Romance is a beautiful thing for there is hardly any other emotion as intoxicating than being inlove. Yet there is no denying that as with any other addictive, love often has a way of taking from us common reasoning. That is the ability to make decisions that are favourable, especially knowing when, and mustering the courage to blow out the torch.
We interact with one another, in the process we form personal associations with those whom we feel the most connection. But things dont always go the way we had initially planned. What once started sweet might with time get sour. The relationship becomes sour; when its detrimental to your being.
The worse choice anyone can make romantically would be to stick it out with an abusive partner. Its ridiculous for an individual to delibrately undergo any level of emotional/physical trauma just because he or she is passionate for someone who might in turn never reciprocate.
Love is based on the concept of give and take, its not do AND die. If the person of your...

...prefers to recieve and offers little else other than than, then its a red flag, signalling it's high time you exit the field.
While walking out might be difficult, the hardest choices are more often the best. Dont gamble your trust, loyalty and love in a game you'll never win.
Love is a risky affair that could leave one fulfilled or devastated, ensure not to be a victim.

God bless you for this write-up
I just pity people in abusive relationship nd can't leave because they love this partner.
That moment my boyfriend give me an hint he will hit me or actually tried it,it is automatically over between us!!! Husband doesn't even have the right to hit his wife not to talk of boyfriend!!

Pettyprincess:
God bless you for this write-up
I just pity people in abusive relationship nd can't leave because they love this partner.
That moment my boyfriend give me an hint he will hit me or actually tried it,it is automatically over between us!!! Husband doesn't even have the right to hit his wife not to talk of boyfriend!!

exactly! A guy cant lay his hands on me. Since i respect him enough not to do that, he should do the same.

Pettyprincess:
God bless you for this write-up
I just pity people in abusive relationship nd can't leave because they love this partner.
That moment my boyfriend give me an hint he will hit me or actually tried it,it is automatically over between us!!! Husband doesn't even have the right to hit his wife not to talk of boyfriend!!

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So when that boyfriend that never hit you as a GF, finally hit you as ur hubby ... what will you do.

RedCreme21:
exactly! A guy cant lay his hands on me. Since i respect him enough not to do that, he should do the same.

Have you thot about why even a sane man would lay hands on a woman. even mad men on the street don't jus attack people its usually a responds

ericsmith:



Have you thot about why even a sane man would lay hands on a woman. even mad men on the street don't jus attack people its usually a responds

a guy can lay his hands on a woman for the same reason he would do his male friend. Not because he she's his wife and he feels he can do as he pleases.

Ladies are usually mouthy,men are more physical.... nothing justifies any body inflicting physical,verbal or emotional abuse...
Men stop physical abuse,ladies stop verbal abuse..

Sadly people see verbal abuse as freedom of expression,and we all feel we have right to opinions that are damaging to others.

I hope to be a better person!

RedCreme21:
a guy can lay his hands on a woman for the same reason he would do his male friend. Not because he she's his wife and he feels he can do as he pleases.

these me playing along, so for what reason will a guy slap is male friend.

ericsmith:



these me playing along, so for what reason will a guy slap is male friend.

abusing a beloved relative(hitting his friends mother sister)
self defense(a reason to get physical)
the friend delibrately ruins the guys reputation.

RedCreme21:
abusing a beloved relative(hitting his friends mother sister)
self defense(a reason to get physical)
the friend delibrately ruins the guys reputation.

madam i'm lost ...can't comprehend a tin u wrote ...buh neva furstrate ur man into insanity..ok

Only an immature guy will lay his hands on a lady...
Aunty we are one.. I can't slap you or hit u....but dat one no mean say u go abuse me anyhow......

I respect pple who respect their selves

ericsmith:




madam i'm lost ...can't comprehend a tin u wrote .

really??

ericsmith:

..buh neva furstrate ur man into insanity..ok

never fustrate anyone, i agree.
but what counts as fustrating? Cheating, having a male friend, not cooking.

RedCreme21:
abusing a beloved relative(hitting his friends mother sister)
self defense(a reason to get physical)
the friend delibrately ruins the guys reputation.

madam i'm lost ...can't comprehend a tin u wrote ...buh neva furstrate ur man into insanity

ericsmith:




madam i'm lost ...can't comprehend a tin u wrote ...buh neva furstrate ur man into insanity

okay. Whats with the madam?

