isyourboy:
Ubunja, we've missed you. Promise you'll never leave us again

Aiziko:
Every modifications is always a hit. Keep on dishing out the raw truth. Quick question, is it also a shit test to be completely ignored by one's babe and how does one respond to this?

pansophist:
Good job Ubunja.

To add to that, no man should be in a relationship where he is not respected. A man can not feel loved if his partner does not respect him. Also, a woman can never love a man she does not respect. When a woman loves you, it means she respects you, and if she loses her respect, she loses her love. Respect should be treated as indispensable, unnegotiable, and perpetual. Men need respect, women need love. A woman cannot love a man in the way men understand love.

A woman's love is to receive, a man's love is to give. A man's love for a woman is greater, it will make him protect her, provide and sacrifice for her, a display of love that is untypical to the feminine. Even the bible requires men to love their women but requires women to respect their men (Ephesians 5:22-25).

About shit testing, the surest way you to pass it is not to respond to it, and in anything you do, do not sell yourself short. A shit test is a way women separate boys from men. Also, women generally are not consciously aware they are shit testing, it is an evolutionary trait that they do unconsciously. 3rd and 4th wave Feminism is an example of shit testing on a massive scale allied with political power and corporate backing, and men have fallen for it, leading to the emasculation of men.

Little to no surprise lots of western men travel to Asia for wives, and their women go to Jamaica with masculine men for sexual adventure. Giving in to shit testing will seem like it will yield desirable outcomes, but the opposite is true. If you give way to shit testing, you will continuously be squeezed inside a box, until you become worthless, a direction western men are becoming to their women, which will only get worse.

Rekhina:
Fake comment smh

pansophist:
Good job Ubunja.

To add to that, no man should be in a relationship where he is not respected. A man can not feel loved if his partner does not respect him. Also, a woman can never love a man she does not respect. When a woman loves you, it means she respects you, and if she loses her respect, she loses her love. Respect should be treated as indispensable, unnegotiable, and perpetual. Men need respect, women need love. A woman cannot love a man in the way men understand love.

A woman's love is to receive, a man's love is to give. A man's love for a woman is greater, it will make him protect her, provide and sacrifice for her, a display of love that is untypical to the feminine. Even the bible requires men to love their women but requires women to respect their men (Ephesians 5:22-25).

About shit testing, the surest way you to pass it is not to respond to it, and in anything you do, do not sell yourself short. A shit test is a way women separate boys from men. Also, women generally are not consciously aware they are shit testing, it is an evolutionary trait that they do unconsciously. 3rd and 4th wave Feminism is an example of shit testing on a massive scale allied with political power and corporate backing, and men have fallen for it, leading to the emasculation of men.

Little to no surprise lots of western men travel to Asia for wives, and their women go to Jamaica with masculine men for sexual adventure. Giving in to shit testing will seem like it will yield desirable outcomes, but the opposite is true. If you give way to shit testing, you will continuously be squeezed inside a box, until you become worthless, a direction western men are becoming to their women, which will only get worse.

karo93:
I know a lady who was disgusted with a guy toasting her just because he left playing football with his guys just to keep her company when she came around.....

She concluded he was a simp.

Although i chided her about her treating a guy harshly when he just wanted to make her happy but i knew the truth..... She wants a MAN not a boy who lives to please her.....

sunansu:
Ubuja has a way of simplifying his work with illustrations that helps to drive the point home. All these makes his write-ups to flow from beginning to the end with you hoping it won't end. Welcome back, bro. You're a great blessing to the mensfolk.

Lilbest3:
what I've been trying to explain. Feminism is a giant shít test the west failed miserably. Their men are a failed version of man. Such a shame considering the fact that they actually changed the world

pansophist:


Modern version of feminism is only possible due to capitalism, and if we understand one thing about capitalism, it is that it cares only about profit. Now, women drive about 80% of consumer purchasing, they spend more than men, and usually make most buying decisions for their families. Go to the cinema, shopping mall, infact just observe, you'll see that most men will live a frugal life when there is no woman in their life. You hardly see men going to cinema, bar, or shopping unless with a woman.

Your average bachelor is comfortable living in a one room, or jumping okada everyday. Men are simple creatures. It is the need to procreate and have a chance with women that drives most men to succeed and compete. Just as guys will borrow car to get girls, that kind thing. If not for women, giant corporation wont exist.

Having said that, billion dollar corporations have massive incentive to back up feminism, and worship this shit test, to appeal to women since they are the cash cow. The consequence is that it destroys men, and destroy society as well. The reason why the radical, crazy type of feminism haven't creeped fully into Nigeria is because we ain't that fully developed yet with lots of wealth, just as feminism is yet to creep into poorer European and Asian societies.

Feminism is cancer, and sadly, the women spearheading it are drunk under the idea that their cause is a noble act, but nothing more than the destruction of the social fabric and cohesion humanity thrives on, and will extinct on.

emmaodet:


Fire on Mr Panso.
I dey ur back gidigba.
But with the look of things, i think feminism will at the end of the day self-destruct itself when men start boycotting women who need men to keep spending

pansophist:


It's already self-destructing itself in the west, though, it has to get to a critical level before society says enough is enough. But it's the men that will stand up for it, not women, though, you'll get support from the traditional ones, especially ones with sons and husband, who experiences male discrimination first hand.

