LilMissFavvy:
However the black woman of today dresses or acts the black man should accept it, or remain single, simple.

The WHITE man isn't perfect, but he sees the opposite sex as his equal, an object to be treated with respect. The BLACK man doesn't see the opposite sex as his equal, but as a lesser being, who should be subjugated and dominated without her having a voice. Another problem with the black man is his ''ego''. The black woman lived in these Injustice for centuries.

The beautiful traits you mentioned below were characteristics of our mothers decades and centuries back, yet such great attributes were rubbished by the black man and taken for granted. Such good traits were seen as ''naivety'' and the black man exploited the situation making evil cultures to afflict women.

Did you just say black men did not enslave women? I can give you a billion ways which the black man oppressed the female gender,

but I will mention only 5.
1. Female Genital mutilation to destroy a woman's sexual pleasure.

2. Making cultures to place magun on cheating wives, while he philanders as he wishes.

3. In some cultures women drink the water used in washing their dead husband's corpses.

4. Some cultures do not allow women to inherit family property.

5. Educating the boy child, and abandoning his female counterparts. Etc

I am not saying that all black men are bad, we got few good ones. The few good ones are termed as ''weak'' by the bad eggs.

Korllami007:


Acting like woman indeed. When the guy realized his mistake immediately and begged multiple times because of little misunderstanding then she should go to her house to go and beg her or pet her because she's behaving like a woman. I see that as total nonsense unless the guy dey date chihuahua or samoyed or golden retriever, not human being. What if the guy stays in USA and his girlfriend lives in Nigeria that means he will have to book a flight down Nigeria to beg her because his girlfriend behaving like a woman then I will advise him to start budgeting money for flight every month because his girlfriend will surely act like a woman at least two times in a month. So, he will need to book flights two times in a month to Nigeria to come and pet her.

What if the girl is looking for a way to jet out of the relationship and she wants to use that as an excuse then the guy should keep disgracing his ancestors because of p*ssy.

There are so many ways to pamper a lady but not with incessant begging. No be say the guy slap her mother or cheated on her or beat her. If the guy keeps begging unnecessarily, sooner or later, the girl will offend him or they will both have misunderstanding in which the girl is clearly at fault but she will be expecting him to come and beg him because the guy has already lost his self worth.

lilwetdick:


anyway, there are many single black women than black men reason is because of unrealistic expectation.

who told you the white man sees the white woman as his equal, pls do not be deceived by hollywood, if white women are treated equally by white men, why are white women fighting for equal pay in 2019, why are white women wanting equal representation like white men in the office, it seems you do not know white women didnt began to vote until 1920 while they left black women and men to be slaves, if you think the white men and white women are fighting for you, you are joking, didnt white women benefit from slaving african women and men, called them boys and girls, drove them from their neighbourhood, even till today, feminism is all about white women rights and equal opportunity os stop deceiving yourself.

pls show me the injustice, black women have been living in, for all i know black women do injustice to other black women

the beautiful trait i mentioned are trait of a feminine woman still practice today, feminine women are worshiped by all men whether african or non african, many feminine women are in happy relationship with their husbands or boyfriends,

the highlighted are all the rules created by women on other women

who practise genital mutilation, elderly women to younger women
who mistreats maid- elderly women to younger women
who forces women to drink that water- older women to younger women

all these were because of african women culture, we shouldnt forget all these laws werent created by men but by women to control other women, in the african society, women always have their societies where they create rules and regulation guarding women behavior, the main job of the king is to settle query and make sure the rules are obeyed.

LilMissFavvy:
The few babaric cultures which I mentioned above, were made by black men, (they are still practiced till date)you know it stop feigning ignorance. The women were forced to practice it on their fellow women, and the women had no choice than to obey. Feel free to read it up.

Y[b]es, majority of white men accept women as their equal, they only react towards unfavorable laws....(eg where he vacates his house for his wife/kids, shares property, during divorce, etc). Equal rights cannot be achieved overnight, it will take time. I can recall reading in a news recently that male/female players will start earning the same in a particular country. Equal pay, votes etc, will be achieved with time.[/b]

Stop putting words in my mouth, I never said the whites are fighting for us, but they are showing examples. As feminism ate deep into western society, it will also penetrate Africa.

