She wanted to get married by all means this year,we had earlier agreed to make it next year but all of a sudden she became desperate and before i could know it,she started dating a guy in diamond bank whom i guess have agreed to marry her as soon as possible.i knew quite well that she loves me and can swear to that.

What i could not understand in women is what marriage and love meant to them.they love one and marry another.

any way, i told her off on 1st of this month when i found out that she was having a serious affair with the guy(the banker) she claimed to be her school church or fellowship member.

why did you " tell off" the woman you're supposedly inlove with?

well it happens at time if she really love u then she should have waited for you both of u will then plan for a happy home. She's after things that does last(money)

How old is she?

she doesnt luv anymore, cry over it and move on abi u no fine.

@ wonder God will bless u, 4get d gurl n move on even if she comes back reject her a lady or my fiancee 2 be leaving me all because of her age or anything did u complain or say u r not interested again. Wonder God wan show u wonder na him make d gurl 4k up is beta now dan wen u r married pls go 4 beta once dia arms are wide open. Pls remove d love u hav 4 her and pls love with ur head not ur heart.

It's saddening to hear but I must comment on the issue of financial security in marriage.Maybe she was not assured of your financial status.No woman would want to suffer in marriage.That she went off with a banker clearly tells it all.I just pray they both have love for each other because that is paramount in marriage.Never mind.Get a well paid job and be your best.Love will always find you.Cheers!!

bro, i am passing through the same thing here, the girl that fill my heart with joy started dating my friend about some weeks ago. though she hasn't told me yet that it is over between us but i can see strange actions in her behaviour, cried my eyeballs out for this cuz i know i am loosing this girl, though i still love her so much. it hurts!!

shebi i hear say DIAMONDA ARE A GIRL'S BEST FRIEND

ol' boy, u sef been don buy her diamond b4?, lol, maybe she sef don see wia her own go from come now?, lol, worse of all if ur 'poor'

sorry yah!, no mind, soon enuff some one who LOVES YOU FOR YOU will come along!

smart girl

dont worry they will soon fire they guy for 'stealing a wifey'

Just work hard where you are or get a job as soon as you can! or better still 'check out' dont mind those naija girls money is causing serious problems even those church rats!

Man me, you have more money for yourself no more recharge card and sweet sensation you now have time for yourself. Enjoy!! we go show them pepper when the real pepper start flowing

you wish. he ain't gonna get fired. she have her life to live and her choice to make. isn't it bad enough that we can't choose our family when we are all coming to the world and we cannot choose the babies we will have but this one thing we are opportune to choose,boo, i will choose it right.

pally,


learn to keep 2 chicks, the real one and d reserve. Men bankers dont spend much on chicks, guess your story has more too it. Men play as much as you can. girls aint worth d stress.

[color=#990000][/color]so u expected her to keep waiting for yhu while you placed her in the gf and probably sowed yhur wild oats?hmphhh!sowee eniways!

She does not love you.if she love you she will stay not minding whether you are poor or sick.love tolerate patience and also wait,patience is a virtue but only few people have it.look for a girl that is yours,i swear she will never leave you even if heaven and earth pass away.

y do u guyz hav 2 resurect diz? 2007 gosh.

Guy face your future and never give a damn about Gold digger,she never loves you because if she do, she would have wait. stop fooling yourself by saying You can swear to God that she love you.

Atimes wen i see some posts,i feel like goin mad. Just tel me d meanin of dis thread,i tot we creat thread to seek 4 solutions 2 problems,why creatin dis thread wen u knw d problem and d solution? Let nobody blame dat chick again and let nobody comment on dis thread again. @poster,go to church,2day is sunday!

U NKO? _{just couldn't resist}

Battery.:

Atimes wen i see some posts,i feel like goin mad. Just tel me d meanin of dis thread,i tot we creat thread to seek 4 solutions 2 problems,why creatin dis thread wen u knw d problem and d solution? Let nobody blame dat chick again and let nobody comment on dis thread again. @poster,go to church,2day is sunday!

Battery you be craze boi  ooo

@ OP the most unpredictable thing in the world is woman** No need for you to bang your head on the wall because the lady is gone forever*** She is  now a spilt milk so you dont need to cry ** She is gone to where there is enough GOLD for her to dig**

@ OP if you loved her so much, then you should have married her in a timely fashion. She's telling you that she wants to get married and you keep wasting her time. Sometimes, we don't realize what we have until its gone. My advice for you at this time is to: MOVE ON.

why didn't you marry her earlier than now if you truely love her,you think women have time like men? or you want to waste someones daughter in the name of your fake love,even when your poor and have no cash for the wedding? next time first make money before promising a woman marriage.

Is better to put your manhood into good use than going around promising young girls marriage when you know your not capable. The girl has vision,i support her decision

Do you people know the financial status of the poster **Or Is it as easy as ABC to marry a woman*** You cant crucify the poor guy for his unability to marry the babe ontime

@ k-money, then he should have sat the young girl down to tell her about his money woes and not ignore her needs just because he doesn't have money.

Can't he just go to the registry, does wedding have to be so big or expensive ? Even a promise or engagement ring may have helped to resolve the matter.

@K money
Happy sunday. I knw u didnt go 2 church 2day,u didnt come back early 4rm d nite club last nite abi? Am no more in naija o! I dey abroad!

We are here judging them but we dont know their characters***Who knows if the babe in question is the type with BIGGER ASPIRATIONS*** She might be the type that wants the whole world to shake on her wedding day** Even engagement ring wouldnt have  gone  far when aspirations of that lady are much bigger than the guy in question, May be the lady thought waiting for the guy will amount to waiting for the coming of JESUS CHRIST

Battery.:

@K money
Happy sunday. I knw u didnt go 2 church 2day,u didnt come back early 4rm d nite club last nite abi? Am no more in naija o! I dey abroad!

Baba Battery na wa for you!!! how you take know naww*** You go be good babalawo*** Actually am at work doing over time which is going to fetch me my [b]DOUBLE PAY [/b]for working on SUNDAY*** You know I need to quickly complete my[b] DUPLEX  at  LEEKI [/b]and I need to move in there before new year*** So which part of the world you dey naw make we hook up 

So which part of the world you dey naw make we hook up 

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Baba Battery na wa for you!!! how you take know naww*** You go be good babalawo*** Actually am at work doing over time which is going to fetch me my [b]DOUBLE PAY [/b]for working on SUNDAY*** You know I need to quickly complete my[b] DUPLEX  at  LEEKI [/b]and I need to move in there before new year

Me i dey try complete d hse wey my great grandfather leave 4 my grandfather wey my grandfather leave 4 my father and my father com leavam 4 me. I want 2 marry dis yr.

Woman--Money talks, it's unsolved mystery, why do woman choses Money over Love, sad story

@poster move on find another woman

Battery.:

So which part of the world you dey naw make we hook up  Me i dey try complete d hse wey my great grandfather leave 4 my grandfather wey my grandfather leave 4 my father and my father com leavam 4 me. I want 2 marry dis yr.

Good aspiration I beg do am quick and send my I.V for dat your wedding***You too sharp! OMO NA PANASHARP*** You no go allow one banker from Zenith Bank snatch that yah Angel  

wat can i say
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