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Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by GistMore3: 8:44am On Oct 08, 2019
Bisi Fayemi, wife of the Governor of Ekiti State Kayode Fayemi, has narrated how she was sexually harassed in the University, in reaction to BBC's hour long #sexforgrade documentary which exposed randy lecturers in some Universities in Nigeria and Ghana.

Bisi said she was luckier than some of the victims because hers didn't go far, but she noted it was an unpleasant experience.

The Ekiti state First Lady who has already opened a register to name and shame sex offenders, stated that watching the video made her realize that it is time to speak up and speak out for sexual abuse victims and not silence them because the culture of silence has endured enough. She added that most lecturers feel they are entitled to the body of their female students.

“I cried because what this young women have experience is the story of many of us who passed through higher institution in this country,” she said.

“I was educated here in Nigeria and I too was a victim of sexual harassment during my university days. I was luckier than these victims. It didn’t go that far but it was extremely unpleasant and of course back in the days when all these things happened you can’t tell anyone because if you do even up till now people ask you to keep shut.

“You know people don’t talk about things like this. I was watching the documentary and there were three words that came to me, one is voice, it is time to speak up and speak out and for those who do we need to stand with them and stand by them and not silence them because the culture of silence has endured enough.

“Another word that came to me was accountability, we need to be accountable whether there are parents, guidance or teachers or leaders in any form through out the different section of society. We have to be accountable for the well being and health of the young people in our care, from when our children come to say mummy, uncle so so and so touched me and instead of asking further to find out what’s its all about, we should act.

“There has to be accountability and the third thing that came to mind was justice, justice for victim or I choose to call them survivors and so those of us who have worked in the women’s whether at international level or Africa or national air in Nigeria, we know that we have many law and policies in place that are supposed to guard against things such as this but this law sometimes means very little because there is inadequate political" she said.

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http://gistmore.com/sexforgrades-i-was-sexually-harassed-in-the-university-governor-fayemis-wife-bisi

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by GistMore3: 8:44am On Oct 08, 2019
smiley

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by NwaNimo1(m): 8:44am On Oct 08, 2019
Here we go....

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by Tolexander: 8:47am On Oct 08, 2019
Seems like we are being afflicted by sex o.

Before Big Brother Naija, na sex scandal (Biodun Fatoyinbo And Busola)

During Big Brother Naija, Na sex galore

Immediately after Big Brother naija, Na still another sex exposé

E be like say 2019 Na sex year o. Even the one wey done happen over 15years ago, dem dig am out

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by Abfinest007(m): 9:13am On Oct 08, 2019
oya
Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by Samunique(m): 9:17am On Oct 08, 2019
So where were you since ? undecided


Dem don start !!!

This is the time for different stories about sex from every angle in Nigeria now.

Las Las Buhari and Osinbajo go rest small from headlines and Nairaland.

Na lecturers dey receive the brunt now !!!

One day Nigeria go well Las las.

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by philip0906(m): 9:46am On Oct 08, 2019
Nonsense & yeyerity...

They are all coming out to tell us tales as usual. So if BBC did not do an expose, una for quiet? undecided

Will that stop sex for grades? Absolutely not! Sex for grades is trade by barter. Lazy girls who do not want to read and put the shift but want good grades and are ready to trade sex for Cs

We all went to school, we know and saw these things...We know how these things work.This is no news to us.

The only thing that will happen, is the lecturers will now be more covert & careful in their dealings.

But firstly, this semester & next will be bloody for students as the lecturers will be on a roll

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by taiwoowiat: 9:46am On Oct 08, 2019
God help our ladies.



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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by NaijaOlosho(f): 9:46am On Oct 08, 2019
grin

The thread is now open for every one who has been harassed in school by lecturers.

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by sojayy(m): 9:46am On Oct 08, 2019
Dem don start again o !

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by drips8(m): 9:46am On Oct 08, 2019
So many famous people will start coming out now.

Just like the coza saga

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by PureGoldh(m): 9:46am On Oct 08, 2019
Ok.....so some of them had dx experience and they just locked up since shebi angry

Now that Kiki have drawn the line... Dem just dey come out one by one undecided

9ja my country

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by pTomz(m): 9:46am On Oct 08, 2019
smh

now let the stories begin grin
Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by solmusdesigns: 9:46am On Oct 08, 2019
shocked


chai another COZA trend

May God continue to guide the path of men in high places so this people wont pull them down with tears sheding emotional blackmailing antics

From Niemar to Cronaldo, kevin hart, FiFa Official ,To Fatonyinbo and now Pastor Cold Room... the women all came to them, but they were foolish to enter the trap instead of rebuking them

No one care about the mans story, because men are always wrong

..

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by paiz: 9:47am On Oct 08, 2019
I heard the acronym STD now stands for Sexually Transmitted Degrees. Odiegwu

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by ChristineC: 9:47am On Oct 08, 2019
Almost every female has been sexually harassed in a Nigerian University.

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by MANNABBQGRILLS: 9:47am On Oct 08, 2019
Nairalanders, if your lecturer ever assaulted you when you were in school , Please RAISE YOUR HAND!

No one will know who you are by raising your hand here,
Let's see how many of us went through this!

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by IamPatriotic(m): 9:47am On Oct 08, 2019
She dey mad! Bloody murderer, who ask her? I hope she's aware that her husband is currently harassing Ekiti people both physically, mentally and emotionally?

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by betterpikinn: 9:47am On Oct 08, 2019
cheesy cheesy cheesy

THEY SHOULD PLEASE EXTEND THIS UNDERCOVER INVESTIGATION TO HEADQUARTERS SEX FOR GRADE AND STD - SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DEGREE AWARDING UNIVERSITIES LIKE;

DELSU
UNICAL
EKPOMA
UNIBEN
FUTO
KSU
OOU
OSU
UNIBEN
ETC MOST LECTURERS IN THOSE INSTITUTIONS DO IT
O P E N L Y!!!!!!!!

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by hemartins(m): 9:48am On Oct 08, 2019
ok

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by DesChyko: 9:48am On Oct 08, 2019
Well, something must begin from somewhere.

But it is these trailblazers that should be the leaders.

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by Auxtin85(m): 9:48am On Oct 08, 2019
Dem wan taste First Lady
Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by MountainView: 9:48am On Oct 08, 2019
Hmmn, them don start again.
Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by superlanny(m): 9:49am On Oct 08, 2019
I swear any woman that comes out to say she was sexually harassed by a lecturer, I believe them 100%, this predators have enjoyed their impunity for years unopposed, sometimes I just wish my sperm doesn't produce a female. I will be happy, its not like I don't like females, but I don't tink ll be able to protect her from this hell on earth.

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Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by chukwuibuipob: 9:49am On Oct 08, 2019
sad sad nah today day break
Re: Bisi Fayemi Says She Was Sexually Harassed In The University by MrNipplesLover(m): 9:49am On Oct 08, 2019
so make BBC come do investigation about your own story too?


SMH

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