The beautiful qualities you mentioned were common with mothers of old, yet it did not stop the black men from oppressing her. Yes, many women of today still possess such traits, (even feminists) and could end up in happy or toxic marriages/relationships. Submission isn't a guarantee for a woman's happiness.

lilwetdick:


pls stop living in fantasy

which barbaric laws created by men, in african culutres i have never seen men creating rules for women on how they should behave, most rules for women were set up by different local women orgnisation in their community, is it men cutting up clit of women, it is women doing that to themselves,is it men taking women to fattening room to make them become women, is it men making sure a woman sleep with her husband corspe when he dies, it is women doing that to other women, the reality is thaat you never want to take personal responsibilities for many of your fellow women actions, this behavior shows why some women cant lead, taking personal responsibility is the forth front of leadership.

you say majority of white men share their properties with their wives during divorce, you must be joking, who told you they are the one willing to share their properties, it is the court of law that created the sharing of properties not men, because of the drawbacks, many western men nowadays are not willing to get married legally so that when they divorce, the woman wont have access to their properties, even many sign prenups, hide their properties through shell companies abroad and make sure the women does not have access or know about their asset

Miss, equal pay between men and women can not be achieved, even among men there is no equal pay, stop deceiving yourself, so you expect a woman that works 4 hours to collect the same pay as man that works 8 hours. equal pay is a myth, it doesnt exist, you are paid according to the value you bring to the company not because of gender.

submission does not means weakness pls get your facts right, because a woman is submissive does not mean she is weak, a submissive woman in a marriage is more happy than a non submissive woman , the facts are there, so are you trying to write down that women should behave like men to achieve stability in their marriage and relationship. many real feminists are in toxic in relationships that is why many of them are single, many of them cant even have a real conversation with a man without being extreme of what use is this type of woman to a man, that is why they are left alone.

LilMissFavvy:
However the black woman of today dresses or acts the black man should accept it, or remain single, simple.

The WHITE man isn't perfect, but he sees the opposite sex as his equal, an object to be treated with respect. The BLACK man doesn't see the opposite sex as his equal, but as a lesser being, who should be subjugated and dominated without her having a voice. Another problem with the black man is his ''ego''. The black woman lived in these Injustice for centuries.

The beautiful traits you mentioned below were characteristics of our mothers decades and centuries back, yet such great attributes were rubbished by the black man and taken for granted. Such good traits were seen as ''naivety'' and the black man exploited the situation making evil cultures to afflict women. Did you just say black men did not enslave women? I can give you a billion ways which the black man oppressed the female gender, but I will mention only 5.
1. Female Genital mutilation to destroy a woman's sexual pleasure.
2. Making cultures to place magun on cheating wives, while he philanders as he wishes.
3. In some cultures women drink the water used in washing their dead husband's corpses.
4. Some cultures do not allow women to inherit family property.
5. Educating the boy child, and abandoning his female counterparts. Etc

I am not saying that all black men are bad, we got few good ones. The few good ones are termed as ''weak'' by the bad eggs.

lilwetdick:
Thanks to feminism and all other agendas, feminism is for women who do not know how to be a woman.

See, the power of a woman lies in her femininity, her submissiveness( there is power in being submissive), the way she dress, the way she pose and walk, the way she behaves, the way her hair and body smells, how nice her pussy smells( do not underestimate pussy smell) and the way she carries herself.

I have noticed that the most successful and happy women are feminine women, they act weak and submissive but get all they want, i am not talking about women that sleeps with men for promotion, job placement and money, these type of women are naturally born sluts and prostitutes, no matter where you take them to, they will always sleep with men for progress because of their laziness.

A woman that understand her femininity, knows that just a show of her weakness and vulnerability will make many men give her what she needs. Even at home, the married or feminine women in relationship know how to get what they want, they dress as seductive as possible, smell nice, catwalk, maintain their body, even the way their pussy smells can make their husband or boyfriend salivate anytime he see her, i think most women underestimate the power of smell of their pussy and its effect on men. (the smell of your pussy can either make a man want you more or dread having sex with you)

A woman who do not understand the power of her femininity act like a man, always on unsexy jeans trouser and low shoes, talk uncultured with thick voice, wants to compete with men always turn off a man in many ways instead of men trying to help you, they will make sure your life is difficult and hell, that is why feminine women is always loved by men in the work place,at home and the society at large, other women want to emulate her and learn her ways.

A feminine woman do not have to sleep with men to get what they want, she knows she can get what she wants just by making men salivate and fall on her kneels without giving sex. to be realistic, most feminine women are the one, men promise heaven and earth, go to war and kill each other, betray each other just to get them.

