Parties in a relationship candidly love each other before marriage.
Why would the same people result to physical or emotional assault?

Unfortunately it happens. It’s welled up anger, hurt and bitterness.

What can one do then to put the anger under control without getting to the point of explosion?

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What can one do then to put the anger under control without getting to the point of explosion?

Maybe heart felt repentance shown by actions after communication. Because communication that the resolves are not followed will only lead to this in the end over time.

Relationship itself is the cause of the violence and anger.

Thank you.

I believe you are trying to say admitting wrong in a situation a partner realizes he or she is wrong. True admittance should be seen through genuine repentance or remorse.
It is true because of the angry partner sees this from his or her partner, it could possibly help calm the situation.

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What can one do then to put the anger under control without getting to the point of explosion?

Talk it out. It's a very common saying but it works. A lot of misunderstanding, hurt and anger in relationships after marriage is due to poor communication and unexpressed disappointment. Sit yourselves down and pour out all your feelings. You will see that things will get better.

I agree with you. Poor communication and unexpressed disappointments are major factors.

What can we say therefore to troubled relationships going through this ordeal?

So what are we supposed to use your picture for?

You can ignore the picture!

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Parties in a relationship candidly love each other before marriage.
Why would the same people result to physical or emotional assault?

Economic situation and stress of life