RedCreme21:
okay. Whats with the madam?

are you not a woman

ericsmith:

are you not a woman

madam is a heavy word. 'Miss' will do.

Pettyprincess:
God bless you for this write-up
I just pity people in abusive relationship nd can't leave because they love this partner.
That moment my boyfriend give me an hint he will hit me or actually tried it,it is automatically over between us!!! Husband doesn't even have the right to hit his wife not to talk of boyfriend!!

Okay say we have been dating for a long time and i have never hit u once nor show any signs of violence towards u & then u mess up really, really bad then i flip... bam one hot one on ur face. So u will just walk away Just because i flipped and u know fully well it's not my character trait to be violent?

killmods:

Okay say we have been dating for a long time and i have never hit u once nor show any signs of violence towards u & then u mess up really, really bad then i flip... bam one hot one on ur face. So u will just walk away Just because i flipped and u know fully well it's not my character trait to be violent?

I will definitely walk out of the relationship!!! Because two things i cant tolerate In a relationship is a cheating partner nd abusive partner!!!

killmods:

Okay say we have been dating for a long time and i have never hit u once nor show any signs of violence towards u & then u mess up really, really bad then i flip... bam one hot one on ur face. So u will just walk away Just because i flipped and u know fully well it's not my character trait to be violent?

one chance. Flip out again...

Pettyprincess:

I will definitely walk out of the relationship!!! Because two things i cant tolerate In a relationship is a cheating partner nd abusive partner!!!

Na wah oo.. You must be very wicked then. Even when u know its normally not me and u fvcked up big time to make me react that way...

RedCreme21:
one chance. Flip out again...

Lolz u girls sha

killmods:


Na wah oo.. You must be very wicked then. Even when u know its normally not me and u fvcked up big time to make me react that way...

Yeah i am,my face is too precious to be a punching bag!! Abusive partner are never repentant,he will definitely try it again nd apologize nd the circle continues!!

Pettyprincess:

Yeah i am,my face is too precious to be a punching bag!! Abusive partner are never repentant,he will definitely try it again nd apologize nd the circle continues!!

its not always true that he will do it again

RedCreme21:
Romance is a beautiful thing for there is hardly any other emotion as intoxicating than being inlove. Yet there is no denying that as with any other addictive, love often has a way of taking from us common reasoning. That is the ability to make decisions that are favourable, especially knowing when, and mustering the courage to blow out the torch.
We interact with one another, in the process we form personal associations with those whom we feel the most connection. But things dont always go the way we had initially planned. What once started sweet might with time get sour. The relationship becomes sour; when its detrimental to your being.
The worse choice anyone can make romantically would be to stick it out with an abusive partner. Its ridiculous for an individual to delibrately undergo any level of emotional/physical trauma just because he or she is passionate for someone who might in turn never reciprocate.
Love is based on the concept of give and take, its not do AND die. If the person of your...

Blackivy I'm sure it's you. Those bunch of compound idiots called Ladies Forever are incapable of critical thinking. Imagine a group whose leaders are international prostiitudes. Not forgetting their foot soldiers small cow horn et all. I rest my case.

RedCreme21:
...prefers to recieve and offers little else other than than, then its a red flag, signalling it's high time you exit the field.
While walking out might be difficult, the hardest choices are more often the best. Dont gamble your trust, loyalty and love in a game you'll never win.
Love is a risky affair that could leave one fulfilled or devastated, ensure not to be a victim.

Impressive.

RedCreme21:
...prefers to recieve and offers little else other than than, then its a red flag, signalling it's high time you exit the field.
While walking out might be difficult, the hardest choices are more often the best. Dont gamble your trust, loyalty and love in a game you'll never win.
Love is a risky affair that could leave one fulfilled or devastated, ensure not to be a victim.

Impressive

RedCreme21:

madam is a heavy word. 'Miss' will do.

heavy word ke !,i'm a yoruba small boy n that is hw we show respect to our elders naw .. ask around

ericsmith:



heavy word ke !,i'm a yoruba small boy n that is hw we show respect to our elders naw .. ask around

Thats what i love about yoruba's apart from their culture. Its their respect.

blinking001:
Impressive.

Thanks.

RedCreme21:
Thats what i love about yoruba's apart from their culture. Its their respect.

i guess pepper won't be a problem ... frm bancun & dorcunun xperience