SamzackD:


all those nonsense you wrote up there is why I think feminist are plain dumb,

please tell me where your genitals mutilated?

did your parents send your brothers to school and kept you at home preparing for marriage?

if your answers to these questions are No then you have no business advocating for women's right, cause what you wrote up there are unrealistic circumstances that I've never seen happen,

my sister wasn't mutilated, she was educated same as i was, and was given the same opportunity i was given, so tell me which African man is oppressing any woman, you feminist are just men haters, that keep coming up with dumb excuses to hate men.

a wise woman who understand femininity would know how to get things done by being female and not acting masculine with all these feminism bullshit to fight for female liberation when no one is oppressing you in the first place.

there is a saying that goes 'what a man can do, a feminine woman can get another man to do it better for her'

lilwetdick:


thank you for this...help me ask her if any man have ever cut off her or any of her friends clit before or if her father have stop paying her school fees, for what i know there are many women in the Nigerian schooling system...

according to the African women, african men are oppressive but funny enough the women cant show us the oppression, they just create scenarios in their mind of perceived oppression.

LilMissFavvy:
Show me where I said that majority of white men are happy to share their properties equally with their wives after divorce . I will continue replying your mentions when you bolden it or copy it for all to see. Your replies are not in accordance with what I say. So I will reply your last mention if you show me where I wrote such a statement. I need you to show me before I can be convinced that you can read and understand my simple messages. I am waiting.

LilMissFavvy:
So feminists do not smell good, look feminine, have a soft voice, etc? Where exactly do you see these kind of ladies? I believe in submission, but I do not believe in the African man's definition of submission. African man's definition of submission is equal to slavery.

Ladies should beware.

lilwetdick:


if white men take white women as equal so why are white women fighting for equal rights in 2019

it seems the African women know how to support the white men that despise them.

LilMissFavvy:
Looks like you send mentions just to increase the pages of your thread. I answered the question below, yet you resend it. I can point out over ten places in your mentions where you talk completely out of point and not in accordance with whatever I type, I had been replying your mentions cuz I thought you can comprehend accordingly. So for the last time I ask again, show me where I wrote that ''white men are happy to share their properties with their wives after divorce''. In your other message, you claimed I said the whites are fighting for blacks, hahahahahh, thought you are smarter than this.
I will only continue when you show me what I ask, because I don' see any sense answering the same questions repeatedly, or replying your mentions when you cannot comprehend what I type.

LilMissFavvy:
I ignored all the foolish mentions above, cuz I am very sure those who send them are not familiar with Africa or Nigeria. Otherwise, they would know that the few babaric practices which I mentioned above are still practiced, and they were cultures created by men to afflict women.

*If someone as enlightened as Regina Daniels could be trapped into a women cult group by her husband, just to make sure she remains faithful, then only a fool would say such practices do not exists. If an actress of her Calibre is manipulated into such, then the average women/illiterate women are facing worse. Of course she may not have accepted that marriage if she knew that will be part of it.
*Do I need to mention that which Stella Damascus faced during her husband's death?
*Babaric practices/women oppression can be seen everywhere.
The black woman has accepted her fate with all the tantrums thrown by men, yet men continue to open threads complaining about the very women who are oppressed by some them.
*Paying bride price is not enough reason for a man to see a woman as a lesser human, we have women who can foot groom price if such cultures existed.
Even if I continue typing till eternity, I know the black man who's mindset is flawed will still be partial in his judgement concerning issues like this. I still maintain my stand that the black man's definition of submission is slavery, and a woman's submission to him is not a guarantee that he will give her happiness.

pansophist:


Because men and women are not, and can not be equal.

Feminism makes women overly combative, competitive, confrontational, jaded, and masculine.

It kills their femininity and common sense, while giving a false sense of enlightenment, which in turn, makes men less motivated to protect and provide.

The ongoing destruction of matrimony, and the rise of mgtow are a direct result of feminism.

Feminism ignores biology, evolution, science

and all of the feminist discourse so far, especially academically, to gain momentum is largely untrue,

which have instilled rage and hate in women, towards men, and also deceived them to believe in the nonsensicals, such as the patriarchy and constitutive oppression. Its hypocritical, and turning men against women (as evidenced on this thread alone). If men drop their traditional roles, just as women have drop theirs, society will collapse. Third wave feminism is cancer.

