pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Yet men are the ones that complain that women are difficult to understand 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by donstan18: 12:31pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Stop giving non-virgin hoes hope with this rubbish. They are useless,wayward and disgrace to humanity. 77 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Katier00(f): 1:28pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Lol so true. God bless all the men that worships and adore their women. Their reward is on earth and greater in heaven 56 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Kamani8: 2:13pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
donstan18:Lol the day men would take this advice, we'll stop having slay queens What do men really want? 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Acidosis(m): 2:34pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Kamani8: Cheating married men don't have the luxury of time to pursue Sleeping around got nothing to do with the way slay queens dress rather, it is an issue of availability and affordability. Besides, they don't like the thought of sleeping with decent women like their wives. There is a level of satisfaction and security they derive from sleeping with anything that doesn't look like their wives. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Kweenluchy: 3:25pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
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Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Kamani8: 5:50pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Acidosis: While your point addresses the comment you quoted, You still somehow supported the whole point of the op Why cheating on the decent woman na? And she'll be running from one pastor to another for prayers, the sleepless nights etc. And worse still, What if he brings home STDs? 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Acidosis(m): 6:03pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Kamani8: I've only addressed the reasons married men go after slay queens. 4 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by bukatyne(f): 9:09pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Kamani8: A human would dish what you allow them to. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Kamani8: 1:29am On Oct 05, 2019 |
bukatyne:True but societal influence cannot be played down 14 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by 24kmagic: 7:29am On Oct 05, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Kamani8: 12:12pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Acidosis:Yea. Understood |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Dshocker(m): 12:46pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
So true 2 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by wonuks(m): 12:47pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Nobody: 12:47pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
true talk 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Cogjumo: 12:47pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
So true. Thank God the narrative is changing. It's no longer what it used to be. Most men with calabash tummy will want their girlfriends/wives to have flat belly. Why should I marry your calabash tummy with my flat tummy? And truth be told, I don't think we still have men who doesn't want their wives to work. Or am I living in a different world? 21 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by emeijeh(m): 12:48pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Even God himself doesn't understand the women he created. Op, you know sha? Women complex die! 2 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by BrutusOj(m): 12:49pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Is today world marriage day? This one that front page is full of marriage matter en.. |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Kendumazy(m): 12:49pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Expecting counter thread. |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Freemanbobble: 12:49pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Okay |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by yudeecollections: 12:49pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Until i marry. I will find out 2 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by victorian(f): 12:50pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Kamani8: That's men for you. So many unhappy married women these days . Not encouraging one bit ! 14 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by ladyF(f): 12:50pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by ovieigho(m): 12:51pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Kamani8: which one con be all these ajasa you put in bracket? he no make sense jare 1 Like |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by datola: 12:51pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Spot on! 3 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Exc2000: 12:52pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
this one no join jare .. not all Nigerian men are like what you mentioned, infact only very few behave this way.. this is why Nigerian Men are hot commodity in the International Husband Market, with Akatas , Oyinbos and South Xenophobia women chasing us .. 7 Likes |
Re: 12 Contrasting attitudes Many Nigerian Men Exhibit In Marriage.Right or Wrong by Mays24(f): 12:52pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Brb.. Let me read jt |
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