Men are leading in depression and suicide, the are more women in universities in a far higher number than men, more than 95% domestic shelters for women than men, most homeless people are men, more scholarships for women than men, women lives prioritized in danger than men, divorce court raping men off their current and future earning, a woman giving the presumption of innocence, while for men it's the presumption of guilt, workplace death of over 90% are men, men sentenced longer than women for same crime etc. I can go on and on, but I'll stop here.

If boys are in trouble, so are we all. It is these boys that girls will build a future with, and anytime they wonder where all the good men have gone to, they seems to always gloss over the fact that the system they create makes its difficult for good men to thrive, and dangerous for men to pursue a relationship with women.

Even with all these statistically backed fact, feminist will still point at the dictionary definition of feminism and completely ignore the reality on ground. To know how feminism is destroying boys, you may read the book below. Good it was written by a woman, since it takes women now to speak for men, for it to be taking seriously.

pansophist:


It's already self-destructing itself in the west, though, it has to get to a critical level before society says enough is enough. But it's the men that will stand up for it, not women, though, you'll get support from the traditional ones, especially ones with sons and husband, who experiences male discrimination first hand.

Men are leading in depression and suicide, the are more women in universities in a far higher number than men, more than 95% domestic shelters for women than men, most homeless people are men, more scholarships for women than men, women lives prioritized in danger than men, divorce court raping men off their current and future earning, a woman giving the presumption of innocence, while for men it's the presumption of guilt, workplace death of over 90% are men, men sentenced longer than women for same crime etc. I can go on and on, but I'll stop here.

If boys are in trouble, so are we all. It is these boys that girls will build a future with, and anytime they wonder where all the good men have gone to, they seems to always gloss over the fact that the system they create makes its difficult for good men to thrive, and dangerous for men to pursue a relationship with women.

Even with all these statistically backed fact, feminist will still point at the dictionary definition of feminism and completely ignore the reality on ground. To know how feminism is destroying boys, you may read the book below. Good it was written by a woman, since it takes women now to speak for men, for it to be taking seriously.

henryobinna:
wow... I love your analysis of this whole thing.

I've always maintained this but it seems your choice of word is the best; these women are drunk, drunk with the idea.

Too bad. The average American young whiteman is fuc..ked in all ramifications that some of them are denying their skin color and gender just to appeal to women who are(claimed) fighting white male hetrosexual patriachy. It keeps getting worse as their voices are getting louder and deafening. Once they succeed fully in the US. You'll have their presidents sanction countries who don't adopt and adapt to the new world, that's why there are so many women so much interested in American politics today, not because they want to make things better but they want to have full power to fight a perceived enemy.
I'll check out the book you recommended but too bad I have too many books unread I initially plan reading.

We'll see how it goes, the very problem men have are the bas.tards who get in to power. A good number of them make stupid laws. Laws that don't promote equality between both genders but explicitly promots women over men. These laws are 100% detrimental to men, but guess what? they were sponsored and passed by men

isyourboy:


Where do some of you guys get so much knowledge like this. I always liked your stuffs

pansophist:


They are sponsored by elite men, who have nothing in common with the average joe. They are legally immune from the consequences because they create and understand the tenets of the law. The divorce industry in the US worth over 50 billion dollars. The industry processes over 1 million divorce annually, that's about one divorce every 36 seconds. That's a lot of money that attracts the most immoral creatures in the form of lawyers, who lobby to with other big corporations to financially rape men completely. It is not about your humanity, it is about the money. It is no surprise that divorce men have the highest rate of suicide, and some men are known to commit suicide when their wives ushered them the divorce papers. All these are hidden from the mainstream but visit a divorce court, you will hardly see a man smiling on his way out, but always see women happy, as it is like winning a lottery.

What's going now with feminism is similar to the holocaust, where Hitler successfully brainwashed Germans and make them hate the jews and see them as the enemy, leading to the genocide of over 5 million people. He convinced them through books, media, schools, and every means possible. The same is going on now with feminism. Now, their enemy is the patriarchy, and they are convinced that it is a system of oppression designed by men to willfully oppress women and that all men benefit from its structures while it disadvantaged women. Disregarding all the problem men faces in our so-called privilege patriarchy if it exists.

pansophist:


They are sponsored by elite men, who have nothing in common with the average joe. They are legally immune from the consequences because they create and understand the tenets of the law. The divorce industry in the US worth over 50 billion dollars. The industry processes over 1 million divorce annually, that's about one divorce every 36 seconds. That's a lot of money that attracts the most immoral creatures in the form of lawyers, who lobby to with other big corporations to financially rape men completely. It is not about your humanity, it is about the money. It is no surprise that divorce men have the highest rate of suicide, and some men are known to commit suicide when their wives ushered them the divorce papers. All these are hidden from the mainstream but visit a divorce court, you will hardly see a man smiling on his way out, but always see women happy, as it is like winning a lottery.

What's going now with feminism is similar to the holocaust, where Hitler successfully brainwashed Germans and make them hate the jews and see them as the enemy, leading to the genocide of over 5 million people. He convinced them through books, media, schools, and every means possible. The same is going on now with feminism. Now, their enemy is the patriarchy, and they are convinced that it is a system of oppression designed by men to willfully oppress women and that all men benefit from its structures while it disadvantaged women. Disregarding all the problem men faces in our so-called privilege patriarchy if it exists.

Omar09:


What if one makes his partner sign a contract where they both are married, but once divorced, no property gets to be shared unless the husband was found to be an infidel. Same goes for wife too.

Cause the way sh!ts are going, I don't think I would want to get married.