Martinez39:
When chickens start laying golden eggs, I will grant your request. I have no time for fruitless and emotional arguments.

DOLT.


You have no time for emotional arguments or you're just too dumb and empty-headed to form a substance for your claims?

lilwetdick:


i dont believe in the equality of the sexes, both men and women are different, we think differently and act differently, if you say both men and women are equal then it means both are design by nature to do similar stuff which is not true

i believe in equal opportunity but to be realistic, equal opportunity does not bring equal result, even among men equal opportunity does not result to equal outcomes, so i think women need to rethink what they want, if they want equality with men, then that is behaving like men which basically is unhealthy for society.

many women are being harmed by the feminist movement, it makes women more masculine, we can also see that even in many western countries, the men are no more getting married to their women, they prefer to go to asia or eastern europe where they believe the women are feminine, even in the work place and the society, many men avoid this type of women because of their toxic opinion, this basically has lead to less mentorship which resulted to their lack of career progression.

You know non-feminists in America outnumber feminists there? Yes. In America, the movement do not resonate with so many women! Even amongst celebrities. Don't let the media distort things for you. How many men are these exactly that are going to Asian countries to look for wives? 80%? 70%? 59%?

No qualms, really. Your submissive women abound. Or you're saying 100% of women are feminists? So, what's the ish? Again with speaking on the lives of women. Wow. So you know how many guys ask a feminist out? How many male acquaintances and friends she's got?

Leoniine:


Check my response above for what equality of the sexes mean.

lets look into our society, women are treated the same way as men in the work place and society, they earn similar salaries as men, infact, there are many things a women will do in our society that we overlook, in the western world they will be in jail. see, many women here are given preferential treatment over men

you can read a thread, i created about the subject matter [b]are Nigerian women oppressed by Nigerian men? [/b]https://www.nairaland.com/5517995/nigerian-women-oppressed-nigerian-men#5517995.1


Great. So is there equal opportunities available? For all people and all races? Don't judge by the western world alone.

see equal opportunity for all races is hard to achieve all over the place, even among the races, are people equal, see people have different abilities and skills, some people take risk, some people do not, some people think long term while some short term, equal opportunity generally is a myth and can never be achieved, it is just a fantasy that you can achieved equal opportunity, you can look back to the history of society even in so called socialist systems like the former USSR who wanted equality for every citizens, it is was impossible to achieve.

How is equality with men unhealthy for the society?

biologically, mentally and even strength wise we are different. as i have written before equality is a myth, we know that as a woman if you earn a good degree, hard working, and smart, you can demand a good salary as your male counterparts what we dont like is employing a female just because she is a female not because she is smart and qualified.

even if we have equality, women will still go to jobs that are not task demanding and less risky than men, anyway, i do not believe in equality because it doesnt exist. even among men, there is no equality.

[color=#990000]You know non-feminists in America outnumber feminists there? Yes. In America, the movement do not resonate with so many women! Even amongst celebrities. Don't let the media distort things for you. How many men are these exactly that are going to Asian countries to look for wives? 80%? 70%? 59%?

you are right, they are small but they influence the media and what is the role of the media to change the mindset of the viewers, you can get a clue from Nassim Nicholas Taleb book skin in the game and in one of the chapters he gave an example of how a stubborn intolerant minority rule can change opinion of the large majority and basically i see it working, they might not be targeting the old but in the universities, many women are being brain washed by feminist agendas.

for the western men going to asians countries for wives, i dont know the statistics but i personally know many western men who are not married but are just in a partner relationship with western women, the others half are married to Asian and eastern Europe women.


No qualms, really. Your submissive women abound. Or you're saying 100% of women are feminists? So, what's the ish? Again with speaking on the lives of women. Wow. So you know how many guys ask a feminist out? How many male acquaintances and friends she's got?

i am not saying 100% of women are feminists but there are many women here especially among the young ones who think they are oppressed by men and thinking that they are entitled to things even when they dont work.

the reality is this, many men dont want to date a feminists, for real they are toxic to be with, always angry to lay down points, always very fast to bash men, i have seen many feminists online and in real life, many of them are single and bitter, no man wants that vibe around them.[quote]

lilwetdick:
Thanks to feminism and all other agendas, feminism is for women who do not know how to be a woman.

