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Sorry for the unfortunate scenario. As far as I believe, you are rightly taking a very wise choice. Release her and see if she'll ever come back to you... Vice versa.

On your own side, look inward and be convinced that you you guys are towing the right path. At the end of time, the outcome will be a deciding factor to make or break the bond... In the mean time, just be cool about the whole scenario... Best wishes