See, the power of a woman lies in her femininity, her submissiveness( there is power in being submissive), the way she dress, the way she pose and walk, the way she behaves, the way her hair and body smells, how nice her pussy smells( do not underestimate pussy smell) and the way she carries herself.

I have noticed that the most successful and happy women are feminine women, they act weak and submissive but get all they want, i am not talking about women that sleeps with men for promotion, job placement and money, these type of women are naturally born sluts and prostitutes, no matter where you take them to, they will always sleep with men for progress because of their laziness.

A woman that understand her femininity, knows that just a show of her weakness and vulnerability will make many men give her what she needs. Even at home, the married or feminine women in relationship know how to get what they want, they dress as seductive as possible, smell nice, catwalk, maintain their body, even the way their pussy smells can make their husband or boyfriend salivate anytime he see her, i think most women underestimate the power of smell of their pussy and its effect on men. (the smell of your pussy can either make a man want you more or dread having sex with you)

A woman who do not understand the power of her femininity act like a man, always on unsexy jeans trouser and low shoes, talk uncultured with thick voice, wants to compete with men always turn off a man in many ways instead of men trying to help you, they will make sure your life is difficult and hell, that is why feminine women is always loved by men in the work place,at home and the society at large, other women want to emulate her and learn her ways.

A feminine woman do not have to sleep with men to get what they want, she knows she can get what she wants just by making men salivate and fall on her kneels without giving sex. to be realistic, most feminine women are the one, men promise heaven and earth, go to war and kill each other, betray each other just to get them.

Leoniine:
lilwetdick ---

It's very hilarious, really, that you're not even citing the Western world as example to prove your 'women and men are equal' point. But you're using Nigeria of all places. Is Nigeria the whole world? And do you know we have the highest number of child brides in the world? FGM still happens in the North?

I call that you not seeing beyond your small mind, world and community.

Focusing on the minute issue.

You said you believe in equal opportunities, but not equality of results - now you're saying otherwise. My question was: does equal opportunities exists, for all people?

Not how impossible it is to achieve. And not what the oppressed people will face when fighting for equality. Look at where we are as humans, as a black race. Would you be here if people in the past didn't fight? They were killed, jailed, treated inhumanly...but should that enough reason to prevent people from fighting for their rights?

No one said it's going to be a perfect job, finished in a day.

And no one said to employ a woman when she isn't qualified. In fact, that's not the problem. The reverse is. Women aren't employed, are seen in a way, etc just because they are women. No one looks at capability, mental strength, services being offered, and so on in her.

You never answered how equality with men in unhealthy for a society.

And I still say, much more women than most, are not supporting the movement. Those far outnumbers the ones influenced by feminists' views.

Right. So, a personal opinion about how Western men are not marrying their counterparts. Okay.

Then address those women. Women who you say don't want to work but want to enjoy benefits. Want things handed to them on a platter. Don't bring feminism into it. And you see you just supported 'feminine' women not doing things, but getting a man to do it for them. Holding two contrasting views at the same time?

LilMissFavvy:
Looks like you send mentions just to increase the pages of your thread. I answered the question below, yet you resend it. I can point out over ten places in your mentions where you talk completely out of point and not in accordance with whatever I type, I had been replying your mentions cuz I thought you can comprehend accordingly. So for the last time I ask again, show me where I wrote that ''white men are happy to share their properties with their wives after divorce''. In your other message, you claimed I said the whites are fighting for blacks, hahahahahh, thought you are smarter than this.
I will only continue when you show me what I ask, because I don' see any sense answering the same questions repeatedly, or replying your mentions when you cannot comprehend what I type.

Magnoliaa:


How? What are the "harmful effects of the equality of the sexes?" And how many women so far have been harmed by the movement?

LilMissFavvy:
So feminists do not smell good, look feminine, have a soft voice, etc? Where exactly do you see these kind of ladies? I believe in submission, but I do not believe in the African man's definition of submission. African man's definition of submission is equal to slavery
Ladies should beware.

ericsmith:




[s]there is no study as to how many as been affected buh i believe given instances of popular people shuld fill in as well .. king tonto, toyin lawal, asa , kate hensaw , aunty linda.
Now what do these confused feminist above have that feminine like .. omotola , jenifer akindele, funke bucknor, uchenna pedro could possibly want or pray for.
The earlier you people understand there is no equality among fingers even from d same hand the earlier you know naija kind of feminist movement is jus a waste of time.[/s]